after my breakup, my ex and i still had each other on snap chat... and when i send snap chat i send it to everyone kinda thing, and he'd open it etc etc. then 2 days ago, he deleted me off snap chat when i haven't snap chatted him in like 3 months. (we broke up 3 months ago).
wouldn't he delete me before when i snap chatted him, not when i dont snap chat him?
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Not at first. I like to see how they're doing, make sure they're moving forward and not self-destructing. I want to see them happy, but I'm not going to step back into their lives. I might ask a mutual friend to look into things, but at that point I'm cutting off all communication so that I don't obtain a personal stake in her well-being.
Once I know she's okay, I'll delete her. Or if we remain friends, there's no reason to delete her. She was a friend before, she can still be a friend after. And if a future significant other has a problem with my being friends with an ex, my ex isn't the problem. She is. If you trust a person, you trust a person. End of discussion. Jealousy and suspicion will only lead to self-created trouble that you can't eliminate from your mind.
In your situation, it sounds like he just didn't bother to delete you. Maybe it's just a social media habit, where we are quick to add friends but uncaring when it comes to deleting people unless we're out to get each other.1
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