Very true :( We aren't indestructible robots after all, we too are fragile and alive humans with emotions and feelings and can feel pain and hurt. It is very damaging to us and degrades our overall health to keep this all inside. But we cannot show our enemies our weaknesses. :(
never thought of it this way! I guess you're right, men tend to hide their emotions and bottle shit up. Women are open and reach out for help typically.
@restore yeah, is something cause in part by culture and by the other hand biology plays a role.
I totally agree
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This picture is true if the woman breaks up with a normal good guy (expendable and replaceable). This picture is the other way around if the woman breaks up with a jerk (diamond in the rough and rare) or vice versa.
@yellowmamba024 You really need to move on from your crush
@nevermoregirl7 I have been moving on from my crushes all the time.
What do you mean without a doubt women
Falling out of love or falling in love, and the pace is different not based on gender, but based on other emotional qualities, well-being, physical factors etc.
@lyannamormont yea what she said
It's easier for girls to do this, doesn't mean her ex-boyfriend wouldn't be doing it too if he had the opportunity.
Yes that's a point that I forgot to bring up! It is much easier for the woman to find a man to sleep with her than the other way around.
Its obvious you have been hurt by a horrible woman in your past. Please don't let your bitterness cloud your judgement of all women.
I agree with this. 100%
That's not because of moving on faster. That's because of having "right parental attitude". Most women consider having a good stepfather and they are very picky for the sake of kid. Most men do not care about kids they fathered, and they do not care since they are not the sole caregivers, and women are considered to be the main caregiver to the kids even in modern families. That's why men think their only duty is to put their sperm around as long as there is someone else to raise the kid and take the responsibility. Plus, most fathers I've seen also don't really care that a stepmom is good as long as their needs are satisfied, the house is clean, and the shirts are ironed. Well I have couple exceptions as good dads, but those are rare.
@lyannamormont you must be a feminist.
@lyannamormont Nah, he was a dick.
How is it related to be being feminist? I guess having an opposite opinion with you is a feminism. Maybe I should rather act like I don't have any opinion so that it pleases you.I am telling this to point out the unnecessary burden and pressure on men put by society to be strong when actually they are allowed to have emotions, be emotional, and it is not related to being weak. This unnecessary pressure on men unfortunately leads to many problems for them. You come and tell me you are a feminist. Please educate yourself on "understanding the concept"
Why am I dick now? I don't get it.
@lyannamormont Are you a 'he.'I said he. are you a "he" pretending to be a "she?"
Ahaha lol i didn't pay attention that you called your dad dick. I was furious that the guy concluded i am a feminist with something so simple and cheap. @DizzyAster
@lyannamormont It's cool.To iterate on my prior statement, my dad isn't a bad guy. He tried to be involve in all of his kids lives as much as possible.That is commendable compared to the other guys
@lyannamormont: you're a ridicule that you are already put to guys in friendzone.
Nobody is evil or bad person or born evil. I am sure your dad is not as you said.It is just the societal perception. What I am trying to say is that it is kind of a pressure on women to have a lower score and take care of house duties and taking care of kids for example. Versus men always are praised to score a lot of women (that's what I mean by putting sperm everywhere-just as a funny side note). These societal unconscious pressures shape most men and women's behaviors.
Interesting. I hear the same but in reverse, ergo, women having just-in-case dudes :O
@Unit1 For me personally I never have a just in case dude. I break up with a guy and stay single for a long time afterwards by choice.
That's what they tend to think since they are supposed to be strong and they shouldn't show emotions because emotions are for the weak like women. That's why most men try ti internalize and internalizing takes longer than letting it out like women do talk and let out with their other gfs. So women are handling better and moving on faster
That may be true, but I think men have better stress management systems built into them
That's also not true. That's what you think under the name of being strong but that's basically why men die alone.
Everybody dies alone
i wanted to say earlier. i dont know why i wrote alone. LOL
I think everyone handles breakups differently. I won't say men handle it better, I think they just hide their emotions better.
How does getting more attached make you move on more quickly? That's backwards.
@samhradh_leannan because dating is harder for men than for women. It's rare for us to find a decent woman and we have to spend a lot of effort, time, courage and money in the early stages. If we lose something of substance it can be slim Pickens for a long time (that's what happened to me). But you don't see guys going on social media and complaining about their dating problems or taking openly about them. As for hookups, guys can have sex with no emotional involvement. Much easier for us to move on from short term issues.
... plus circumstances can play a huge part... For instance: if a girl admitted to cheating on me, I'd be over her before she drew her next breath
It's rather reverse. I agree women move on faster but they don't remember because they let out things by talking to others. Men act like they're happy, free, so strong, quickly moved on. Yet, it is because they suppress their feelings. Then they start remembering how good the woman they let go was.
@lyannamormont You're right
depends on their what?