Do most people cheat? Have you ever cheated and if so how many times? (Page 2)
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Eh, I didn't really do anything but make out with a girl at a party, and I called my girlfriend in the middle of that (kinda killed it for the girl though... "Gee, I don't know if my girlfriend would like this... I'm gonna call her" ... "She's fine with it!" lol) and she said she didn't care as long as she could meet the person if we were gonna do stuff like that more than just the once, which we didn't. 'Twas a kinda odd reaction, but meh. Anyways, I still counted that, because I didn't know when we started making out if she'd be okay with it. So I cheated once... For about a minute or two of making out before feeling compelled to call my girlfriend and tell her. >.>;;;
I guess I'm trying to excuse myself, and I dunno, but it definitely feels better to me than an ordinary cheat at least. -.-;;
DUDE!! Get your girlfriend IN ON IT!! She's obviously up for it!!
XD An interesting notion, had we not broken up already. xP
That's beyond funny! She sounds like a keeper. :p
Yeah, why don't you try a threesome? Your girls sounds game for it, why not you? -- You could make up over it!! Or is that why you broke up?
Ah, it's impossible, really. We broke up because she had too many obligations to meet to have time for any kind of relationship. I don't get to talk to her much anymore, since we both went on to different colleges from HS, and it's still that way for her. I wouldn't be surprised if she's *still* getting only five hours (or less now even) of sleep a night, what with classes and job-hunting/working. >__< ... S'yeah, probably not.
I have never cheated, but have been cheated on. I think the problem with the poll is that everyone seems to have their own definition of cheating. For example kissing, some view it as cheating others don't. One scenario that guys and girls definitley see cheating differently is online relationships, because guys feel they did nothing physical with the person, whereas the girls feel like it's emotional cheating.
i've never cheated and never will. cheating is an obvious sign that you don't want to be with your particular person so I don't really see a point in trying to keep that relationship going. also if you love a person you respect them and if you respect them then you definitely would not cheat! cheating is the height of disrespect, the only thing worse is then lying about it.
I have never cheated on any of my boyfriends, but I have been cheated on. It seems like guys cheat more then girls. I highly doubt they would like being cheated on I don't know why they cheat. Its not a way of life Its a way that's an excess. If your not happy with your girlfriend or wife that you have to cheat on them then why are you with them?
I know girls who cheated on there man and,so I conclude it's about the same.
Girls cheat more, they cheat emotionally then break up with guys once things settle down with the new lovers afterwards, girls are hidden snakes... you could be a nice and pure girl but it's sure not how the rest of girls are.
even the dumbest girls are still more dangerous than some guys, sometimes.
I really don't think guys cheat more than girls. And even if they do, I think sex is so 'natural' for guys (I mean guys masturbate every day, have erections every morning and when they're hard their brain turns off) that it can really be totally meaningless for pretty much every guy. So maybe guys cheat sexually but we don't cheat a lot mentally, most guys can only have feelings for one person. Sex is totally different, no need for feeling. It hurts a lot more when girls cheat because
It hurts a lot more when girls cheat because they're 'giving up their body', they're really offering themselves to a guy so more often than not for women I think there must be a sense of trust and some kinds of feelings with the guy. When they cheat it just feels like what you thought they were feeling for you, they actually now feel it for someone else and can forget about you.
If you are really in love, you would never do that. People often blame it on the fact that they are in the relationship for too long and want to spice things up for themselves.Usually it is anything but truth because if you really care for someone you would at least respect another person enough to never actually do it. So I guess people who are cheating are not with the right person just yet.
i told myself I would never cheat. but I got caught up in a conversation with someone and he kissed me and I didn't pull away when I should of. I pulled away a few seconds after it. & I felt horrible. So I can't say I will never do it in the future. but I'm going to try my best to not and if I do to confess to it and accept the consequences.
I have cheated on two girlfriends... one didn't count, or I like to think so, The first time we had just started going out, and she went to cancun with her girlfriends (who were all sluts.. my ex started out as a lush) and I was almost definitely certain that she was cheating on me... the second time was a week before we broke up. I realized it was a horrible relationship and we broke up a week later for nonrelated reasons. The second, I cheated on her at the very beginning of a relationship. I had my serious doubts about the functionality of the relationship.. she was never available, and didn't seem interested or into the relationship, and when I couldn't find time with her for about 3-4 days in a row (which was unusual) I found companionship somewhere else.
never have and never will he was scared I was gonna cheat on him but I don't on that have the heart to do that. Guys who cheat.. why don't you just break up with your girlfriend/WIFE! instead of making the look like a fool. And girls who cheat on their man, seriously have more class then that. And to the girl who said 'i want to cheat just incase sex gets boring' wow..i won't even comment on that ignorance
anything that you wouldn't do if your significant other was present is considered cheating, at least in my book. and to spell it out...that includes emotional/verbal cheating too.
