What's the worst thing an ex did to you after you broke up?

Question

Maybe because your partner wasn't happy you broke up, or maybe you weren't happy etc.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I personally don't have an ex but my mom on the other hand... this took place in the early 2000s, my mom was in a fight with my brothers dad over something i can't remember. Well my brothers dad was a construction worker currently living in an almost complete house he was building. He was out of town and wasn't getting home until 6pm the next day. Now like I said early 2000s, so no caller id or anything to identify people. My mom called his electric company, his water company, and gas company and got everything shut off. She called every delivery place she could think of and ordered food to his house to be delivered at 6. She called the local news paper and news station and told them to be at his adress at 6, that something big was going down. He had to pay for the food, tell the news that nothing was going on, and didn't get his power back on for 3 more days. To this day he thinks it was his ex wife instead of my mom.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He told everyone the reasons we broke up were: I slept with his dad, I was pregnant and I didn't know the baby daddy oh and also that I had numerous stds. Which none of those were true! Looking back I probably should of slept with his dad to rub it in his face 😂

Nerdking · Accepted Answer

After my ex left me after she cheated on me with her "soulmate" and he left her when she was 5 months preggo, she tried to come back to me and ofc i said no, then she spread lies and slander on social media saying how i left her on the street and how bad i been treating her and she wish she had a real man when she's the one who made bad choices and one of her friends told her "you had a real man that was willing to take care of you but you fked that up and cheated on him... that man loved you and you hurt him terribly. Learn to live with your choices.

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

I was still trapped in a lease with a girl I dated for 2 years. So we were living together in separate rooms. Once she vented at me in anger. She broke the window in our apartment. I myself was sexually abused by my mother and my ex said, "Why don't you tell me how your mother's pussy tasted. Did you like it?" I still cry about hearing that and its a year and a half later.

I am now in a new dating relationship with a girl who is wonderful and kind. She is so nice and wonderful I feel that I must have done something right in the eyes of karma.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I had an ex threaten to file a false report with my professional licensing authority. Fortunately, she was stupid enough to make that threat in a voice mail message and I saved it for about 5 years after the break up. Nothing ever materialized from her threat; she was just running her mouth, as she was won't to do.

ragequeen · Answer

They went straight to another girl and spread lies about me after telling me they would rather be alone.

MajorRags · Answer

Back story. Married to this woman for 5 years. We were doing ok, a little rough, she was distant.

We made good money, I had a good career, she was a nurse, but somehow she let her car get repossessed.

One day she goes to work and never came home. Kept promising to be home the next day.

She took my car, and I got rides to work but kept being late because my friend driving me went into work 2 hours after me and couldn't get up that much earlier, so i ge fired. Wife emptied the bank account. Me and my son lose the water, the electric, then get evicted.

Then she asks to see our son for the weekend. No custody order or anything. She promised two days and she will bring him back. She comes over, gives me back my car, because look! she bought a brand new Buick luxury sedan! Sorry about you losing the house hunny!

She kept out son 8 days. But she lied about it, she kept promising to meet me, then while the time gets close and Im waiting in a parking lot to meet her she keeps changing the times. Im crying, thinking I've lost my son as well as my wife. I have my first panic attacks, can't breath, shaking. For days she keeps me begging for my son back. Finally she gives him to me, along with child support, $20.

Then she doesn't see him again for one year and 2 months before she files for custody, demanding to have him. This, after she has a son with a previous husband that she totally ignores.

Thank GOD I smoked her in court. Judge couldn't BELIEVE she'd done what she did then expect to get the kid.

Now we fight for divorce. Three years after she walked out im nearly rid of her. My life still isn't recovered, I lost my career and work part time doing poorly paid bullshit and she is pissed she has to pay child support at all.

Ill never get married again, and I haven't dated since. No time, don't care. Not getting fucked over again. She ruined me.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Usually, it's them lying about me to someone. Lying to foreign nationals, lying to the cops, lying to my family, always making with lies - often ones that are all too easy for me to disprove! And when confronted with the logistical impossibility of their fibs, they all get pouty and defiant! They don't care that they're caught in a lie; they just can't part ways with me without burning my world down as they go. Because they feel a need to be cruel when they decide they want "better."

