Guys who dated many girls in the past are cheaters? Right or wrong? & Why?

Question

I was chatting with a random guy I met online. We seemed to connect well because we have a lot in common. Our conversations are sweet and playful, and he has a good sense of humor. I inquired about his dating experiences, and he mentioned that he had several girlfriends in the past, but those relationships never really worked out. For him, it was more about attraction rather than love. He has been single for a few years now. After hearing that, I felt a bit anxious since I never dated anyone yet, so I ghosted him. He didn't double text me. After two days, I got back to him, and he mentioned that "I had ghosted him". I explained that I was busy with exams, which was why I hadn’t replied, and I also told him I would message him in a few months due to my exams. He wished me good luck, but I didn't reply further; I just reacted to his message and then ghosted him again. Did I make the right decision or not? 😶 I need some advice! By the way, I'm 19, and he’s 24.
At first , I had a little crush on him but now I'm worried because of his past. Coz what I see , guys who dated many girls are players.🤷

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Guys your age in real life have no intention to stick around .*Not all guys are this way*

They will say what ever you want to hear do what they do and leave. It's the same as guys on line is what I've been told.

I like to role play but looking for 1. A role play partner long term and see where it goes from there but there are hard to find.

But there are a lot of girls who are trying to save themselves for marriage. And have a hard time dating because guys are so pushy . And then they want to fight or argue . about it and then break up

So through roleplay they get to experience a type of relationship that they can't in real life because all of the above

But to answer your question. It depends on the guy and the girl but there is no Guarantee what's going to happen and for how long.

There is a must for all girls and guys.
Learn how to read them listen to there words sometimes it's not what they say. It's more on what they didn't say, if you can look in to there eyes as they are speaking that will tell you everything about them. If you can't then listen to there voice or there words and what and how they are saying it.

There is a app that I go to role play and there are guys on there that pretend they are girls . I still don't understand why they do it I believe they're mentally fucking ill. But they get cought everytime.. Just like on here I can tell when guys are pretending to be girls when they answer questions. They to are Mentally ill.

And it sucks because many people are looking for answers. And girls will listen to other girls or they want to know how other girls might feel about something and 1 ,2 maybe 3 Anonymous pages will answer a question and give the most stupidest answers because they are sick. Or hate women
Sorry I know this has nothing to do with your question but taking the Opportunity to say Gag why do you allow it

And at the sametime try to teach you there are ways to find out if the person your interested in is being real with you

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

No. This is absolutely incorrect. The number of ex's means nothing. It's whether he was faithful in those relationships. That matters. A guy who has had a lot of girlfriends is no more likely to cheat than someone with no girlfriends.

It's actually a good thing. Relationships take work. They take compromise. They take thinking of someone else's feelings. These are things it's good for a guy to have some practice with.

The idea that because his past relationships didn't work out, yours won't either is... absurd. That is just not how people and relationships work. Everybody has ex's (most people). You will to. You just haven't been dating long enough.

Maybe 1% of people are with their first relationship for the rest of their lives (less actually, way less).

You need to rethink your entire view on this. It is wrong, and is doing you a huge disservice.

🙂

777GgG · Accepted Answer

The red fag is him being in it for the attraction not the love. there are men who've only had one partner and cheated. There are men who've had several short term flings then stayed faithful to one woman.

My partner told me how many girlfriends he's had, but when I asked about his longest relationship prior to me nothing was longer than 4 months. in my opinion that's typically a fling not a relationship. So for me the number wasn't really worrisome it was the lack of longevity.

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

Well if he didn't date them all at the same time, I wouldn't say so. Some people just have a hard time being alone, or he's emotionally immature. You could always ask what he's looking for in your contact...

Finchie40 · Answer

Wrong , How does that make him a cheater? Most people have exes that the relationship didn’t work out and they both went their separate ways , doesn’t make them a cheater at all, A cheater is a person that screws other people while being in a relationship with someone already. Having failed relationships doesn’t mean cheating was involved period. Unless you know for a Fact that they cheated on their exes while they were in a relationship with them. Overall not every relationship ends because of cheating , relationships end for other reasons as well.

Shiprex · Answer

Not all guys who flit from one partner to the next are cheaters but if they aren't into what you seem to want which is a relationship then best to avoid them. There are men out there who are interested in being in relationships but you are still young at 19 and that's early for seeking something long term but not invalid of course.

Are you making a mistake by ghosting? Not really you warned him about the time frame of your life so you seem to be doing things right for you. If he is still around when you're ready then crack on but don't hold your breath.

molonski2 · Answer

NO , you made a very poor decision and an assumption , and now that decision will cost you , thats a poor decision.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

No idea really.. it would be hard to trust that he is capable of anything long term and he may just be a player but you will never know?

Anonymous · Answer

He's probably a fboy. Women always go for those types and after they're used, they say that they were fooled even though everyone else could see from a mile away.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you feel the same if roles are reversed? Are women who date many men cheaters?

In_Trance · Answer

whatever works for you

moneymagnet24 · Answer

I agree with you

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