Maybe because your partner wasn't happy you broke up, or maybe you weren't happy etc.
What's the worst thing an ex did to you after you broke up?
I personally don't have an ex but my mom on the other hand... this took place in the early 2000s, my mom was in a fight with my brothers dad over something i can't remember. Well my brothers dad was a construction worker currently living in an almost complete house he was building. He was out of town and wasn't getting home until 6pm the next day. Now like I said early 2000s, so no caller id or anything to identify people. My mom called his electric company, his water company, and gas company and got everything shut off. She called every delivery place she could think of and ordered food to his house to be delivered at 6. She called the local news paper and news station and told them to be at his adress at 6, that something big was going down. He had to pay for the food, tell the news that nothing was going on, and didn't get his power back on for 3 more days. To this day he thinks it was his ex wife instead of my mom.
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He told everyone the reasons we broke up were: I slept with his dad, I was pregnant and I didn't know the baby daddy oh and also that I had numerous stds. Which none of those were true! Looking back I probably should of slept with his dad to rub it in his face 😂
After my ex left me after she cheated on me with her "soulmate" and he left her when she was 5 months preggo, she tried to come back to me and ofc i said no, then she spread lies and slander on social media saying how i left her on the street and how bad i been treating her and she wish she had a real man when she's the one who made bad choices and one of her friends told her "you had a real man that was willing to take care of you but you fked that up and cheated on him... that man loved you and you hurt him terribly. Learn to live with your choices.
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I was still trapped in a lease with a girl I dated for 2 years. So we were living together in separate rooms. Once she vented at me in anger. She broke the window in our apartment. I myself was sexually abused by my mother and my ex said, "Why don't you tell me how your mother's pussy tasted. Did you like it?" I still cry about hearing that and its a year and a half later.
I am now in a new dating relationship with a girl who is wonderful and kind. She is so nice and wonderful I feel that I must have done something right in the eyes of karma.
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I had an ex threaten to file a false report with my professional licensing authority. Fortunately, she was stupid enough to make that threat in a voice mail message and I saved it for about 5 years after the break up. Nothing ever materialized from her threat; she was just running her mouth, as she was won't to do.
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They went straight to another girl and spread lies about me after telling me they would rather be alone.
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Back story. Married to this woman for 5 years. We were doing ok, a little rough, she was distant.
We made good money, I had a good career, she was a nurse, but somehow she let her car get repossessed.
One day she goes to work and never came home. Kept promising to be home the next day.
She took my car, and I got rides to work but kept being late because my friend driving me went into work 2 hours after me and couldn't get up that much earlier, so i ge fired. Wife emptied the bank account. Me and my son lose the water, the electric, then get evicted.
Then she asks to see our son for the weekend. No custody order or anything. She promised two days and she will bring him back. She comes over, gives me back my car, because look! she bought a brand new Buick luxury sedan! Sorry about you losing the house hunny!
She kept out son 8 days. But she lied about it, she kept promising to meet me, then while the time gets close and Im waiting in a parking lot to meet her she keeps changing the times. Im crying, thinking I've lost my son as well as my wife. I have my first panic attacks, can't breath, shaking. For days she keeps me begging for my son back. Finally she gives him to me, along with child support, $20.
Then she doesn't see him again for one year and 2 months before she files for custody, demanding to have him. This, after she has a son with a previous husband that she totally ignores.
Thank GOD I smoked her in court. Judge couldn't BELIEVE she'd done what she did then expect to get the kid.
Now we fight for divorce. Three years after she walked out im nearly rid of her. My life still isn't recovered, I lost my career and work part time doing poorly paid bullshit and she is pissed she has to pay child support at all.
Ill never get married again, and I haven't dated since. No time, don't care. Not getting fucked over again. She ruined me. -
Usually, it's them lying about me to someone. Lying to foreign nationals, lying to the cops, lying to my family, always making with lies - often ones that are all too easy for me to disprove! And when confronted with the logistical impossibility of their fibs, they all get pouty and defiant! They don't care that they're caught in a lie; they just can't part ways with me without burning my world down as they go. Because they feel a need to be cruel when they decide they want "better."