Granted, it's better than that time a gal abandoned me to join some cult that wanted to plot a revolution in Slovakia. Or the other gal who turned down an offer to date me to join a domestic terrorist organization. Or the other one that was scamming me trying to get an iTunes card, and sent me an unsolicited nude pic. And talked to me like I was a sugar daddy when she still didn't know me. (Which creeped me out!)

Several of them were stashers, and I hate being stashed. And if I would remind them that I hate being stashed, they'd get nasty. And I'd get fed up and leave - and then they'd paint me as a "rapist" for leaving them!

Another joined a gang after breaking up with me. And then she robbed a Subway store with a toy gun. And then she became a heroin addict.
Still another pretended to read my letters, but never actually read them. And years later, blocked me on Facebook for no reason - after butting in on a conversation with someone else and making things awkward.

If I were to list every betrayal in detail, I'd write an entire book.

guyhenry · Answer

my first serious relationship. We broke up, I travelled to London for 3 weeks... she hasn't answered any phone calls messages emails even her house phone for 2 months. I had taken it as if she had moved on. So I had all my fun in london slept with 4 girls in 3 weeks. The day I came back home, upon entering the house my house phone was ringing it was her to my surprise... we spoke a lot then she asked me if I had been with other girls. Of course I always told her the truth. She said I thought you would say you missed me and closed the phone. I kept calling her sending her I love yous and I miss yous and anything you want... except little did I know at that time that I was being unattractive. Soon enough I found out every time I was contacting her she was sleeping with my friends friends. So I would walk around my friends knowing they knew who she was sleeping with and finally she slept with my best friend, and that I couldn't handle anymore. Although after all that I still messaged her once after months I miss you. We met on the street she hugged me I hugged her. And then we saw each other again 12 years later as friends. she enraged me But it taught me the laws of attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

We were supposed to talk things out and try to be friends, instead he didn't show up and jumped right into a new relationship with another girl and started rubbing it to my face. He sent these messages and pics of how he's happy with his new girlfriend to me almost daily even if I wasn't answering him. Then he started contacting my friends and hanging out with them, trying to get them to his side and distancing me from my friends. He faked being suicidal to get me to answer him. When I fell for it and tried to calm him down he "suddenly" went from "suicidal" to being happy and loving life. He started begging me back. When it didn't work out he started playing more games and got even more manipulative, possessive, jealous and controlling. When I asked him what if i said yes (wasn't going to but he didn't know it), he answered he never even liked me like that, was using me , stringing me along for his own needs and has a girlfriend. But if I wanted to be his secret side chick that might work out. I laughed at it and continued my life. He kept trying to play me, stalking me and sabotaging any attempts I had on getting a new relationship (not sure how he found out about the guys but he contacted them spreading lies about me). It's been years and he's taken, still he keeps showing up to places I go, reaching out to people I know, driving by my house and confessing his undying love to me, all behind his girlfriend's back.

Don't you just love exes... 😠

Anonymous · Answer

I was his girl, he was my guy. First love type of thing from baby freshmen to seniors in highschool. We were each other's first everything. Well, we broke up because he pressured me to have sex and I wasn't ready. Like right after, he started dating this loud bitch, fell in love in two weeks, had sex and he told me all about it one night.

I'm dating this new guy. One day after school, I'm in the car waiting for my new boyfriend to get in when I see my ex approach him. I'm confused. My bf's face twists, he's mad. Turns out, my ex had warned him that I was just using him because I didn't want to be alone. boyfriend didn't buy the bitter tea.

Fast forward, college starts, I get accepted to a university near my ex's and am newly single. He finds out, messages me saying he wants to hang out, mind you I'm dumb af for him and him for me, repeat, dumb af. I'm gonna say it again for the people in the back, dumb as fuck. So, we get back together and I find out his ex thinks I stole him. And he never did cut things off with her, she wanted him back so bad and it was so obvious. I didn't want that stress in my life.

A couple months later I broke up with him for good, and that was more than 3 years ago.
At the time, I was all beat up, not even bc of the high school stuff, but because we finally got back together as adults and I had forgiven him for everything and for him not to just put her aside completely...

Looking back though, there were red flags everywhere (how much can you explain on GaG) and I shouldn't have forgiven him.

