1 mo

Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?

I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke

He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the trust issues he had with me because one night I went out for brunch and ended up staying out later than planned with my friend

He wouldn't ever answer phone calls, or facetime

He said he had ADHD so asked for me to be understanding and patient which I was, I even did some research. He said I'm not understanding and he feels everything deeper because of his ADHD. I've been patient with this guy for two months and every time he accused me I would back up exactly what I'm doing

He would accuse me constantly, and I would always show proof of what I'm up to or doing and then he would say I'm messing with his feelings

I told him I was going for a drink with my brother at the rugby club and somehow I've turned out to be the bad person, he told me I was a head fuck and that's why we never met. He said I'm clearly the sort of girl that loves attention and would make him insecure in a relationship.

This is him right and not me?

I was in an area where I had no phone signal, and when my phone finally got signal I had messages from him telling me I'm up to no good and that I don't realise what my silence does to him. Beforehand we were messaging as normal so I then sent him a bunch of screenshots of where I was and the lack of signal and he ignored me for 24hrs. I asked him to calm down and try to see it from my point of view and I've ended up being the bad person yet again?

He wasn't a catfish, he would send me selfies and videos and sometimes voice notes

My mind is blown by this situation. After he accused me of flirting with guys when going for a drink with my brother, I stopped replying. It hurt too much and then he's blocked me.

It's just weird.

Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?
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