and no. I've never cheated. it's disgusting and painful for the one being cheated on
no I have cheated by my oen closed peoples...and I know they made a big mistake but in order to justy a mistak I should not make another mistake...i belive in " EYE FOR AN EYE NOT EYE TO AN EYE"...God is there to give the punishment to them for what they did with me or something like that with someone else...
i've cheated. but I don't think that its NORMAL. I think its selfish and says that something is missing in the relationship.
also, I think people think differerent things are cheating
for example I've never slept with someone else while in a relatiionship. mostly just kissed someone else. I think this is cheating, but others do not. also, depending on how young you are cheating mostly happens because you're young and confused and don't know what you want or are reeally doing.
I appreciate that you are admitting that your irresponsible behavior is due to immaturity, you are a mess but your honest! I track all your answers, you say everything as it is without lying, you're honest, or have you lied at us before? :P
Well thank you! I pride myself in being honest!! I'm not a perfect person and I can be selfish but I know I'm a GOOD person. I feel special that you've track my answers :)
I have never cheated. Good thing you are not my neighbor -- you are very kissable.
Lol thank you!
never have never will cheating is disgusting and revolting. its the most dis-respective thing anyone could do to me an I would much rather be stabbed than cheated on from someone I love.
I never cheated but was cheated on. Very sad feeling indeed. Actually it is a trauma that is very difficult to heal. To be honest it never really heals. Don't do that, just break up. After I found out, my man was saying that he still loves me, but I don't get it. He loves me and f*** another one? How is that possible?
I've been married for 13 years and have had about 6 lovers. I have a crazy labido, my husband is always traveling, and I am attractive enough to have no problem finding options. My husband hasn't been perfect either. Anyway- cheating is wrong, but it doesn't mean your souless. It means your human with weakness.
It does get to a point where is shows you don't love your partner.If you loved the person you'd have enough respect for them to not cheat,which means you don't care about them
As I said, think what you want- I nver said it was right or a good thing. Do you know what I feel or think? No you don't. Can you judge me about my actions- sure go ahead if that makes you feel better about yourself. As my mother says, nobody knows what's in the pot but the spoon:)
So this poll suggests what some of us already know. More women cheat but the guys who do cheat cheat more. Makes sense since its easier for women to hook up And because the men that are the sh*t in bed know it and women want them even if they're with someone. Welcome to the real world.
I cheated on one guy. He was in the marines and lived in hawaii, 5,000 miles away from me for our entire relationship so I kinda just felt like I wasn't really dating him to begin with. Not that it justifies it, I still felt awful and just realized that if I'm ok with cheating on him than I shouldn't even be with him. I will never cheat again.
I'm not sure if most people do, I did once,I never realized how much it would hurt her when she found out. I would never again. Mine was on vacation too, spring break to be exact. Its easier, your significant other isn't around, there is alcohol and such. My only problem was a girl who was a friend of my girlfriend caught me since she was in the same area during spring break. Bad luck but definitely bad karma
Sadly, it's true.
I cheated on my first two wives and subsequent girlfriends (not often, thought).
After I met my current wife I've been straight-arrow.
Why go out for hamburgers when you have steak at home?
Ewwww steak and hamburgers!! hahaha
I've never cheated and this is why the STD rate is so high. And that's also why I'm thinking about staying single for eternity...
STD rate ? What is that ?
Sexually Transmitted Disease = STD
LOL! Make a doctor appointment as soon as possible! Just kidding. :-)
No kidding: 25% of American teens had some sexually transmitted infection according to researchers:
https://www.breitbart.com/article.php?id=D8VBB9D00&show_article=1
50% of sexually active teens thus!
Buy and use condoms.
You are obsessing over your sex ed classes. Step away from the books, get a life, have fun. You sound dead before even dying.
Have it a couple times and you'll forget about wanting it -_- no matter how good others feel it is
People.. it's an anonymous poll... now I know for a fact 66% have never cheated, lol. you can be more honest than that
I agree. Although I've never cheated myself I've been cheated on multiple times.
Its up to 80% now. Come on people, ether not everyone is not being honest, or most have been in few relationships.
Now in fairytale land, this number would be more specific, but I'm just saying... it's anonymous.. and it's back down to 72%, lol.. I just figured, it's a free forum, everyone is here to seek advice, and the best way to get it is to be honest, even if it's just a unanimous answer
I would definately prefer honesty to get a more honest poll. It doesn't help my side of the debate if everyone is lieing on an annonymous poll.