I have been dating a guy since 8 months ago, and after a while he starting to be so mean to me. I'm in a very bad situation right now and need help , Each time I call him he keep rejecting me or keep telling me that "I'm busy. I'll call you late" but he never call me back. I just can't stop calling him and texting him. I'm just crashing myself and I hate this feeling, please someone help me to be strong ! I really don't want to call him anymore. I want to break up but this relationship is like a drug for me. I'm just keep bothering myself and him. How I can stop calling him? The problem is if I don't call him he never call me :((( I'm so upset
This is the big step for me ! I WILL NOT CALL HIM ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You'll have to find a way to him go. He's gone and you have to accept it. It could also be that he knows you will call him so he don't bother about calling you. As long as you keep calling him you can be playing right into the little game that he's playing. Just be strong and make up your mind today to start a new life with ending with this guy.1
Most Helpful Girl
... The problem is if I don't call him he never call me...
You have Just answered your own Quest to Conquer Question here, dear. He is giving you helpful hints without all the hymning and hawing, that he is this Honest John in telling you with his lame duck excuses that he could give a dam about you and doesn't want to 'Call me back' because it's not that he this Busy Beaver but he just wants to this madness to end.
Forget him, move on from Him and the cell and the 'Cell' you are in. Don't push anymore buttons on your own end because by you Continuing down this beaten problem path of making him Be 'Mean to me,' you are not only 'Pushing buttons' on his own end, but making yourself look needy and and desperate.
He is not worth any more time of day. He won't pay you any mind, just put you on his pay no mind list and the more you bug him, the more he will sweep you under the carpet like an ant.
He needs to go 'Bye bye,' this is Not going to last till 9 months. You know it and I know it and with This... Stop being a life line for a dead beat Relationship that is sucking the life out of you and consuming every ounce of strength you have to just simply Call it Quits. No more letting your fingers do the walking. Give him his walking papers, it's over.
It's not just a 'Bad situation,' but getting Pathetic now where you are your own Enabler to Allow yourself to be Drugged because you are this clinging vine.
Good luck. xx1
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