What's the longest and shortest relationship you've been in?

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Xper 6 Age: 37

What's the longest and shortest relationship you've been in ?

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InfluencerMaster Age: 70

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Nineteen years was the longest (it felt like ninety years!)

I had a few ONS when I was very young. I'm not proud of that but I won't conceal that part of my past. If that doesn't count as the shortest relationship, I did have a girl who I dated twice, about two weeks apart.

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HaveNoName Follow
Guru Age: 57

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Only one. Been married for 19. No relationship outside marriage before or within. :)

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- HaveNoName
  
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  Awwww. Thank you for the MHO. I feel sad the values we stand for are looked down as "outdated" and unnecessary and often foolish.
  
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- Razzle-Dazzle
  
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  You're welcome
  
  Yes, I agree. It's really sad
  
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ObviouslyOriginalMe Follow
Xper 7 Age: 26 , mho 47%

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Longest is one year, four months, and twenty nine days and counting! 😊 Shortest was three weeks I think.

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rgb008 Follow
Master Age: 30

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I've only been in one so far. So my shortest and longest is a little over 2 years so far haha.

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Pearl85 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 39

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Longest 4 years
Shortest one day (assuming you're not asking about committed relationships)

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E_rendell Follow
Xper 5 Age: 28 , mho 71%

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the shortest was a day.
the longest has been right now. a year.

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MelG23 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 41 , mho 56%

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Shortest - 2 months
Longest - 20 years

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- redeyemindtricks
  
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  33 – 20 = 13?
  
  ... and then you somehow *also* had time to fit other relationships (including the 2 month one) in there? huh?
  
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- MelG23
  
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  @redeyemindtricks Well the 20 year one was off and on. We've known each other since we were kids.
  
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- redeyemindtricks
  
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  ahhhh gotcha
  
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Sammy_J Follow
Xper 5 Age: 55

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18 year marriage which I was ready to walk away from without a second thought... and a 6 month intense relationship with a woman I was deeply in love with that left me crying for weeks..

odd, eh?

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- MelG23
  
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  Similar situation as me. Six months is just enough time to fall in love but not enough to really get to know their faults so they become this ideal that you built up in your mind and makes it very hard to forget.
  
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- Sammy_J
  
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  @MelG23 right... you keep asking "What if I just did this?" and "what if I'd been less like this" .. truth is, you never really got to know them and they likely never tried to get to know you.. We both need to just move on!
  
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- MelG23
  
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  That's so true. I needed to hear that. Thank you.
  
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Yoda Age: 39 , mho 37%

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Longest: December 2000-August 2011, though the divorce wasn't final until July of 2012. She moved out in August and that's when I started dating/fucking other women, so that's when I consider it ended.

Shortest: about 3 days, I think.

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ARTESTJ Follow
Xper 5 Age: 50 , mho 81%

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longest: 17 years and still going
shortest: 1 month

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Winter_Storm_Guy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 57

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The shortest was 3 months and after 5 days she broke off the engagement
The longest was about 9 months to year and half.

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SunsetLover Follow
Xper 7 Age: 28

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Longest : 1 year and a half
Shortest : 8 months

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springocelot Follow
Guru Age: 42 , mho 30%

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Shortest: 2 dates
Longest: 3.5 years

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Rainie_ Follow
Guru Age: 29 , mho 67%

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Shortest: A day
Longest: A year

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Master Age: 31 , mho 54%

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A year on and off, and 4 days. Lol.

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Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 41%

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I've only had one and it was 11 months long

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- sizedoesnotmatter
  
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  You don't like to miss around; that's cute :*
  
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- Carliexo7
  
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  Thank you x
  
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Drooogie4 Follow
Guru Age: 29 , mho 46%

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Current is longest. 3 years.
Shortest, 2 months.

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Cosytoasty Follow
Guru Age: 36

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Longest nearly 5 years.
Shortest 4 months.

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Derik89 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 36

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Longest-2 weeks
Shortest- a few hours

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meatballs21 Follow
Master Age: 45

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Longest: 11.5 years
Shortest: One night stand?

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Yoda Age: 31

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Longest ~2 years

Shortest ~1 month

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feminismisnarcissism Follow
Xper 6 Age: 51

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longest (and worst) : 13 years
shortest: 3 weeks

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Master Age: 35

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Longest 4.5 years. Shorter at 2 months.

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Flurr Follow
Xper 6 Age: 37

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4 months shortest, one year longest.

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JCT666 Follow
Guru Age: 26

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Longest: 10 months
Shortest: 2 months

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Whaaaaa Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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Longest: 7 months
Shortest: 1 month

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crazy_vic Follow
Xper 5 Age: 37

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Shortest 2 months,
Longest 3 years

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