Dad replies, "son, being a fish in a sea of beautiful female fish is a warzone.. the male fish betray each other over these females because it is highly competitive.
to make the sea even more treacherous, especially these days where this new phenomenon is more accepted. - no longer are male fish to be worried about, because nowadays a lot of these girl fishes like to swim together, and some don't even want to be with male fish for the remainder of their lives, instead preferring the company of girl fish over one-day laying eggs to keep the balance and the possibilities for us lonely guy fish. I had a buddy who bit right into a hook on purpose because he gave up on finding a female to mate with.
So, the lucky ones who find a mate, truly love their very own female fish, and appear to =tke them for granted or not appreciate how fortunate they are to not be lonely. However, it is in our male nature to seize the opportunity to experience a blessing which so many fish, die, forgotten, never managing to find their female companion..
life in the sea is not fair son, and even though these men cheat, it is closer to being justified because it is just hard as hell to get a good girl fish. In fact, nearly every beautiful and seemingly perfect fish already has a mate.
so is it okay to cheat? It is not right, but one thing I can assure you is that girl fish whose partner wanted to fool around doesn't know that infidelity shed light on 3 things, it was truly sex, not love, 2, it broke the curse of curiosity, 3 and most importantly, the experienc illuminated a truth:
that there are sex female fish that we want to sleep with, but only one girl fish that we want to go to sleep next to, and wake up next to, and any time they sleep with each other before sleeping next to, it was always a greater experience because those fish love and understand each other after long days swimming around in the warzone, aka the Mariana trench.
_________________________________________________________________ opposite story from female fish view,
Female Fish "you know there used to be a sardine I thought was the one. One day, somehow Iswam with a sturgeon in secret, and well, your father, he replaced that sardine and I'm surprised I haven't forgotten that sardine after all these years. Dad fish, "How could you forget? the day you left his ass, you may as well have thrown a battery into his water.
Female fish, oh yeah, poor guy, the second you came into my life, I knew sardines were not for me.
I love that little kid and what he is saying is so right in a lot of cases men or at least 70 % of them are pigs , from what I see most of them want there cake and eat it too, but it goes both ways I think both get bored and then if they argue do use it for an excuse. Then what they use it for an excuse did they become Liars because then they go home to their spouse as if nothing even happened and pretend that they're going to get away with it most of the time they know that they were wrong but do not go back and do it again and then come back home again and pretend nothing's wrong until when did he get caught and then they deny it so they play you as a fool all the way through because they think they're smarter and they think just because they deny it makes it not true if you're not getting along, then in the relationship. Because now you have your relationship it's going to end anyway then you cheated and lies it hurt that other person even more I've never gotten it but that poster of that kid is the truth for sure
FEAR, ILLNESS, LUST, OVERWHELMED, UNSURE, UNAWARE, WANTING SOMETHING AT THE TIME THINK YOU WANT BECOMES ADDICTION, BEING JUST AS DICIEVED AS YOU ARE BEING DECIVING SO IT BECOMES UNREALISTIC BUT FEELS REALISTIC AND GENUINE IN THE MOMENT BUT WHAT STARTS BASED ON LIES STAYS A GENUINE LIE NOT A GENUINE TRUTH HOW IS SOMETHING SO FAKE TURNED TO SOMETHING GENUINELY TRUE LOVE ITS NOT ITS ALL IMAGINARY LATER REALIZED THAT YOU MADE THE PERFECT PERSON PERFECT LOVE OF YOUR LIFE WAS ALL A MADE UP IMAGINARY HAPPILY EVER AFTER THE ONE ORIGINALLY BEING DECIVED AND LAUGHED AT GETS THE LAST LAUGH BECAUSE WHAT YOU THOUGHT YOU HAD FOUND WHILE CHEATING WAS IMAGINARY FROM THE START! THINK ABOUT WHATS REAL AND WHAT YOUR MAKING UP BEFORE HURTING ONES WHO DON'T DESERVE IT! ALL FOR PRETEND! YOU WANT THAT BUY LEGOS AND ACTION FIGURES!
