She then deleted all of the sad tweets and tumblr post and started talking back to the guy she was talking to. Like nothing happened. Now mind you I wasn't mad about any of it, until she started saying that I abused her while her and I were dating. Mind you I was her first so maybe she's crazy now. Any thoughts? Why does she do that?
Most Helpful Girl
Question for you. If she is an Ex why do you give a damn what she says or thinks or feels?
Most Helpful Guy
She's not your problem anymore. Don't worry about her.
If she's actionably libeling or slandering you, tell her that she's pushing a court date. Because anything she says, she's going to have to prove is the truth.
As well as you can tell her that bad-mouthing you is no way to get you to come back sometime in the future.
More flies with honey than with vinegar, etc.