My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl and he refuses to end his friendship with her. I have asked him to at least stop having daily conversations with her if he can't stop being friends. She sends him messages saying "I had a dream about you last night :/" and gives him updates as to what she is doing throughout the day. I just want it to stop, because it's very hurtful to me. In the end, if he chose me, shouldn't he stop hanging out with her and messaging her all of the time? What should I do to get this girl to back off?
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No honey, you don't need her to back off, this is allll him.
This is not healthy. If he really loves you, well besides the fact that he wouldn't have cheated, he would've stopped all contact with her.
You need to let him go.. You're setting yourself up for constant pain. If he cna't let her go there is a reason, if he's not cheating physically anymore, he is still cheating emotionally, and you deserve better.
See when guys who really love their girls cheat.. they do it with a women they have no emotional conection with, it's just sex. For you're boyfriend it's much much more than that, and that, my girl, is a real big problem.0
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