A guy I'm friends with told me yesterday several occasions where people, strangers and people I kind of know have talked bad about me behind my back
I'm a very socially awkward person but I'm always kind to everyone. Few examples that he told me
Some random guy told him explicitly how weird I am and that we couldn't find anything to talk about in a group of people where we talked outside and that he was glad when I was gone 🙃
On a festival a girl came up to him and told him that I just stood there like a tree apparently at the concert. Like why is that a bad thing? Do I have to feel every band? Why are people watching me like that and why is it fine when other people just stand there but not for me?
Then some other guy has also told him apparently at that same festival that I was a strange girl or something but I don't remember the reason
He also told me about an occasion where his friend saw me talking with some guy and that I looked really uncomfortable apparently when I wasn't.
Like why are people always watching and judging me like that? I don't do that. I'm literally trying my best to just exist and then it all gets torn apart. Why do people treat me like this. Everyone thinks I'm weird. If it wasn't for my looks people would probably call me creepy as well. I'm so embarrassed like I just want to be normal
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People usually judge others harshly based on exterior so maybe you just need to start looksmaxing? Iono. Maybe they're horrible people who's opinion doesn't matter much? Maybe. Hard to know since I have no idea who you are, what you're like, what you looks like, etc.
This one is easy!
You must be very pretty. If you looked awkward, no one would be trying to figure you out. Your body language is keeping your personality a secret and most people don't know what to do with that kind of conflicting information when trying to judge a person's character.
Damn all of them?
So you must look HELLA awkward or if you're attractive maybe you stand out more to them because of that so they see you be awkward. And why is it that everyone is telling your friend that they think you're weird. Isn't that strange.