Why do guys cheat in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to read comments saying “I don’t cheat, I don’t cheat on my gf”

For the guys that have cheated I want to know your reasons? And why you end up looking for other females to mess around.

i know some have an affair , some actually go all out to having a second relationship and other look for escorts. They still don’t leave their panther.

[MikeInHawaii]

Men and women both have instincts to maximize their reproductive capacities. For women, who have a capacity of about one child per year, they focus on quality and want strong healthy children. It’s why the find jocks appealing, even if they act like chest thumping, strutting ass holes and treat them like toilet paper.

A man is theoretically capable of impregnating every woman on Earth. A man maximizes his reproductive capacity by focusing on quantity over quality, and impregnating as many women as possible. Ghingas Khan is believed to have had over 3,500 children.

In fact, males of several species, including humans, are most aroused by females they haven’t had before. It’s called the Coolidge Effect. After all, having sex with a female he has already impregnated is a waste of energy for males.

Now, some questions for you. Why do women go out with men who have cheated on other women, or are cheating, and act surprised when they get cheated on? Since Bill Clinton, John Kennedy, Elvis Presley and Tiger Wood were all very public figures, were many of the thousands of women they slept with ignorant of the fact they were married?

[exitseven]

I was in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend wanted to save it until marriage. I had the opportunity to have sex with somebody at a party and I did it bacause there was no way my girlfriend would ever find out and I did not know if I would ever get the opportunity again.

[Asker]

Was it a one time thing or you continued to cheat?

[exitseven]

it was a one off. I nevver saw her again and can barely remember her name. I regretted it too.

[Asker]

Can you tell me why you regret it? Was the sex not worth it ,?

[exitseven]

the sex was not good. I think she liked it more than I did. i just felt empty afterwards.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[FallonSamuels]

Men are insatiable and greedy creatures. They see something good and want to explore it. I believe it’s also because since the beginning of time; society has always granted men a free-pass to do as they please - from treating women as nothing more than a baby breeding machine to openly cheating however they saw fit. To my understanding, this has most likely carried over generations and essentially became the norm. Most men who cheat are very much insecure and resort to cheating in an attempt to feed their need to feel validated. That’s just my opinion, I could be wrong

[sw1916]

And women don’t do this?

[Clutterfunk]

Aha sure woman was not being treated right before but now they have the same rights as men and they even cheat for such BS things

1 he is too short
2 he have small penis
3 he is not wealthy
And the list goes on

[FallonSamuels]

@Clutterfunk some women do that yes, but the question only asked about men. Hence why my answer only focused on that

[FallonSamuels]

@sw1916 women can definitely do that too. But the question focuses on men and hence why my answer is mostly focused on men

[FallonSamuels]

@Clutterfunk we sure have the same rights to some extent. But the double standards are still prevalent. When a guy sleeps around it’s seen as normal and it’s more celebrated, but when a woman happens to have the same morals as a guy it becomes bizarre and she gets called a slut or hoe. Now tell me, where’s the equality in all of this?

[FilmGuy93]

People who cheat in relationships are doing it because they aren't being emotionally fulfilled by their partner for some reason. Men often find themselves in situations with women where they don't feel like they have the ability to talk about things or genuinely express their needs without the woman overpowering the discussion.

[Guy13]

Both man/woman are of a fallen Nature, therefore, their is no Good in them. Both man/women cheat. We also lie, steal, cheat, unrighteously kill over covetous wants of others, and from general lusts.

[maximumpower]

Making the crime fit the punishment.
Tired of relationship that's going nowhere.
Tired of lazy ass who won't work or keep up her part of relationship but loves spending the money.
Boredom

[Zolly99999]

Im not proud of this but the only time i cheated was when she cheated first.. I did it to get back at her.

[Anonymous]

Because they're cheaters. The better question is not why cheaters cheat. The better question would be why do women choose to date cheaters.

[In_Trance]

for the same reason (s) girls do

[Asker]

Not exactly

[In_Trance]

From everything I've seen, yes, exactly

[Anonymous]

I hated her.