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28F, I just came back from a convention where I met a good amount of famous people (even some men from my favorite shows, band etc) & I was pretty laxed. For the most part they were all attractive, at times I had a hard time making eye contact but got better as I met more people. But for the average “fan girl” I was pretty chill, now why is it when I meet average men in my caliber I get so tense? They’re not nearly as wealthy, well known & while a few average men I met were decent looking they’re no where close to the celebs looks wise. I know it’s b/c it’s a superficial interaction & will become nothing more with the celebs, there’s nothing riding on it vs meeting men from the dating apps & potentially being in a LTR with one. The day before the convention I was talking to someone from the dating app for about 2 weeks & it was going okay but when we met in person I just wasn’t feeling it, was there about 15 min but dipped out b/c the drinks were taking too long & I didn’t want him to spend money on me, waste each other’s time & I had a long day. Being as old as I am & still never have been in a LTR is a red flag, especially when it’s conflicting since people say you’re attractive but men don’t notice you 🤷🏻‍♀️

He went out on sat and got a new Instagram follower. I know he didn’t sleep with a girl that night. He was meant to come over Saturday but used the excuse I annoyed him and he was too pissed off. He did leave in a mood

But on Monday and Tuesday he always goes to the gym with his friend and he wasn’t there. Was he away seeing whoever from sat

He keeps swearing to me he’s not talking to anyone from sat. He does massively struggle to get female attention but he is willing to settle.

He then was supposed to come up last night and said I’d pissed him off so never did. Then never went to the gym again

Is he away seeing someone or am I overthinking. He does go see his friends outside of the friend he goes to the gym with but he always makes time for the gym. His friend does occasionally not post him in the gym photos but he recorded himself so he wasn’t here. He does go to his friends band practice a lot too but why say yoyll come over if you were doing that?