Anonymous · Answer

So, let me set this up by talking about the time that my ex organized some movers to pick up "her stuff" from what was now my place (she'd moved out of town and was living with a new guy). She tells me the movers are coming on a Monday. I say great, I've got the day off so can be there for them. She then deliberately changes date so I can't be there. My brother offers to oversee it. Through the day, I'm getting calls asking "I can take this, right?", only to find out she's telling me and my brother about different items. She offers to split joint gifts, and proceeds to take them all anyway. That's okay, that's just stuff. The real kicker is when I get home, and assess the damage of my now-empty place. I grab a chair, say "Well, at least I've still got my spare TV", and point the remote to turn it on. Nothing happens. I decide to check the batteries, and she's taken them. Batteries. A pair of shitty old used AA batteries. Of course I laughed at the pettiness of it, but man, did I dodge a bullet. Who takes batteries?

thatguy2535 · Answer

She contacted my now ex and got her drunk and convinced her to break up with me, then she sent her parents to break into my house and steal everything.. not just expensive stuff like my TV laptops media player they took EVERYTHING my clothes silverware, pots and pans, the shower curtain... oh and the one that really crushed me my cat. And when they left they dumped all of the dirty cat litter all over the carpet... I called the police I got some things back but they "lost" my cat... I hadn't talked or seen my ex for 4 years and then she decided to flip my life upside down out of the blue. I wasn't a bad boyfriend either honestly never fought always let her have her way, woke up early every morning made her, her favorite breakfast from scratch. She made $200 a month I paid for everything $1100 rent $200 TV and internet, $150 a week on groceries. Bought her weed every week that got so expensive I just grew it oh ya they also took 2lbs of weed and 2k worth of grow equipment... But ya know fuck me right?

nightdrot · Answer

The worst thing was pretty bad. She had an abortion - only informing me after the fact. This despite my literally begging her - when she told me she was pregnant - to keep the baby. In that connection I promised she would never have to see the baby again if she did not want to and that I would impose no financial obligations on her and pay any costs related to the pregnancy.

Suffice to say, I took it extremely hard.

It has a happy ending in that, a few years later, met a wonderful woman who I love with all my heart. We have been living together for ten years now and she is the amazing mother of my three children, who I also love with all my heart.

Still, I can't help but think about the baby I never got to hold.

think_logic85 · Answer

Within a week was already dating another person. Once confronted about the situation she said he was not the reason for what she did, although they were already talking around my back.

Her words ‘I feel bad for what I did, but that’s life’, extended a hand for friendship, I naturally denied it.

-Fast forward a year-

Writes an E-Mail to me asking to catch up, I deny it and find out through a third source they they broke up and she literally contacted me the day they broke up.

Since I denied the catch up, she found herself another boyfriend within a week again.

Since me she has had 3 bfs, 1 year each, I don’t care about it anymore, don’t know if she’s on her 4th or 5th already, she’s not gonna come back in my life again.

wadeabeee · Answer

I broke up. She spread rumors, somehow made girls I didn't even know hate me, aka she cock blocked me with lies. She tried to get me back with an apology note and I told her that I wasn't mad at her and she didn't do anything wrong. "I loved our time and company, but I just didn't love you. You're a great friend and you are talented and it's just me. I wasn't happy." She resented me for emotions out of my control. All the people she lied too never talked to me, but after a few years they saw that I was a good guy and she lied. Honestly it's gross... I understand frustration when a girl didn't like me, but it's not there fault for feeling such a way. My x blamed me for not loving her, but lying about loving her would have been much easier to do and made my social status better...

lotv56 · Answer

I broke up with him because he was becoming really pushy with wanting to have sex but I wasn't ready. He told me no one would waste their time with an 18 year old virgin (I kinda believed him). Well 3 weeks later he was dating someone else and he got her pregnant not even two months later. He also said some disgusting things about my grandpa who had just passed away and he had never even met him, the only reason he said those things was because he knew it would hurt me. But... then his new girlfriend now (ex wife) screwed him over three years later. I guess he got into some heavy things and now he's in prison.. so maybe karma? who knows. I haven't seen him since I dumped him which was perhaps like 8 years ago?

