Search Results: worried about his past

2 mo

His texts suddenly dropped off after we got closer—should I be worried?

I've been seeing this guy for a month now and we still talk everyday and I was just over at his place 2 days ago and had stayed the night but it's like the responses aren't how they were? (A little context) We used to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My 2nd Date - Update

2nd Date Update: The Cake, The German "Freak," and some Dark Humour... Warning: Some dark, sensitive historical jokes ahead. We both have a very dark sense of humor, so hope it won’t offend anyone here! So we had our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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I think my boyfriend’s friend is trying to break us up, what do I do?

basically, me and my boyfriend have grown extremely close, leading to us spending a lot of time together. I've always tried to encourage him to hang out with his friends too, and he does, seeing them every day. they don’t...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

My closest guy friend claims he likes me but forgets to answer my texts consistently. What's his deal?

He and I have been friends for years now, and to be completely honest there have been times where it started feeling like it was/could be more than that but neither of us ever acted on it. Recently, I've been making it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So my boyfriend is always asking me questions. Which I understand that he cares, however one answer will trigger into many questions?

So for context, if I’m dealing with personal (women things) I’m trying to make sense of the changes in my body, he sees that I’m worried, then will ask, “hey are you okay?” I’ll tell him yes, I’m fine just need to do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Would you feel it's morally right to leave a cheater even though he has made sure you had everything and been a provider?

Been married for around 8 years and have concluded that my husband will never change. He's a repetitive cheater, he does not come home some days, gets every other day drunk, and doesn't like me questioning him or trying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Worried of boyfriend delayed texts. what does this mean?

I have been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. things were great in the beggining, we'd call and chat every day non-stop and hed say "luv u gn sweetie~" texts. the past few days I've been having anxiety because im...

BeesandtheRain

Xper 1 Age: 18

Why is my flat mate acting weird?

My flat mate and I got along well. He’s usually friendly and happy. He kept making flirty comments so I jokingly asked him if he was trying to flirt with me. He told me he thinks I’m beautiful etc. We ended up messing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys who dated many girls in the past are cheaters? Right or wrong? & Why?

I was chatting with a random guy I met online. We seemed to connect well because we have a lot in common. Our conversations are sweet and playful, and he has a good sense of humor. I inquired about his dating experiences,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Lack of interest from a guy?

Hi guys! I have been seeing this guy for 4 months, our dates are great and he uses to initiate contact most of the times and proposes dates. Lately he has been taking a bit longer to respond to my texts. After dates, we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my boyfriend controlling or am I in the wrong?

So recently I have been feeling stressed and overwhelmed. I haven't been taking care of myself well these past few days. My boyfriend has been feeling tired lately because of his work and his lack of sleep. When he's not...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What steps forward should I make with this situation?

I admit that what I did was wrong overall, but we both clearly need to work on this. A few months into our relationship, my partner became emotionally distant and stopped being intimate without explanation. I tried to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell him he doesn't need to stress himself and meet my every emotional need?

To make this as clear as possible, my boyfriend and I faced personal challenges early in our relationship that caused miscommunication and stress. Initially, I worried he was love-bombing me, but after addressing it, we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a man says he has feelings for you but that he doesn’t love you?

I’ve been seeing a guy for around 2 years, 6 months ago I felt him distancing from me, this worried me and I relised I loved him. I confronted him and told him I felt love for him, his reply was “I don’t love you, I’m...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I mourn the person he used to be?

Firstly please be kind when responding to this, I am very sensitive right now and don't need any hateful or rude comments. How do I move on from and mourn the loss of the person my ex boyfriend use to be? When I met him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I confess to my boy best friend (again) or just silently give up?

Hi everyone! So we met back in college and it’s been about 10 years. I had a crush when we first met and I confessed after a year ish of knowing each other, but he said that he wanted to keep our friendship the same and...

itsmemarissa

Xper 1 Age: 31

Should I be worried that my boyfriend is deleting messages to his female friend?

We’ve had an issue with one girl since the beginning of our relationship because of texts I saw in the past. I was able to get over it and move on but yesterday I saw he deleted their entire Instagram conversation. In the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can a 25 year old guy that’s generally attracted to 18-21 year olds want a 27 year old?

A guy I’m interested in that has shown some interest in me generally goes for younger girls around 18-21. I knew he didn’t have anything against older girls because he had supported posts of not judging girls in their...

Anonymous

(25-29)