Is dirty dancing with another girl cheating on your girlfriend?

[blackranger99]

I was hammered at a party and there are pics of me grinding with some girl I don't know. Is that considered a kind of cheating?

[annwyl-cariad]

Hey, shit happens when you're drunk. Granted, what you did was not a good thing, and it kind of is cheating, but it could have been a lot worse. You could have made out with or slept with the other girl, so at least you had the presence of mind not to do that even in the condition you were in.

If I were your girl, I'd want you to come to me and tell me about this before I found out another way, like coming across the photos on Myspace or Facebook. Just go to your girl, admit what you did, and apologize. Tell her you were drunk and you didn't know what you were doing, and once you were sober, you felt terrible about it (assuming, of course, that this is true, which it sounds like it is). There may be some repercussions, but it is much better that she find out from you than from someone else. If your girl thinks about this reasonably, she'll realize that your honesty in the situation and your willingness to come to her straight away are more important than something relatively minor that you did while smashed.

[epavlova]

Assuming that I'm not at the party, and my guy gets drunk and grinds with some unknown girl on the dance floor -- not a big deal, really. Certainly not cheating in my book. For me, this falls into the "boys will be boys" category. Kind of like a guy going to a strip club and getting a lap dance -- I don't like it (at all) but I'm assuming there's nothing more to it than that.

[boonana135]

its not cheating, but its also not very appreciated either

in other words, its not that big of a deal.but try and avoid if possible

[RFRFRF]

If you got your clothes on and you ain't kissing all up on her grabbing her ass and tits HELL NO its not cheating. Its not cheating till you have sex technically. But grabbing someones ass and tits that ain't ur girl will piss them off and probably get them to break up with you because that's disrespectful to your girl and girls don't want to get disrespected. But technically still not cheating. Good?

[Uptown-Boy]

I don't think it's cheating but ask your self this, Would you like it if you saw your girlfriend doing it to some one. I know if I say my girl walk up to some guy, friend or not and lick his face I'd be upset about that. The are unseen boundaries that every, well almost every relationship has. Think about that.

[Jarett]

I wouldn't consider it "cheating. " But it definitely doesn't make you a good boyfriend.

[nb4eva1]

Hell no that ain't cheating. I mean if you share a cup of soda with a girl and your swapping saliva is that cheating too?There's a fine line between cheating and non cheating. Dirty dancing is nothing close to cheating in my opinion.

[rdabby]

He didn't exactly take a sip from her drink.. if your girlfriend was dirty dancing with some random guy whoever he is didn't p*ss you off then there is something weird about you or ur relationship with her!

Cuz there are a lot of forms for cheating, I don't consider this cheating but it would p*ss me off like madly!

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't make me happy as a gf, I'd be pissed