in general, who moves on quicker after a break up?
- MenVote A
- WomenVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I believe women move on faster, they have a wider emotional support, during the break up stage, they openly do catarsis ( all of that discharge the negative impact of a break up and soften it), wile we guys hide our negative emotions, at least in public and by doing that they convert into: anger, physical, verbal agression or sexual promiscuity ( which do more harm than good). What I explained is something general, there are exceptions to the rule always, however I think women have more chances to get back with their ex after certain amount of time, than the other way around, why? Well by nature they are more susceptable to give it a second chance, is not the case for us men, we may take time to forget, just once we do there is no going back.6
Most Helpful Girl
I'm pretty sure women. As men don't have a lot of outlets to talk about their feelings. Its not "socially acceptable" for men to talk about these things because it's not "manly" or whatever. So they keep it to themselves and act like they've moved on. It's quite the trick they play. Great illusion and bravado that they put on.
Women on the other hand, cry, get mad, talk about their feelings openly. They get support from everyone around them. (which really helps) and then they gradually move on.
Ofc there are exceptions to every rule. But this is generally the case.6