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Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.

Cold approach is a random guy going up to a random girl, and trying to chat her up. I ask this question because I often see guys talking to girls for 10-15 minutes, and when I ask the guy if he got her number, he said no. I am thinking that this guy is wasting his time, and that he should cut his conversations short. For me, I can sense that a conversation is going nowhere in 20 seconds. People are also generally not very comfortable talking to strangers, which is why I prefer to keep conversations short. If she's into you, she'll give you her number in 1 minute. If not, it won't matter if you talk for 1 hr.

Been chatting with a girl for a few months now and I think she’s interested in me. Just gonna give why I think so

she's drunk texted twice trying to hang out, on Halloween she asked where I was gonna go party, she almost always initiates our conversations, she acted jealous when she saw a pic of my ex, she copies a lot of the slang and phrases I’ll use when I talk, she’s stalked my location on Snapchat and I’m even her number 2 best friend on the app (I know Snapchat gets shit on here but I’m young and I figured I’d throw it out), will tell me random shit about her day, confided in me about some of her private issues, has a ton of inside jokes with me, and will even remember or notice shit about me (she brought up Kanye West and when I asked why she brought him up she mentioned she heard me listening to him a couple weeks ago)

I’m like 99% sure she likes me but I’m also stupid but I also don’t know if I’m even ready to give anyone a chance at this point in my life