Stephanie2003_ · Answer

I've never dated so I don't have an ex. But my mum has, her ex just walked out and disappeared for 2 weeks of which he hooked up with someone else, then he tried to get my mum back because he didn't tell her about his new hookup so my mum got with him again for a few months while he was dating this other chick. (Btw my mum and this guy were married) and coincidently, my mum went out for a drink with her friend and got talked up by the bartender who happened to be the brother of this other chick. And he told her about the hookup, THE END.

Kinky-Larrd · Answer

Over a decade ago now but a year on girlfriend left me a couple of months later out of the blue she want to meet up have a night out go clubbing I almost went but was told buy a close friend of hers I was being invited purely to parade me in front of the guy she really wanted, wanting make him as jealous as possible, her expectation being me beaten up by him and his mates before the night out. Gobsmacked and gutted never saw her again, even around friends we shared. To this day I can't understand such a mindset, truly ugly inside!!!

thedancingcookie20 · Answer

He was pissed I broke up with him and "ruined his plan of us getting married" and what not. So he told a ton of people at our uni how horrible I was and spread a ton of false, mean rumors about me. I lost some mutual friends and got an iffy reputation amongst a couple big campus organizations. He also cockblocked me every time another guy and I were talking or flirting, stalked me around camp us, tried to follow me home, harassed my current boyfriend who he was jealous of, talked mad shit about me to the friends that stayed with me, etc.

Staiby · Answer

Mine isn't as bad as some other stories I've read here but...

he told me he was coming over to see me. I told him he doesn't have permission to come over. he came over anyway to beg for me back (even though HE broke up ME). He was abusive during the relationship. He always made me feel powerless and that day I just had enough of him, AGAIN, disregarding what I say or feel, being made to feel powerless and irrationally thinking I was partly at fault for something I can't control.

And now he works with my poor guy friend and he brings me up during shifts, accuses him of dating me and tells him I'm a slut. Incredibly unprofessional

TotallyNotJosh · Answer

She consistently hung with one of her "guy friends" constantly told me about how great of a guy he was and how he gives the best hugs, then at the time we were in school and she walked in screamed delightedly his name and just ignored me the entire time, after that she kept complementing his looks and then when I was a complete paranoid wreck not knowing how to describe to her how I felt I sent her a break up text I didn't mean and when she asked why I just said because that's how you're making me feel and she decided to act so betrayed before proceeding to get with him the next day. The funny thing was the one nasty thing I did in that situation hurt me more than it did her, people can be real toxic 😅

GoodManDave · Answer

Luckily, I haven't really had anything that (I'm aware of, anyway) after a breakup.

Probably just call up or text me or something... and it was civil, so not that bad in the grand scheme of things. I lucked out in that the level of weird was pretty much in the relationship and didn't go anywhere afterward.

I've had friends who have had vindictive exes. Phew. I wouldn't have wished that level of crazy on anyone.

But then again, it was usually their choices that lead to a breakup, and they lived farther away, so I think it would have been too much work. It wasn't me causing it; so they pretty much just left me alone (which is good).

ClayClay445 · Answer

Lied to his parents that were never dating in the first place. They believed him and think I’m crazy still to this day. He also left me in a hotel room after I drove 8 hours to see him on Valentine’s Day.

Anonymous · Answer

Hahaha he cropped out pics of me where i was in a crop top or shorts, and made it look like it was a nude picture, and shared it around, saying he had to crop the nude picture bc i was underage.

My solution? Post the real picture where i was clothed.

skyfan12 · Answer

Maybe everyone believe I was crazy and woupdnt leave her alone. Mean while the truth was her parents had forced us to break up and she couldn't make up her mind on weather or not she wanted to fight for me... and at the same time my sister almost dead for cancer so I was 100% fucked in the head. Anyway relationship is dead her family killed our friendship as will and her mom died a year ago fucked up to say but I feel karma did that to her family for her badly they treated me I was very close to kill myself. I do see my ex from time to time but we don't talk her current boyfriend is OK with us talking or being friends.

thinkaloudtolive · Answer

After starting to get over her (several months after she dumped me) she called me up one day and asked if we could hang out. We spent the entire day walking around outdoors and having the best time. By the end of the day, it was dark out so she drove me back to my house and asked if we could go inside to watch a movie. I agreed, so We watched a movie, and she cuddled up next to me and started holding my hand. Then She kissed me and we proceeded to make out throughout the course of the movie and I was on top of the world again thinking we were working things out. After the movie, she's putting her shoes on and says, "You know this doesn't change anything right, I mean, were still broken up." She later told me that she only called me up because she missed me and needed to recharge her batteries and see me again.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to landscape garden and was half day through doing her dad's garden and rented the heavier plant stuff (rotavator etc). But she broke up then stopped me from going back to finish the job or collect the machinery. I finally had to send a letter via solicitor to her dads address. He went ballistic - didn't know why i had not returned as his daughter didn't even tell him about the breakup. He got in touch with me to sort it out He told me when to come over and apologised for the pathetic behaviour of his sh#t of a daughter.

