Do some guys actually prefer girls who reject them or act distant early on?

[Anonymous]

I know this sounds crazy but i find that whenever i reject a guy or cancel they try to come back again or resurface with an excuse to reach out. Not obviously talking about the ones with a greater ego. If for instance, i rejected them for something they will try again somehow with an excuse. Or if i do not respond right away they will double-text you or point out that i didn’t read their previous message.

On the other hand, it seems that if you are nice and reply to their messages they think you are readily available so stop putting in any effort. It is not really to do with you, just that you said yes to a date or continued to text them until they got bored. Then they hibernate like a bear in their den for some time.

Then these guys remember me again when i stop texting them and try to continue the relationship as if the silence was never there. I never cared to ask why and it could be that there were other options but i also think they like you more if you are a bitch to them. If that makes sense… lol

[SueShe]

Men like a challenge. If you give up too easily, it is not motivating to them because they know they can get into your pants right away. That may be OK for the shy person that does not like to be rejected but knows he can get a free meal with those girls that don't resist.

There are some men that like a little resistance and that are really pushing the limits because they want to get the prize at all costs. But those will also be the ones that will drop you like a hot potato once they got what they wanted.

It all boils down to one thing. Fornicating and then forgetting the victim and concentrating on the next one.

[Asker]

Though i have also seen a lot of men that drop the ball when you don’t respond right away or reject intimacy for any reason. Or lie and try to guilt into giving them what they want because they went the distance not to see other women. As if women are lined up for them