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When she says she wants things to happen naturally, am I on hold or being let go?
I’m a 30-year-old guy working night shift security at a hospital, and I’m currently stuck in a nuanced, low-pressure dynamic with a coworker named Bev that I need some perspective on. After getting out of a relationship...
darkcatmax
Xper 4 Age: 30 I had a pleasant conversation with a cashier. Do I go back?
I was at a craft store buying supplies for a project the other day, and the cashier complimented my glasses. I complimented hers, and we ended up chatting for a few minutes. She seemed sweet, it was a pleasant...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my coworker actually interested or am I overthinking her signals?
I have gotten pretty close to a coworker over the past few weeks. When we first exchanged numbers, she’d take forever to text back and even admitted she “forgot” to respond sometimes. Then after she went through some...
Anonymous
(25-29) Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?
I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...
Guttercat8
Xper 1 Age: 23 Is love for everyone?
I just don’t know anymore therapy my whole life. I was diagnosed autistic, I am now 48. My whole life I’ve always wanted to grow old with someone and have a wife. A girl that I was set up with told my friend she thought I...
Dbman99
Xper 2 Age: 48 Should I stay in this controlling relationship or finally leave?
Been dating a girl for 8 months around Jan. things started to go south. I'm just gonna get to it please read this list. As a side note I did meet this great girl at a community event and I really like her. I been debating...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do some guys actually prefer girls who reject them or act distant early on?
I know this sounds crazy but i find that whenever i reject a guy or cancel they try to come back again or resurface with an excuse to reach out. Not obviously talking about the ones with a greater ego. If for instance, i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would I be wrong to confront my friend about her filthy home?
I’m a nurse and quickly became friends with two of my coworkers. We’ll call them T and A. T has a boyfriend and a young child that she lives with. Anyways T was talking about how she has so much laundry and cleaning to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are people right to judge your change when they caused it, and is it fair for people to assume your change was part of the original You?
I've been a little in my head about what other people think about another person around me. I'm not really on good terms with them either, but I think they feel safe around me. Having said that, they tell me about other...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I ask a neighbor to return a long-borrowed item on time?
I lent a neighbor of mine whom I tutor (she is 6 minutes away) a food dehydrator for her baby (she likes the dehydrated bananas). That was about 3 months ago, and I meant to lend it to her for 2 or 3 weeks, because she...
Amy10223
Yoda Age: 69 Should we move to Guernsey with a newborn and leave our families?
My husband is currently going through the interview stages for a Head Gardener position in Guernsey, and it has left us with a difficult decision to make. It could be an amazing opportunity for our family, especially as...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Did I overstep by warning a girl I like about creepy guys in our group?
There's this girl I like in a shared social group. We've spoken frequently on the phone, went on a date; she said a while back, though, she just wants to be friends; I maintained that I liked her, and we gave each other...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get distant and mean when everything was going good?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get mean and distant?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?
I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is my best friend of 13 years suddenly pulling away after flirting?
We’ve been friends 13 years, both had relationships etc and we finally got back into each others lives again in October, he asked me to join his church, meet his friends and family.. the first few months we texted daily,...
mel725
Xper 1 Age: 35 Is my ex best friend right to call this driver a predator and SA?
My ex best friend and I were out drinking at a restobar with some guys (We're both 20, the guys are 24-26). I told her to stick to beer because her capacity sucks, but she drank vodka (I let her because she's had it...
Anonymous
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