Anonymous · Answer

Started dating our roommate, two days after we moved in with her. I had already paid for the first month, rent was split by person, so I'd paid his portion, and I had nowhere else to go, so I had to endure them.

He also made several serious changes to himself to be with her, and it was things I'd been wanting him to do for himself for nearly the entire time we'd been together.

Leave his shitty dead end job for a better one where he was treated right, take better care of himself and personal hygiene, take more pride in his appearance. I loved him for who he was, but he didn't love himself.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

He actually cheat on me with multiple girls and even sext them. After he broke up with me he started to tell people that he fucked me and shit like that (and he didn't even do that) and When i got a relationship he started harassing me and called me that he wanted to get back. But I got so angry and kicked his flat ass.

Anonymous · Answer

Due to her cultural bs and me being me I politely brought her stuff home. After I told her to take it with her on what I KNEW would be the last day she came by. She refused "its funny to leave it here."

I proceeded to bus over to her parents place. I called her the whole way. She refused to answer. I was giving her notice that i was opening the bag on our relationship to her family. 33 calls. She turned into a harassment plea to the cops. Sounds bad yes. Reality is she would call me 22 times between 4am and 6am after we've been on the phone all day and I can no longer stay up. She does that to me regularly. That was the one time i ever acted like her and it was to give her fair warning cause i was a nice submissive boyfriend i guess.

Ciscokid_ · Answer

Went to Sweden, made out with a complete stranger, then had her friend send me a picture of it. Another time, same girl, she took my glasses and chucked the across the room. Why the fuck did I stay with this girl for so long?

Confidenceoverload · Answer

First of all she cheated on me and I broke up with her and then she stated talking shit about my friends and me and made me so angry I almost beat her because she was a really manipulative person so she lied to everyone about me by the way I didn’t hit her ever and I’ll never hit a girl ever she would always force me to have sex when I’m tired or when I’m super stressed and then she has the nerves to call me and tell me that she still loves me and didn’t mean to do anything to me 😡and lowkey I was like bitch ya pussy was loose anyway but I said no you dont you just want the easy access to my wallet and my dick

evemendez24 · Answer

We were never together but we were in a stage where we expressed our feeling to each other. After a week I texted him and his brother texted me back saying that he got in trouble. I texted him again and he responded saying he will tell me once he sees me. He saw me and he ignored me for about 4 days. My friend came up to me and said to me that he has a hickey on his neck. Once I saw him coming out from his class he looked at me with shame, covering his neck. Since then I haven't talked to him. He always tried to show of his girlfriend to me but I always ignored him. Thank God I graduated.

Anonymous · Answer

Well he was secretly dating his first girlfriend whilst dating me even though he insisted he broke up with her ages ago and he still asked if I wanted to go prom with him because he bought the tickets even though I dumped his ass when I found out.

So I told him I'd be there and took the ticket got a refund and put it towards travelling round Europe instead. Then he came to my house on prom night to pick me up and I wasn't there because I was in Europe and he had to go it alone. So it's more what I did to get back at him

JulieXO · Answer

He broke my glass door, threatened to kill himself, threatened me that if he sees me with another guy he’ll beat him up, posted revealing photos of me on the Internet, stalked me and tried to turn my friends against me.

