I feel like its the one who breaks up with the person that don't really care that much... The guys who broke up with me, just didn't care at all, even one of them had a girlfriend a week later.
Whoever had one foot out the door. Whoever broke up with the other. Whoever had other options. It's not a sex Bc different relationships have different people and reasons for breaking up
I guess it is not about male or female. It's all about 'seriousness ' . The one who is more serious about relationship will take more time to move on and vice versa
it would depend on the type of person and the situation of who broke up with who. also whoever cheated on who is a variable.
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Women. Why? Women will be with a guy even if they don't like them. Why do you think most women cheat? They stay in relationships because it's easier to live and cheaper living costs, while she's getting dicked down by guys behind her "Boyfriends" back. Women only use guys for financial help, so they don't get upset over Relationships.
I think it depends on the girl, the guy and how the relationship ended.
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From personal experience I would say men, but I have also seen women move on quite quickly from a relationship. I think it all depends on the circumstances surrounding the initial breakup.
That's not because of moving on faster. That's because of having "right parental attitude". Most women consider having a good stepfather and they are very picky for the sake of kid. Most men do not care about kids they fathered, and they do not care since they are not the sole caregivers, and women are considered to be the main caregiver to the kids even in modern families. That's why men think their only duty is to put their sperm around as long as there is someone else to raise the kid and take the responsibility. Plus, most fathers I've seen also don't really care that a stepmom is good as long as their needs are satisfied, the house is clean, and the shirts are ironed. Well I have couple exceptions as good dads, but those are rare.
How is it related to be being feminist? I guess having an opposite opinion with you is a feminism. Maybe I should rather act like I don't have any opinion so that it pleases you.
I am telling this to point out the unnecessary burden and pressure on men put by society to be strong when actually they are allowed to have emotions, be emotional, and it is not related to being weak. This unnecessary pressure on men unfortunately leads to many problems for them. You come and tell me you are a feminist. Please educate yourself on "understanding the concept"
Ahaha lol i didn't pay attention that you called your dad dick. I was furious that the guy concluded i am a feminist with something so simple and cheap. @DizzyAster
@lyannamormont It's cool. To iterate on my prior statement, my dad isn't a bad guy. He tried to be involve in all of his kids lives as much as possible. That is commendable compared to the other guys
Nobody is evil or bad person or born evil. I am sure your dad is not as you said.
It is just the societal perception. What I am trying to say is that it is kind of a pressure on women to have a lower score and take care of house duties and taking care of kids for example. Versus men always are praised to score a lot of women (that's what I mean by putting sperm everywhere-just as a funny side note). These societal unconscious pressures shape most men and women's behaviors.
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I feel like its the one who breaks up with the person that don't really care that much... The guys who broke up with me, just didn't care at all, even one of them had a girlfriend a week later.
Whoever had one foot out the door. Whoever broke up with the other. Whoever had other options. It's not a sex Bc different relationships have different people and reasons for breaking up
The one who has a stronger mindset and knows how to move on.
I guess it is not about male or female. It's all about 'seriousness ' .
The one who is more serious about relationship will take more time to move on and vice versa
it would depend on the type of person and the situation of who broke up with who. also whoever cheated on who is a variable.
Women. Why? Women will be with a guy even if they don't like them. Why do you think most women cheat? They stay in relationships because it's easier to live and cheaper living costs, while she's getting dicked down by guys behind her "Boyfriends" back. Women only use guys for financial help, so they don't get upset over Relationships.
Its obvious you have been hurt by a horrible woman in your past. Please don't let your bitterness cloud your judgement of all women.
I think it depends on the girl, the guy and how the relationship ended.
From personal experience I would say men, but I have also seen women move on quite quickly from a relationship. I think it all depends on the circumstances surrounding the initial breakup.
Whoever left the relationship mentally and emotionally earlier on first
Yep, I believe women move on way quicker. At least, I move on really quickly.
Depends on the person but in all honesty, it is women. Girls will say it's men but men don't have a number of resources girls do at their disposal.
It's not a gender thing, it's who's more attached to the relationship.
the one who was having an affair, or had someone in mind to be plan B
It really depends on the person, the context, and the emotional investment in the relationship.
TBH I say it's 50/50. Everyone have different characteristics that either make them forget about you or takes longer for them to forget about you
It depends on how the relationship ended, who dumped who, and how people cope with things. It's an individual thing, not a gender thing.
i think it depends on what kind of relationship they had and who did the break up can't say in general
Whoever cared about the relationship more and who loved the other more.. can't put a gender on that..
Depends on*
Depend, but I'd say men.
My mom died not dating anyone else after they had me, but my dad fathered a couple more kids before settling down
That's not because of moving on faster. That's because of having "right parental attitude". Most women consider having a good stepfather and they are very picky for the sake of kid. Most men do not care about kids they fathered, and they do not care since they are not the sole caregivers, and women are considered to be the main caregiver to the kids even in modern families. That's why men think their only duty is to put their sperm around as long as there is someone else to raise the kid and take the responsibility. Plus, most fathers I've seen also don't really care that a stepmom is good as long as their needs are satisfied, the house is clean, and the shirts are ironed. Well I have couple exceptions as good dads, but those are rare.
@lyannamormont you must be a feminist.
@lyannamormont Nah, he was a dick.
How is it related to be being feminist? I guess having an opposite opinion with you is a feminism. Maybe I should rather act like I don't have any opinion so that it pleases you.
I am telling this to point out the unnecessary burden and pressure on men put by society to be strong when actually they are allowed to have emotions, be emotional, and it is not related to being weak. This unnecessary pressure on men unfortunately leads to many problems for them. You come and tell me you are a feminist. Please educate yourself on "understanding the concept"
Why am I dick now? I don't get it.
@lyannamormont Are you a 'he.'
I said he. are you a "he" pretending to be a "she?"
lol.
Ahaha lol i didn't pay attention that you called your dad dick. I was furious that the guy concluded i am a feminist with something so simple and cheap. @DizzyAster
@lyannamormont It's cool.
To iterate on my prior statement, my dad isn't a bad guy. He tried to be involve in all of his kids lives as much as possible.
That is commendable compared to the other guys
@lyannamormont: you're a ridicule that you are already put to guys in friendzone.
Nobody is evil or bad person or born evil. I am sure your dad is not as you said.
It is just the societal perception. What I am trying to say is that it is kind of a pressure on women to have a lower score and take care of house duties and taking care of kids for example. Versus men always are praised to score a lot of women (that's what I mean by putting sperm everywhere-just as a funny side note). These societal unconscious pressures shape most men and women's behaviors.
Whoever is the least emotional and cared less about the other one