please help? I'm trying to move on but seeing that hurt!
So I just seen my ex on tinder? What to do? Really tempted to swipe right?
please help? I'm trying to move on but seeing that hurt!
Swipe left (left is no? swipe NO anyway). You don't need that after ONE month of being together no matter what he said and did that month. Swipe left and then go on and find something to boost your ego if you need that, but just DONT swipe right on an ex.
I just clicked out of it and done nothing at all! Maybe he just never deleted his account. He's planning on moving overseas and the reason he broke up with me was because of that so I don't see the point in him taking up with someone else. Was just a bit gutting to see.
Of course it is gutting to see.. Its like stalking your ex Facebook page and see him change his status to 'in a relationship'.. but liking his picture or swiping right right or whatever won't make you feel better, if anything you will feel worse if he DOESN'T show up because he swiped no on you.. so, you should try to let it go.. (damn scousers, huh? :p)
Tell me about it! I don't see why he would be looking when he's planning on moving away again. Would be pointless. If he swipes right too it would probably be a little awkward all round really!!
I just clicked out of it and didn't do anything! I'm going no contact for a while to help me. The longer I'm not speaking to him, the easier it will be for me. If he ever comes back, I'll deal with that when it comes
So you both went back to your old ways.
Nothing to do but find someone else if you wanna do that.
But if you want some kicks, swipe away.
I just done it for an ego boost really. I have no intention of meeting anyone just yet.
I'm not but I'm still hurting from him breaking up with me
That's probably true but at the minute no one has come close
Well obviously he's not trying to be alone if he's looking on Tinder unless he is on there out of curiosity too
I am genuinely not looking for anyone else. Just outta curiosity more than anything. And a bit of an ego boost.
I guess it's possible that he is doing the same but what if he sees you there and swipes right 😊
My sister said the same but I'm too scared to swipe right lol 😊
If he's already swiped right and I do then it's a match. Then what?
I guess you'll both look surprised but he should feel kind of dumb since he broke it off with you, it's not bad that you're on there though
I just kinda wanted to take my mind off of things and was pretty surprised to see him there. I'm doing no contact on him at the minute so swiping right would be contact lol
Yeah I guess that's true but wouldn't you be surprised if he finds your profile and swipes right 😊
I really would!! Is it possibly that he maybe just never deleted his actual account just the app?
Yeah that's possible because if you delete the app it only comes off your phone
That's what I thought too! But would his location still show?
Only where he last was I think, oh and does Tinder show people that are in other countries too if you change the distance? I would think it has a limit in miles right?
I think it does! You can match with people in other countries too. I don't know whether his location is showing when he last used it or not
Yeah that's hard to know but I suppose if the location changes then he is using It
I never thought of that right enough! It's stayed the same
Yeah there are a lot of apps that work like that always using your location for best results I assume. I was going to try Tinder but I couldn't download it without using Facebook which I do not have or use
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I don't know maybe it would look desperate n that might make him take u for granted
I just clicked outta the app and didn't do anything. I'm just curious as to what he's done
He was the one that rushed everything so fast and then all of a sudden he's deciding it's put him off. How is that possible?
He talked so much about our future. Wanted my babies etc. It shocked me big time but I went along with the flow because I was happy and I thought he was too! His mum even said I made him so happy and I was the best thing to happen to him. He agreed and then all of a sudden he's moving to Liverpool and wants to be alone for a while. Could he have just shut his feelings off completely. He said he doesn't want any contact "for now"
I thought maybe he had just shut off his feelings completely but I didn't think that was possible!
Thanks for a guys point of view! I just don't understand why he would be on tinder if he still has feelings for me. Though I signed up just to keep me occupied.
I was hoping all hope was completely lost. I don't think there's any way of knowing whether he has used it lately or not
I was thinking of maybe doing that but maybe I should just leave it! I've decided to go no contact for a month and then message him. He said he wanted to cut ties for now.
I thought he was saying that just to be nice. He said he wants to be alone for a while while he decides on moving but he has been online on whatsapp so much lately I can't help but think he's met someone else
I was thinking that as well. Maybe it's a rebound? I dunno! I feel stupid for it hurting me so much after a month!
It is especially when they move things so fast and the disappear on you
It's ok! I just didn't think it would hit me this hard! I didn't know a guy who would promise you the earth and then just change! Maybe in time he'll realise what he's done.
You didn't delete your account..
I only set up a new one the other day
Why would you?
Just to see if he swiped right too. I just clicked out of it and done nothing lol
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