Why do "people" cheat? *Some people cheat because they're selfish and think only of their happiness or their wants or needs... *Some people get a thrill from what's forbidden... *Some people think if you're not married, it's not cheating, but to me if you gotta Sneak or lie to do it, you know you doing something wrong.. But not "all" men cheat, and not just men cuz some women be doing it too
Some people cheat when it comes to eating muffins, for example i ate 5 muffins and told miss brains that i ate only 1, so she gives me more MORE muffins 🤤🧁
Same reason women cheat: because they decide the pleasure of cheating is worth the potential pain of getting caught. I mean it's deeper than that, but fundamentally that's what it boils down to. Where things get complicated is the individual circumstances leading up to that decision. No two cheaters are exactly the same, but they all share the essential trait of believing they have something to gain from cheating, and they have convenient excuse to rationalise the disloyalty. So, take from that as you may. Cheaters can eat a bag of dicks either way, a man or woman with integrity would place "honouring their relationship" way above any passing temptations. It all comes back to integrity. Why do cheaters cheat? They voluntarily abandon integrity, or never had it to start with. Why do they abandon/lack integrity? Coz they're cheaters. Chicken, meet egg...
Men cheat because they aren’t satisfied or aren’t happy in a relationship. Also, because they think there’s better options out there. However, they either don’t want to be single or aren’t sure who’s better to be with so instead of breaking up which I think is the best option, they cheat.
If there’s something in the relationship that isn’t going right, just communicate with your partner but often times, people don’t know when/how or aren’t comfortable telling their partner what’s going on. Also, if something isn’t going right it’s better to break up and seek someone else but not cheat on someone. Cheating is betrayal.
I am not being facetious but I would open it up to say why would anyone cheat in a relationship? - Do guys do it more, maybe? - Is it socially easier/acceptable for a man than a woman to cheat? Social norms , a guy does it, he is a player - A woman does it, she is a slut, a homebreaker etc In nature, protecting the bloodline probably puts unfair pressure on the female. Ok , they are just observations to why it may seem more likely to be a guy cheating. Do I condone cheating, absolutely not. Do I understand the reason for it, no. If it based on personal history , I believe all guys are not bad and hope you meet a good guy soon - Best of luck
They think.. (ME EXCLUDED) and fuck the bro code when you reach my age there's no mother fucking bro code... Grass maybe greener on the other side.. can get away with it.. .
But on the other side of the coin.. Why the fuck do you cheat? Our dicks aren't big enough? We dont satisfy you enough? we dont put the mother fucking toilet seat down? We dont like your mother because she nitpicks? You think we purposely forget birthdays and anniversaries? You dont like how we clean the bathrooms? Or burn dinner when we ATTEMPT to cook? you can give us a million reasons.. and so we can give the same!!
if a man he's going to cheat... i thought give him all the blowjobs he wants they still cheat on you... it's fruitless... as they say a good man is hard to find... but who cheats more men or women? i don't that answer... but i've seen many a good looking girl get cheated on by a so so man and not the other way around i could be biased
Hundreds have been interviewed and given their reasons for cheating. It's actually interesting to read the surveys and see the reasons given, in order to better understand men and women.
at least I found it interesting. If you know the top 3 reasons men or women cheat and you simply setup an environment where those issues don't exist, then you've radically reduced the likelihood of it happening to you in your lifetime
There are good men out there still, you just gotta find the right one. If anything, from my perspective, I’ve experienced more of my homegirls being hoes, cheating, and not caring. But by the way this generation is heading, both males and females don’t seem to give a fuck about people 🤷🏽♀️
Some guys I know have cheated to get back at their partners, but that is definitely in a minority compared to those who cheat because their partner is not good in bed, or they just want to try someone new, personally I would never cheat though so I may not be the most reliable source, but I have had a few friends talk to me about it.(only one cheated for revenge)
Men are more sexual beings than women. Most men have the desire to have sex with a lot of women.
I think most men can't control those desires. It's a weakness and men should be more responsible and practice self control. If you can't do that, at least be honest about that before you get in a relationship. (Same for women).
