The Number One Reason Why You Should Be Hopeful About Getting an Ex Back

[Apope16]

People breakup and get back together all the time before marriage and being with that person the rest of their life. Don't let people accept hookup culture where you swipe right and move on just because of a fight with an ex. Not all breakups should be or will be final.

Why Be Hopeful? Why Not Give Up?

Because if you start to go No Contact and you know how to be dumped with class and without begging..there is a scientific reason to be hopeful.

Scientists/Psychologists Have Proven That Bad Memories Fade in Time

Psychologists and neurologists have now proven that the brain reprocesses memories to make pain tolerable and to promote growth. After you have a breakup the fighting or the even that occur triggers a lot of pain. The raw feelings of a bad relationship are still there. But over time those bad memories fade and the good memories are primarily what is left. It is not always true.

But if there was nothing too horrible between the both of you..there is a good chance that over 45 to 60 days a person that dumped you will be left with mainly positive memories of you.

That is why the no contact method is so powerful. It allows you to limit contact which limits the chances of drama and fighting again. And it allows that person to miss you.

If an ex contacts you for a date or to get together. It doesn't mean they want a relationship. It means they are curious to know if those feelings they had will develop again. Keeping it joyful and fun will make them fall back in love with you. You must do everything to be the opposite of triggering them with bad memories.

What is hard is starting a BRAND NEW relationship that doesn't trigger the past. There must be change between both of you. The hard part is not getting your ex to go on dates with you again. It is KEEPING YOUR Ex.

[ChrisMaster69]

Again you talk bollox.

you have zero knowledge on mental health and come over as a total cockwomble

Scientists/Psychologists Have Proven That Bad Memories Fade in TimePsychologists and neurologists have now proven that the brain reprocesses memories to make pain tolerable and to promote growth. After you have a breakup the fighting or the even that occur triggers a lot of pain. The raw feelings of a bad relationship are still there. But over time those bad memories fade and the good memories are primarily what is left. It is not always true.

Do you even care about mental health?

[legalboxers]

again love the mytake. My ex keeps on rehashing shit. No matter how many times I told her Im sorry she rehashes everything. can't deal with hope with that

[Apope16]

THIS IS A GOOD THING. IT IS GOOD NEWS.

FIrst of all she is rehashing all that shit because she is HURT. SHe is in PAIN. When your ex is hurting and in pain it means that SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS.

You actually might have a lot easier time getting your ex back than other people. Her feelings are still there and raw.

Here is what you need to do next.

1.) Stop apologizing. Tell her, "You know how much I love you. I have already apologized. I am done saying sorry. I am focused on moving on. I hope that I can move on with you by my side. But I am not going to beg to have you back."

2) Go no contact. Do not at all contact her unless she contacts you.

3) Never agree to friendship. Tell her "I am moving on. If you ever want to get together again it won't be as friends. We should only hang out if it is a romantic date. I want to hold you and kiss you. I have enough friends."

4) When she reaches out during no contact set up the date.

5) On the date do not bring up the past. Treat it as a new relationship. Keep it light and fun. Rebuild that chemistry that you lost. Make her remember what she liked about you.

6) If she brings up the past tell her on the date that you want to build something positive with her. Tell her you don't want to bring up old wounds and want to enjoy her today.

*Most exes respond in 45 to 60 days. NEver ever ever break no contact. Make her chase you

[legalboxers]

@Apope16 dude I did.. If you see my prior posts on this.. SHE choked me with a charger cable to her android phone.. How is that acceptable? She said she was "frustrated"...

[Kas19]

@legalboxers Dude wtf? That's literally abusive. I'm sorry that happened :/

[Apope16]

What the fuck? Dude you got choked? Bro that criminal. Scary! Stay away! Run!

[legalboxers]

@Apope16 she pinned on me what her ex husband did, and what other guys did. She woke me from a dead of sleep saying she's with someone. No one does that

[legalboxers]

ty for MHO.

[Anonymous]

Why would anyone willingly go back to their Ex unless there's no other options? Seriously. They are called **exs** for a reason. You dated. You found out you two weren't that compatible. Why repeat unless desperate or stupid?

[TruthBringer]

I agree!

[BlacklightShade]

The most reliable way to get an ex back is with a shovel.

[Guy13]

great viewpoint but very few people forget or recover from a cheating spouse. We can forgive but reestablishing relationships the way they were before is not realistic.

[Mel2021]

I don’t think I will ever get my ex back, he broke up with me during the pandemic due to me becoming stressed which made me more negative and argumentative to the point where he couldn’t take it anymore.
He had been keeping in contact with me since the breakup which I realised was a mistake on my end but last time I seen him last week I told him I don’t want to be friends and not to contact me unless he wants to rekindle things. The breakup was in early January this year, we had met up a few times but I think he was perceiving it as just meeting up as friends as he has said he only wants friendship.

How can he want me back? Does no contact still work?

[Anonymous]

We brake up some yares ago and my hate afther that brake up never stop to exist in my heart.
The pain doesn't live me alon even afther i meet other girls.
My desire to hurt that person afther she brake my heart is so grate that if she will ever come back to me, she will die.
This task is usless

[Dinosaursandanime65]

This is what they need to do. They should use the Dragon Balls to upgrade their cheap ass haircut. Then they’ll get the b*tch on his dick or the manwhore in her p*ssy. (It’s just a joke, don’t take this personally)

[EssenceOfLight]

This would be a trade like exchange of a Ferrari GTR for VW Golf. Thanks for such smart advice, but I don't want to drive occasionally a Golf parallel to a Ferrari that's always available.

[Ilickvulvas]

Number one reason is because you have no sense of reality

[US-Agent88]

Scars heal over but a wise man may forgive but he never forgets who wounded him.

[Anonymous]

What about is I’m dumped my ex because I didn’t think she loved me back and I’ve spent years trying to put up with not being able to see her, despite her being on my mind every single day.

[ManHater]

Laugh... Poor man I don't think Apolo has learned a thing maybe that's why he's still looking.

[Anonymous]

Number 1 reason i got back with an ex was to bust a nut til i found my next piece.

[Joker_]

I wonder what the number two reason is

[EaterPeter]

Good info. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

dont know