Most Helpful Guy
how to move on?
consider yourself lucky that you only wasted a year with him. it sucks that he won't deal with what he did but instead would just vanish but at least he's gone so you can just try to move on
Most Helpful Girl
Begin a new Beguine of First dealing with this Pain with no Gain and Licking a few War Wounds that Need to be Attended to.
When you have done Some Soul Searching and Feel it's a good Deal to Start moving on, Find a Few Friends and Gradually Socialize. This helps to get out of the House instead of Staying in and Hibernating like some little Mouse. It just will Make you More Blue.
No one says you have to get right back in the Saddle and be Saddled down with another Real Relationship. You will know when you are Raring and Ready with some lucky Eddy, for this time you will Know What to Do and Not to Do so you hopefully Don't ever have to go Through this Again... Being Blue.
Good luck and Blessings for a new Beginning. xx