Sachinrb21 · Answer

She accused me for things I never did in my life and asked me to sleep with her!
We broke up 3yrs back and I tried to reach out to her but, to my bad, nothing worked! She was in Canada doing her masters and she texted me in WhatsApp! She wanted Friendship from me! I ignored her for ditching me! So she started cursing me for nothing! She started accusing me for cheating her (which I didn't) with other girls for 2 years! Later on I came to know about her Indian boyfriend and inspite of being with a guy she wanted to sleep with me!
"Worst thing was she not only cheated me but she is cheating another soul!"

femme_A · Answer

my dumb-ass ex just left me hanging and disappeared for like a year. It really broke my heart and I was left confused. then he pops up out of nowhere one day and acts like nothing happened. Instead of apologizing or something, he asks me for a fckn favor. Can you believe that? I got super pissed. I was like, "you've been MIA for over a year and the first thing you do is ask me for a favor? Are you kidding me?" I HATE him.

ItsonlyMe71 · Answer

My ex told my two sons that I had died 3 months after we split up. I had been working away from home in another state for those three months. When I returned home and contacted my ex about visiting my boys she wouldn't allow me to see them? To explain throughly I am not the boys' biological Father but am the only Father they've ever known. I met them when they were 2 and 3 years old. They were 6 and 7 years old when me and their mother broke up. Also, both of the boys are autistic and have never known their bio donator cause he split before the younger of the two boys was born. I hope this isn't confusing? But I haven't seen either of the boys in over a year and found out from their mother own mouth that I had died in a car accident a month after I left on that work assignment? What kind of person does this?

peedy · Answer

Tried to have harassment charges put on me, said I was driving by her house at all hours of the day and night plus I was calling and hanging up or wouldn't say anything
I was living 2 hrs away with no car no driver's license and no long distance on my phone (before cell phones)
We get to court i explain my situation to the judge than my lawyer asks for few more days to do something turns he was waiting on phone records which my so called harassing phone calls were telemarketers and with no proof of me driving by the charges were dropped but they still put a restraining order on me so I asked the judge she lies she makes this stuff up she gets all the all of us in court waste everybody's time and money and I'm the one getting punished where's the Justice here we're false accusations or something I was pretty pissed and I spoke my mind which piss the judge off but he told me to leave where I was going to be in contempt of court so I left, never spoke to her again

molonski2 · Answer

Think the worst thing , and it was someone I really needed to break off with , as I wanted to see another , was send two guys to my house smashed things up a bit leaving out photos of her , taking my head shaver and a pile of coins I had , this was a particularly personal message. There was history in the items , I didn't report the crime.

marom · Answer

Was engaged to someone i didn't even love before as a traditional engagement..
He did lots of things..
Like i found his wifi bill on my phone i had to pay it.
And he asked me if my best friend is still single
Plus he lied to me that he was engaged before..
Thats why i dont trust guys easily.
Thank God i left him and walked away.
I am blessed.

Bananaman177 · Answer

She ran off to California and became a meth addict and got pumped and dumped and then arrested for possession, so they took the kid away.

Oh wait, actually, that's pretty hilarious. It's like somebody spitting on you as they walk by only to trip and fall down a hundred flights of stairs.

Alli_Catt312 · Answer

He started telling people that I cheated on him and if someone were to ask him what happened between us he'd say I broke up with him which literally made no sense cuz I had the screenshots of him breaking up wit me. Everybody in school thought I was a hoe and it sucked.

Anonymous · Answer

I made a fake social media account of him, made his preferences as gay and looking, and upload an actual pick of him to his fake profile.

I was 16 at the time and it was the first time someone cheated on me with someone else. In that case it was with my best friend.

That was the first and last time I did something like that.

PrivateGurl1234 · Answer

Well I dated this guy for 2 years while I lived in New York and then I found out I was pregnant and told him and he was like oh awesome! Then one day I got home from work and all my stuff and his stuff was gone and there was a note on the kitchen bench saying: “Sold your stuff! Have booked your flight back home and P. S. I’m married!” That ass kept the money to from when he had sold my stuff!

Anonymous · Answer

Send nude photos of mine online (I did not even know he taken them)
And harmed a career opportunity

Because he only cheated twice that I know of so I should not have broke up with him on that (after telling me he did not)
So he believed I had it coming

kwenerick · Answer

Honestly, nothing unless you cout not talking to me, but I don't really care I accept things for the way they are and I ask is this going to affect me moving on to being a better person than I was yesterday. Nope, have faith and keep pushing forward. You have endless opportunities ahead.

