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I've done some thinking and I've realized that my parents never raised me. They provided all the time but they didn't teach me things, spend time with me and when they did, my father never had 1 nice word, and when I say not 1 nice word, I mean not 1 nice word.

Every time, he scolds me over the tiniest thing and side-eye's at me, praying he finds something to scold me for again.

My mom is entirely submissive to him and joins in, despite her actually showing that she cares for me, unlike my dad who if my mom left him, would've been more than happy to leave me and my brother to fend for ourselves.

For this reason, it has been 16 years since I ate at a dinner table with them. I always took food to my room to avoid my fathers threats to beat me, him yelling at me me to shut up when I asked how his day was, and since my mom always got home hours after he did, he could treat me as bad as he wanted.

Once I grew and started going to the gym, his threats stopped. But his scolding remains, I dream of punching him in the face and telling him he's the worst father in the world.

I'm at my wits end with my father, I hate being around him, he's angry, he never says one nice thing and he's even gone as far as to ask my mother if I even need my medicine for my Cystic Fibrosis.

I am only just now realizing on my own, all that I missed out on from them giving up on me making it to 20 years old when I was born with Cystic Fibrosis. I love my mother, she's stood by me through everything but she just didn't have it in her to raise me at all.

She never even tried to raise me, she just insulted me until I was too big. And once I became a gun owner, he became afraid of me.

He should be, he pressed his hand against my head, calling me an embarrassment of a son and warning me not to test him as his breath reeked of beer one night camping when I was 11. If he did that again now, I'd show him who the weak one always was: Him

Did your parents raise you?

To sum this up. I love that woman is not afraid to eat and keep her self fed and healthy. Plus curves on a woman make her look fertile. And attractive. Plus the mindset can be much more relaxed and free instead of overwhelmed by the unrealistic expectations of media or super restricting diets

I don't know what but ever since I been raised by a mom that is constantly obsessed with being thin as a fucking twig and all the struggle and next to nothing eating she goes through just trying to drop 5 lbs, I just don't see a need in it.
That's why I like to eat whenever I feel like and whatever I feel like in combination with lifting and excersize. That's part of the reason I'd rather my girlfriend be just comfortable with what she eats and wants to eat. I wouldn't want her trying ridiculously hard and pushing her self to lose pounds. I get how hard and tiring that is. Plus, honestly, I really like curves on a woman. Yes, even cellulite. Simply because it shows me that woman eats well and keeps her body from looking like a walking carcass. With all this said of course, you can guess I'm a lazy motherfucka that hardly works out a lot, but I do like what I like. A woman like this id help her do anything any meal she wants to make together I'm down for it, if she wants help changing her diet I'm up for it too but I sure as hell wouldn't want her to be bone thin and weak

This question was inspired by another recent question from a female who was hurt because her man said he would want a paternity test if they had kids. Whether or not most people realize it, paternity fraud is very common today. Most studies have shown about one in ten children is raised by a man who thinks he is the biological father but is not.

Should it become the norm for mothers to just offer to do a paternity test without being asked, so the father is not put in that awkward position of having to asking for one or wonder for the rest of his life whether he is the actual father? It would be a gesture of love that shows she is loyal and appreciates her man’s commitment and trust and doesn’t want him to ever have a reason to question hers.

Should this become the norm? Or would women be against it to show solidarity with the many mothers who cheated and hid it from their husbands, children, and the real fathers?