Most Helpful Girl
Personally I don't think it is, coz it shows you're trying to prove you're worth to the person. I'd never feel I had to prove how worthy I was to anyone
If someone hurts me, I just cut all means of contact and move on with my life. I don't try to prove my worth to them by striving to be more successful. It's not even revenge , coz the person probably wouldn't care about your success. Not everyone has a jealous streak in them either , so they won't necessarily feel envious of other people's success.
Most Helpful Guy
Forgetting about her is the best revenge. As long as you care about what she thinks about you, she has control of at least a small little part of your life. Why do you want to waste even one brain cell or even one second of your life on some bitch who you wouldn't cross the street to piss on if she was on fire? Revenge means you are living in the past, and there's no future in the past!