MAGABeard · Answer

Leave me, in my BMW, to sleep with her ex-boyfriend (to eventually be kicked out) then call me up to ask if I would break in with her, to get "our" furniture she had her brothers cart away.
(I did NOT break into another fools apartment to 'get' "our" furniture)

bakedpotato_ · Answer

I finally had the courage to leave my abusive ex. When I got out, he started blackmailing me, calling me such names, posting made up stories on his facebook account about me, even his family are saying bad about me. And I think that and THEY are the worst that ever happened to me.

cth96190 · Answer

She laughed and told people how funny it was that for a year she played me, by pretending to be in a relationship with me.
The whole time, she used me as a diversion so that her parents would not suspect that she was maintaining a secret relationship with the bad boy former boyfriend.
I was too young, naive and too much in love to see what she was up to.
The pain of that broken heart and that insight into female nature changed me.

creative_art · Answer

When you think you're finally over them and they try to message you again to come back in your life. I seriously hate when an ex or even a person I dated does that. The boomerang folks I call them. That one ex- though hurt me soo bad the second time I let him back in. It took me another year to get over him again.

Dim1213 · Answer

Join the # me too movement and twist everything you did and done so every one she tells thinks your a creep. When she was the slut and latter making you realize that she was in love with the idea of me not really in love with me.

Grind · Answer

An ex of mine went around the semi small town we lived in telling various people I used to rape and abuse her and drag her around by her hair.

It got me excluded from bars, almost arrested and beaten up. I was 17. Persecuted fir months.

The irony is that she used to beg me to dominate and 'force' her into sex, I refused and that's why we didn't make it.

Weapon77 · Answer

I suppose the worst thing is that she tried to act like we were just friends the entire time, even though we did things and discussed things that "just friends" do not do or discuss. Very hurtful, and for no reason that I can understand except she was trying to manipulate me.

TilWyll · Answer

She was abusive and I finally sobered up and left her. She was mentally I'll though so I'd talk her out of suicide for 2 weeks every night on the phone for hours. Turns out during the day she was talking shit about our sex life to people I knew (even though she ended up raping me a few times). I never use the word hate except for her.

lovelyboys · Answer

I've never had an exe. I've had guys who claim to be my exe even though I NEVER let them think we were involved. And that did one guy do? He told the entire town i was his fiance, when I told everyone that he was joking, he texted my sister saying I was a "Bitch" I avoided him for two years and when he finally saw me again, he literally pushed me so bad, I got this banging headache. He did it in front of a whole hall of people

Bxtchcraft · Answer

• One of them hit me a few times (so he got backhanded across the face and ran off crying)
• Another one told me to kill myself, that I was fat, that no one but him will ever be with me. He then rubbed in the fact he had a new girlfriend, but since he'd ignored me on Xbox to play shitty Facebook games with her, and had cheated on me with her, I didn't care and just left.

little_bird1 · Answer

He showed up drunk few days later, told me how he loves me and how he made a mistake breaking up with me, promised me the moon and the stars, begged me to forgive him, cried. I gave in and we had sex. He was gone with the wind the very next morning, never saw him again.

Nakm117 · Answer

We were coworkers and shortly after the breakup she started dating another fellow coworker and told other coworkers she went from dating a 2 to a 10. Also, whoever is closing the place designates out duties and she'd give me most of the work whenever she closed

NineBreaker · Answer

Nothing bad really. The closest thing I can think of was her trying to contact me to tell me that she's getting married. I didn't pick up, nor call her back after leaving a voice message. I sincerely wish her the best, but she broke my heart back then and I'm not interested in, nor obligated to communicate with her, or any other ex.

LifeEqualsLove · Answer

Re-activated his dating profile days later.

Talk about me to another girl and turned her against me on FB, which I actually didn't care for. I felt like she was just trynna be on his side since she liked him - who knows?

Guess thats not so bad compared to everyone else.

xPurpleRosesx · Answer

After we broke up he suddenly talked about these girls and that he was dating again and even made fake conversations between them becausr this friend of his helped him after a while ge admitted that its fake and he never dated someone after me. his intention was me... I never underdtood why he did that

Bizmarkie · Answer

She broke up with me a moth or two later I moved on and started talking to a new girl she said her friend told her I started dating and decided to let me know she was too by send me pics of her and her new boyfriend together I felt bad a first but after I realised that only a terrible person would do somthing like that so then I felt bad for the new guy

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