Very true :( We aren't indestructible robots after all, we too are fragile and alive humans with emotions and feelings and can feel pain and hurt. It is very damaging to us and degrades our overall health to keep this all inside. But we cannot show our enemies our weaknesses. :(
never thought of it this way! I guess you're right, men tend to hide their emotions and bottle shit up. Women are open and reach out for help typically.
@restore yeah, is something cause in part by culture and by the other hand biology plays a role.
I totally agree
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No honestly. Most times I see dumpers come back because they realize they can't move on and they actually loved the person. By that time dumpee has moved on. The reason that dumper looks like moved on, most of the times, is because of relief of end of a relationship so they dont really think of what they "actually" feel, vs. dumpee cries himself/herself out for awhile then forgets by the time dumper notices wtf s/he lost. These are all based on the assumption that it is not "dumper was obviously gonna dump" situation.
The dumper doesn't always. Every single ex has tried to contact me in some form after a break up. By the time they reach out, it's way too late.At first dumpers have this pride that they took the relationship into their hands and made a decision. They feel happy and try to move on while the ex struggles. I feel like for my exes it takes a few months (more than 2) when it hits them. The dumpers realize what they are missing out on and that they regret dumping their ex. Only after the ex is gone do they miss them. They start to compare their ex to everyone, it brings back feelings, anger, and regret.
No I say women move on faster. And I've seen most men say women too.