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So I have a situation with a guy friend, we have known each other for 3 years.

A little while back we started chatting about our sex lives and preferences. I noticed he kept saying if we did x when he was asking about positions etc. He then started to touch more giving me shoulder massages.

Last week he was trying to get me on bumble and was picking pictures he saw some sexy ones I had sent to an ex and wanted to see them and more, the tension was crazy and he told me he jacked off to the pics and that we had crazy sexual tension. Is he just listing now or does he actually like me (not just sexually)

We have known each other for 3 years we haven't only talked about sex only lately in the last month or two. Before this we got on well, he would walk me home from nights out sometimes, he would ask what food or drink I liked, movies, holidays life etc.

My cousin is transgender, and I suspect the guy I was talking to had a sexual interest in transgender women based on things I noticed about him. I opened up to her about how his actions, along with other things he did, left me feeling hurt, unattractive, and not good enough. He ghosted me, and on top of that, I realized he had other sexual preferences that I wasn’t aware of.

I shared my feelings with my cousin, but I still have conflicting emotions about it all. At one point, I even asked her to look at his social media to see if I had missed anything, but then I told her to forget it because I didn’t fully trust her. I worried she might talk about me behind my back, and the thought of that triggered a breakdown because, despite everything, I still have strong feelings for him and just want to feel like I’m enough for him.

However, she went ahead and looked anyway. I found out through my mother that my cousin had not only checked his social media but even attempted to reach out to him. When I confronted my mother, she dismissed my feelings and defended my cousin, saying she would never do anything like that—despite her actions proving otherwise. My mother then tried to gaslight me, saying things like, “I’m sure you’ve done things too,” which was incredibly hurtful.

It broke my heart because I would never betray a family member like that or try to interfere with someone they had been involved with.