Here's my situation.. My ex-gf and I had been together for a little over a year, and had been living together for a few months. We were having some problems but decided to try and work things out. Then a week later she comes home from work and dumps me but said she still wants to be friends. I said I wasn't sure that I could do that right now and moved out of our place. 2 days later she calls and says she misses me and wants to talk so I went over there and we talked about getting back together but decided to take some time to think, and then the next day she texts me and says she just wants to be alone right now but still wants to be friends.. I gave her some space and didn't contact her for awhile then she texts me outta nowhere just to see how I was, and since then she's texted me every single day multiple times and that's pretty much our contact back and forth.. She still says she just wants to be friends but also repeatedly says her feelings aren't going to change right now.. She actually called me the other day just for help with her TV but we ended up talking for about 30 mins.. I kinda confused on all of it because it seems she's saying 1 thing and doing another.. so my question is if I do just be friends with her right now, is there a chance we get back together? or am I setting myself up for further disappointment? and girls I'd really appreciate your advice and thoughts on what she's feeling and what this is all really about? please help me! because I still really love her and really want to give it another shot!
If I'm friends with my ex, can I still win her back?
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