Girls, Should I wish my ex girlfriend a happy new year if we haven’t really spoke since the break up 4 months ago?

[Anonymous]

I’m still madly in love but she also is currently in a very new relationship that doesn’t seem legit to me and everyone around me thinks as well. Mind you she did break up via text. The only time we have had any contact was on our birthdays but just a happy birthday that’s all. We also had a weird social media back and forth w/ following each other. I believe she also blocked me on ig the last time I checked. She is still friends with family of mine and friends? Please give me some advice.

[Wonder89]

No don’t do it. You shouldn’t be concerning yourself with how to act or what to do. I’d recommend cutting of contact completely. You will heal faster and causes less pain in the long run. It’s the only way to let go and move on rather than hold onto the idea that you will get back together.

[AshBash1119]

She's moved on. The guy she's with will probably be temporary but I don't think she has intentions to get back together with you. My best advice is to find a rebound girl that you enjoy spending time with so you can move on as well.

[321rose]

The best thing you can do is upgrade your self; grades, scholarship, learn from mistakes. I don't know, then maybe maybe a few years later or after her relationship you can try but it's not a garenteed