My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago now. We both have been with other people during this time. We talk everyday and We still see each other every week or once every two weeks where I either sleep at her place or she sleeps at mine. We stopped hooking up completely and she said we’ll probably we’ll never hook up again but at night we still cuddle very intensely and intimately. We started out as best friends that became a relationship, so after the break up she suggested in being friends again. She said she’s not in love with me anymore but she loves me a lot. She said that she doesn’t want to know about my dating life or who I’m with. I’m on the same boat I don’t want to know about her dating life either. Her reasoning behind why she doesn’t want to know is because it bothers her and she feels like no one will be good enough for me. I also asked her about the cuddling and she said it’s comfortable.
So my question is does she still have feelings for me and doesn’t want to admit it? Why doesn’t she want to know about my dating life if she’s not in love with me? If she’s not in love with me why does she want to cuddle in general, like is it even possible to “platonically” cuddle?
