So I guess I'm on solo status for the time being..:-/
My girlfriend wants to hang out with the guy she cheated on me with?
So I guess I'm on solo status for the time being..:-/
Break up with her. She has no respect for you whatsoever if she actually thinks she should be able to do that.
I took my current girlfriend back after she cheated. Well it wasn't completely cheating, we were and a break that she initiated but. Felt like that. She confessed immediately, said she loved me and that she would do anything to take it back. It was tough (I don't need to tell you twice) and. Dealt with it it and we have been enable to work through it. But there was a common understanding tat any form of contact with the guy would end everything.
A I'm not giving you this opinion as a guy who thinks its easy to just dump a girlfriend like at, that easily. I've been through it and a relationship can work after cheating if you do it right. But, as someone who knows exactly what your going through, this is different. She doesn't seem to give a sh*t about your feelings. Even if you had never told her no, she should know that that is a deal braker. Is common sense. So either she is too dumb to understand how relationships and feelings work, or she literally gives 0% of a sh*t about you. Wire way, get rid of her
She left my place a couple of hours ago..so I gonna talk with her about this ONE LAST TIME face to face most likely tomorrow and if she still can't respect how I feel I'm telling her "to stick a fork in our relationship because were done" Ill post my conclusion soon just watch.
I wouldn't even talk to her about it, I'd break up with her right away. But good luck I hope things work out for the best
Via the update. Good job
You really think she's not going to screw around behind your back? Realize that this is the real world and people are going to treat you however you allow yourself to be treated. He's already tasted that sweet cherry pie and once a mans had a taste, he's going to eat the whole dam thing. She might say no at first but she's already proven to you she is weak and not trustworthy. She enjoys being around him and she craves his touch.
Yes, I went about this question in a rude and tactless manner but if you don't respect yourself, why should I?
I don't think you were rude AT ALL lol. You are just telling it like it is and I RESPECT people who are like that:-)
First of all you wouldn't be paranoid if she never cheated. Secondly its not like you're suspicious about all guys she hangs out with just this one, who she happened to cheat on you with. You are right she doesn't have any respect for you and you have obviously been a little to nice to her to the point that she thinks its OK for her to do something like this, and you not to get mad.
You did the right thing by breaking up with her. Just try not to cave in and go back to her.
I wont...theres too many girls out there do be dealing with her B.S :-)
BIG RED FLAG. You know it, I know it, we all know it. Clearly that girl has reserved herself for another man. I feel really bad for you because you sound like a decent person, but I'm afraid you need to give her an ultimatum. Him or you. And even if she picks you, still consider the fact that she has disrespected you, and has already broken the trust level. Don't stick with her just to have a girlfriend, friend!
You did the exact right thing. How could she even consider hanging out with him an option after what she did to you? This is a case of her being extremely selfish and NOT putting your best interest first. You can bet that 'other guy' will be waiting to 'console' her. Good on you for getting rid of her.
TY:-)
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Once a cheater ALMOST ALWAYS a Cheater .. Sorry ! Yeah and she's trying to do it the 2nd time cause she got away with the first ... What you did was the right thing ... I hope that you stay that way .. It will be HARD and TEMPTING to go back ... So GOOD LUCK ! Don't worry Ur so Young Ms. Right would come along in time ... you're not in a hurry Marrying just yet right ... so RELAX & ENJOY Life !
Is very disrespectful to ask you that or even hanging out with him when she still with u,maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you anymore,she doesn't care about how you felt or feel anymore. Clear things out and hope you find a solution. Saying am sorry means am sorry,I won't do it again..and she is looking for it.
I honestly think you need to re-evaluate your relationship and talk through this with her, because she is disrespecting you. I know that I've messed up before, but I care enough about my boyfriend that even if it didn't bother him, I still wouldn't go there. It's just basic respect.. you've stuck with her and she has to decide where her priorities are.
She's being a hoe.
Dump her. She only wants to hang with him because she's into him. And wants him again. I would drop her like it was hot. And never talk to her again. Trust me. Why don't you go find some other girl to chill with? Trust me there are better ones. Just call one up!
And it's very disrespectful to go hang with that guy again. She's a straight lump. Ask your mom.
Dump her and never speak to her again. You'll love someone else a lot more.
She's disrepecting you. Talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel and that if she still wants to go hang out with that guy, then your relationship with her is over. It's either him or you basically. And make sure to relay your point in a non-argumentative serious manner, so that she knows you mean what you say.
She disrespected you once by cheating, now she just throwing salt on the wounds. If it was me, I would have never took her back after the first time. I have feeling from you forgiving her the first time she thinks she can walk all over you. Show your self some respect and get rid of her, don't even ask her not to see the guy. Your better off showing some respect for yourself now and dump her like you should have the first time she did it.
Good luck!
disrespectful and I think she still cheated on you even after talking and working things out with u...good thing you dumped her
Actually there was no working things out lol I gave her the ultimatum which she refused so I dumped her..and now I'm a d***head all of a sudden smh
That is so unacceptable for her to even ask to hangout with him. no no no
I agree as well I don't know what kind of sh*t she is on rite now..
Don't let her play you. If she still hangs with him after you told her you're not okay with it, then she obviously doesn't respect you enough and may have feelings for him still.
If she cheated on you, it will never ever work out. Simple as that.
Agreed:-)
good job man. I'm sure this is the stage where she either sends you hateful messages or begs you to take her back so either way better to cut off contact
TY:-) I will bro I will starting a new chapter in my life:-) I bet ignoring her will piss her even more HAHAHAHA!
Going to be real honest here. She's a selfish bitch! It ok to hang out with almost anyone but it's really awful to hang out with a guy she hooked up with behind your back. Glad you broke up with that cheater. Hopefully someday she'll date someone else that will cheat on her.
wow good for you! you deserve better, and that is disrespectful and insensitive to your feelings
Yup and since she couldn't see that I showed her the door ha
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! Why should she hang out with the same guy? of all people why HIM? She's deserves to get dumped. Just drop her.
I just did couple of hours ago:-) I know you liked my updates right:-)
Yes. I hope you find someone that knows how to stay faithful. You don't deserve anyone that's anything less than that.
I would like to find someone on these forums everyone in here seems so legit:-)
Lol
wow she has no respect for you. you can do better. stop tolerating that behavior you're letting her play u
I did that's why kicked her to he curb via mt update lol
I think you should tell her exactly how you feel about it and give her an ultimatum if she chooses to hang out with him.
I actually did give her an ultimatum I posted it in my update but she denied it so I showed her the front door of my apartment HAHAHAHA!
you did the right thing
TY:-) I realize that now:-)
yup
If your not together why do you care?
Umm maybe you should re-read my story we WERE together when she was hanging with him..
Confront her
I'm going to try tomorrow for the LAST TIME its her last chance believe me!
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