Why does ex boyfriend always come back?

[KhanhLinh]

I have break up for 6 months. The first month after breaking up, I was painful and asked him to answer my texts but he ignored them all. Recently, he usually asks about me. Then we’ve texted some times but I still block him on Facebook. He says nothing directly but I can feel he talks to me with an open-heart, tells me some of his secrets even I don’t ask, but I don’t care about him as much as before and I’m ready to date a new guy now.
Guys, why do you always come back when we have got over you?

[kbbroiler]

Here is the deal with that and I’m older so I do have experience in this men get over breakups slower than women do. Men get attached once they have opened up to you. Women on the other hand get over break ups quicker and in some cases it’s like they are blowing their nose. The truth be known once a guy opens up emotionally to a woman and then she rejects him it doesn’t heal right away. As a matter of fact, it could last years. For me, I’ve been through this and I have cut the women out of my life. I have no links to them and I don’t even go to place where they might show up like parties and so forth. So just like how men and women think differently men are more logical and women are more emotionally it’s different for getting over someone. Plus women will get into a relationship first with another guy and then he questions everything you said in your relationship about loving each other. The reality is you don’t love him anymore. That is the thing he is having problems dealing with.

[boltgun]

U can't exactly say when u need he ignored u coz u did break up. some people believe it's in each other's best interest to not talk to each other. But turns out he couldn't keep the act up. I remember a general trend like this, where guys take longer to overcome breakup, and girl can be more emotional right after but give them sometime they behave like nothing ever happem lol not sure if this js stereotype so jist take this as food for thought's. Am saying this so u keep an open mind, all the best.

[Pinay_ako]

Only desperate egotistical narcissists come back to you after breaking your heart. DO NOT ENTERTAIN HIM. He will disappear again. Stay woke. Watch the pattern.

[KhanhLinh]

Yes, when I need, he ignored me and now he tries to be closed to me

[Pinay_ako]

nah man. Cut him off. It will do you good. Trust me. Been there, done that

[Niceguysfinishlast99]

Pinay_ako has got it right on the money. Don’t be a fall back for him cause something in his life didn’t work out.

[silvermoon84]

Because you keep taking him back. Don't enable him if he keeps breaking your heart

[Espolare2000]

Needs a place to stay and someone to funnel his hog

[melnc]

looks like he found out you were valuable and have a good heart, but after it was too late.

[BlueSpark]

He's lonely, needy and you may be the only person to temporarily end that.

Its not abnormal, and you can't blame him for feeling that way, but that doesn't mean he has the right to give and take you as he pleases and screw around with your emotions. You need to stand your ground and follow your gut. Do what you can to keep you two together if that's what you want. If that doesn't work out, or it's not what you want, then you just need to say no

[Sspaulding728]

sometimes the thought logic is ridiculous as to why this is. but in my opinion most of the time, if they know your into someone else, they realise you dont want them anymore. they dont have that control over you and it bugs the shit out of them normally. So they try and get back with the woman. other instances are some guys are just comfortable with that person and they dont want change.

[neel26]

Generally. He's got no other place to go to. But sometimes say 1 in 10 realizes your importance

[ShesAmerican]

Because he realized what has he done, he's only coming to you because he's lonely, not wanting you

[Anonymous]

Either A-because he realized how badly he screwed up with you and is sincere in doing right by you now, or because B-he thought he'd be a hot catch after ditching you... and obviously the girls in public didn't seem to think he was.

[Opinion Owner]

Your name... you're Vietnamese?

[KhanhLinh]

Yes, I’m Vietnamese. How can you recognize?

[Opinion Owner]

I grew up in Little Saigon, San Francisco.

[KhanhLinh]

That’s great, but I’m living in VietNam now. And sounds like you have lot of sentiments with Vietnamese?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Some close friends I've made over the years are from Vietnam, and the majority are from Southeast Asia as a whole. Since you're living in Vietnam, and it's more traditional there... my answer to your question now leans toward the first option.

[KhanhLinh]

Thank you guy 😄

[Anon-ymous1]

Nostalgia. Misses you. Pretty simple. He probably hasn't found a new girl is why.

[vicopama]

I think he has found out that there's none like you. And that you're unique in your own different way.

[firoo]

Coz he got no one else so for the time being he's just messing with u

[LIL-BAD-ONE]

Sometimes we get love sick and just want someone to talk to

[Nice222]

I never go back once broken up I move on and don’t look back.

[boggboss]

We don't only guys that want a easy option

[KhanhLinh]

I don’t get your point clearly 🤔

[boggboss]

An ex that knows his girl is not over him knows that she will be much more easy to get sex out off then someone else

[lilmissumshine]

Because he thinks he can. dont allow it

[Sexyfeet]

Obvious likex what was hopes can be again

[Guanfei]

Because you let him.

[junaidkhan20]

No they don't

[khopp]

I don't