This is the big step for me ! I WILL NOT CALL HIM ANYMORE
How to stop calling him?
This is the big step for me ! I WILL NOT CALL HIM ANYMORE
... The problem is if I don't call him he never call me...
You have Just answered your own Quest to Conquer Question here, dear. He is giving you helpful hints without all the hymning and hawing, that he is this Honest John in telling you with his lame duck excuses that he could give a dam about you and doesn't want to 'Call me back' because it's not that he this Busy Beaver but he just wants to this madness to end.
Forget him, move on from Him and the cell and the 'Cell' you are in. Don't push anymore buttons on your own end because by you Continuing down this beaten problem path of making him Be 'Mean to me,' you are not only 'Pushing buttons' on his own end, but making yourself look needy and and desperate.
He is not worth any more time of day. He won't pay you any mind, just put you on his pay no mind list and the more you bug him, the more he will sweep you under the carpet like an ant.
He needs to go 'Bye bye,' this is Not going to last till 9 months. You know it and I know it and with This... Stop being a life line for a dead beat Relationship that is sucking the life out of you and consuming every ounce of strength you have to just simply Call it Quits. No more letting your fingers do the walking. Give him his walking papers, it's over.
It's not just a 'Bad situation,' but getting Pathetic now where you are your own Enabler to Allow yourself to be Drugged because you are this clinging vine.
Good luck. xx
Thank you so much and you are completely right. I'm trying to be strong, today was the first day I didn't call him . And that was very hard... I'll do my best xxx
He always try to make jealous and he really enjoying that...
Yes, he enjoys the jealousy game to keep you stringing along with the laughs and giggles.. Begin a fresh beguine today of enjoying the rest of your summer with more fun in the sun than with This one.. Keep thinking of what a loser he is and the more you think, the more he will... stink. xxoo
Today I'm going to start a new life and be strong
Leave the phone at home and go out with your friends. Keep yourself busy.
Do you know the feeling you get when you call or text and he doesn't answer? Remember that feeling and how badly it hurts. Ask yourself why you keep doing this to yourself. Now stop being hurt and start being ANGRY. No one has a right to treat you this way. Don't give him the satisfaction of calling any more.
He's made it plain where you stand, and it isn't going to change. You cannot change what he does, but you can change the power it has over you and how it makes you feel. You know he doesn't care any more; the only choice you have is to dust yourself off and let it go so you retain your dignity.
I know , I just need to accept it ! Today I'm going to start a new life and trying to be very strong
Thank you so much
you need to just hate him for a while. stay strong and busy for 2 full weeks and see how you feel
I'm working full time , and I'm trying to put my phone away ! I'm so alone ! I came to US 2 years ago and have no friends special girlfriend to hang out and have fun. I'm trying to be strong... Thank you ! Your comment gives me a good energy
join a dance class in the area! it might be pricey, but only go once or twice a week and talk to the other women. ask for their numbers, tell them you're new around town.
Will do ! I'm a horse trainer I'm always dealing with animals ! Dancing is a good idea
You'll have to find a way to him go. He's gone and you have to accept it. It could also be that he knows you will call him so he don't bother about calling you. As long as you keep calling him you can be playing right into the little game that he's playing. Just be strong and make up your mind today to start a new life with ending with this guy.
Maybe get a hint that he's not interested and move on?
I am so trying , but when we are together it's like nothing happened, and when I start to talk about our problems he starts yelling at me
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Cut your losses and realize that you deserve better
I gave him too much attention and treated him like a king... And completely forget about myself...
Ugh hi hate this feeling!!! Will try my best
if he doesn't call you then he doesn't want to talk to you.
But when I ask him and tell him you don't want to talk and you don't care he said you are very wrong , he makes me so confused
Block his number
It's over ! Just find out he was cheating on me the whole time.
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