No, why do cheaters cheat, period. I would never cheat. And I see it happening in front of of me. Makes me sick. They are selfish and do not care who they hurt, as long as the get what they want. Sometimes you are just a back up. It's so messed up. These men are usually the "bad boys" women fall for, then get surprised that they get hurt by them.
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I have friends who cheat and ones who don't the thing that sets them apart is that those who don't just swear they'll never cheat the ones who do believe in things like a man can't be with one woman. Cheaters (or at least the ones I know) go into the relationship fully aware they're going to cheat for them it's a lifestyle choice.
I think the fundamental reason is there don't care about the "rules" enough and they seem just arbitrary to them and or they don't really care about the people they hurt .. .
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Same reason gals do.
Well if she wants a camshaft and only has a intake valve size. Well 🤷♂️. Some neither satisfied and goes for a piston. Then, what? Needs a rebuild because over time it got wear and tear. Needs new size piston and rings to get it tighter but damn 😂 synthetic oil is the best choice.
Now you know vehicle are just like females. Not knowing what the hell she wants.
I cheat if im not proud of my girlfriend. Like if she's a piece of shit i just cannot commit to her. My current girlfriend is 18 and a virgin and very attractive and a good home maker. Super proud of her. I've turned down 3 girls already since i met her. Now if she was a 27 year old single mom with a career... you can bet id not have said no to those girls. Lmfao.
They’re not content with the woman they’re with. There are a lot of options and if a man isn’t seriously willing to commit himself to one woman before he meets that “one” woman then he’ll never see the reason not to cheat.
A few reasons. -They never intended to be boyfriend/girlfriend in the first place. It sounded like a good idea at the time. -They do not know how to say No. -They’ve grown tired of you -They’re sex addicts
-Cheat because their spouse cheated. -Cheat because they want their girlfriend to dump them. - girlfriend could be crazy & they hope said girlfriend will see they’re not worth it. -They have are narcissists and only think of themselves -Some are con-artists. They actually get a thrill from cheating.
Either they are with the wrong lady, OR they are with the right one, but too LAZY to work on the relationship. ALL relationships take work. No two people have the same opinions all the time...
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Anonymous
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Men and women both cheat and for the same reason... they are not satisfied in their relationship.
The interesting thing to me is how people assume men are the only ones who cheat when the facts show women actually cheat more than men are your age.
If I ever cheated it wouldn’t really be cheating because it would be informed two timing, but that’s never gonna happen. But many men are trash and just looks, that’s why.
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Same reasons women do. Poor impulse control, not being fulfilled in their relationship, always wanting more than they currently have, temporary lapse in values caused by emotional distress...
They weren't brought up right. Just like women who cheat*, I find them disgusting. *Women who cheat and force the real partner to raise/pay for another man's child earns a special degree of hatred, though.
For a variety of reasons that are different for each relationship I’m sure but I honestly think they can’t help it how else do you explain a guy cheating on a 10 with a 5 🤷♀️
I think most people get into a relationship without actually having real feelings for the person? So it's easy to be lead astray by other potential partners
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Anonymous
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Some guys want sex far more than they want a relationship. R's are just a way to get sex.
For those guys, R's don't mean anything. Or rather, they don't mean as much as sex.
If another chance at sex appears, they will go for it.
I was hoping for a description to help explain but it seems you didn't want to. My simple answer is that you are terrible at explaining and your man left you for someone who can use their mouth better. (Pun not intended)
I think it's because they are messed up a bit and because they feel unhappy with the relationship. Most guys just want to have sex to keep them happy. If they don't get it, they get bored and move on to try their luck with the next girl.
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Anonymous
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Same reason women cheat.. Pure selfishness combined with being incapable of loving anyone but them selves.
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oh and that image.. Women are just as bad as men when it comes to being dead beats and cheaters.. the sexism is strong with it.
I wanna add a more point to the most liked girl comment... guys are more selfish... also woman are very competitive to seduce them... look at the society... girls are more focused to enlarge them butt And boobs rather than study...
Lack of affection from their spouse, no intimacy... the list goes on. Is cheating right? Definitely not. Women cheat as well, I know some very loyal men.
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