Honest answers please?

[Anonymous]

So I have a situation with a guy friend, we have known each other for 3 years.

A little while back we started chatting about our sex lives and preferences. I noticed he kept saying if we did x when he was asking about positions etc. He then started to touch more giving me shoulder massages.

Last week he was trying to get me on bumble and was picking pictures he saw some sexy ones I had sent to an ex and wanted to see them and more, the tension was crazy and he told me he jacked off to the pics and that we had crazy sexual tension. Is he just listing now or does he actually like me (not just sexually)

We have known each other for 3 years we haven't only talked about sex only lately in the last month or two. Before this we got on well, he would walk me home from nights out sometimes, he would ask what food or drink I liked, movies, holidays life etc.

Sexual only

Attracted/ something more

[Anonymous]

The way you are describing it. If he is jerking off to your pictures that is telling you it's a red flag he's after you just for sex.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

More than 90% of guys are looking for a sexual relationship.

[Asker]

Oh I hear you girl! It's tough out here

[Opinion Owner]

What type of sexy pictures are they

[Asker]

So they were pics and vids I sent to an ex boyfriend because we were long distance. So think super sexy

[Wise4myage]

He's just out to get his dick wet.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome. Sorry if I was to direct.

[Asker]

Not at all, I appreciate you being direct. I was trying to decipher everything and break it all down thinking if he did actually like me or just got horny these last two months

[Wise4myage]

Well, everyone gets horny right? But he seems over the top.

[Asker]

Damn straight it came out of nowhere. We are able to chill together and chat normally it just caught me by surprise and we got wrapped up in it

[Wise4myage]

I see. Well make sure he knows how you feel.

[Asker]

I will try. I guess part of me hoped it was something more. Thank you for the honesty!

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome, and maybe more could happen. But make sure its at your own pace.

[Wise4myage]

Thanks.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Sounds like he actually likes you in addition to sexualy. I've had kinda the same situation happen to me except i was the guy. One day i said something about how fucking hard she made me every time i saw her without thinking and before i could delete it on snap she saw it and asked if i wanted to come chill at her new apt and the rest is history. We had many many nights and days like that fucking all of our energy out. All because i blurted something out, letting my cock do my thinking for a moment. We're still really good friends it actually brought us closer together