Granted, it's better than that time a gal abandoned me to join some cult that wanted to plot a revolution in Slovakia. Or the other gal who turned down an offer to date me to join a domestic terrorist organization. Or the other one that was scamming me trying to get an iTunes card, and sent me an unsolicited nude pic. And talked to me like I was a sugar daddy when she still didn't know me. (Which creeped me out!)
Several of them were stashers, and I hate being stashed. And if I would remind them that I hate being stashed, they'd get nasty. And I'd get fed up and leave - and then they'd paint me as a "rapist" for leaving them!
Another joined a gang after breaking up with me. And then she robbed a Subway store with a toy gun. And then she became a heroin addict.
Still another pretended to read my letters, but never actually read them. And years later, blocked me on Facebook for no reason - after butting in on a conversation with someone else and making things awkward.
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my first serious relationship. We broke up, I travelled to London for 3 weeks... she hasn't answered any phone calls messages emails even her house phone for 2 months. I had taken it as if she had moved on. So I had all my fun in london slept with 4 girls in 3 weeks. The day I came back home, upon entering the house my house phone was ringing it was her to my surprise... we spoke a lot then she asked me if I had been with other girls. Of course I always told her the truth. She said I thought you would say you missed me and closed the phone. I kept calling her sending her I love yous and I miss yous and anything you want... except little did I know at that time that I was being unattractive. Soon enough I found out every time I was contacting her she was sleeping with my friends friends. So I would walk around my friends knowing they knew who she was sleeping with and finally she slept with my best friend, and that I couldn't handle anymore. Although after all that I still messaged her once after months I miss you. We met on the street she hugged me I hugged her. And then we saw each other again 12 years later as friends. she enraged me But it taught me the laws of attraction.
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We were supposed to talk things out and try to be friends, instead he didn't show up and jumped right into a new relationship with another girl and started rubbing it to my face. He sent these messages and pics of how he's happy with his new girlfriend to me almost daily even if I wasn't answering him. Then he started contacting my friends and hanging out with them, trying to get them to his side and distancing me from my friends. He faked being suicidal to get me to answer him. When I fell for it and tried to calm him down he "suddenly" went from "suicidal" to being happy and loving life. He started begging me back. When it didn't work out he started playing more games and got even more manipulative, possessive, jealous and controlling. When I asked him what if i said yes (wasn't going to but he didn't know it), he answered he never even liked me like that, was using me , stringing me along for his own needs and has a girlfriend. But if I wanted to be his secret side chick that might work out. I laughed at it and continued my life. He kept trying to play me, stalking me and sabotaging any attempts I had on getting a new relationship (not sure how he found out about the guys but he contacted them spreading lies about me). It's been years and he's taken, still he keeps showing up to places I go, reaching out to people I know, driving by my house and confessing his undying love to me, all behind his girlfriend's back.
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I was his girl, he was my guy. First love type of thing from baby freshmen to seniors in highschool. We were each other's first everything. Well, we broke up because he pressured me to have sex and I wasn't ready. Like right after, he started dating this loud bitch, fell in love in two weeks, had sex and he told me all about it one night.
I'm dating this new guy. One day after school, I'm in the car waiting for my new boyfriend to get in when I see my ex approach him. I'm confused. My bf's face twists, he's mad. Turns out, my ex had warned him that I was just using him because I didn't want to be alone. boyfriend didn't buy the bitter tea.
Fast forward, college starts, I get accepted to a university near my ex's and am newly single. He finds out, messages me saying he wants to hang out, mind you I'm dumb af for him and him for me, repeat, dumb af. I'm gonna say it again for the people in the back, dumb as fuck. So, we get back together and I find out his ex thinks I stole him. And he never did cut things off with her, she wanted him back so bad and it was so obvious. I didn't want that stress in my life.
A couple months later I broke up with him for good, and that was more than 3 years ago.
At the time, I was all beat up, not even bc of the high school stuff, but because we finally got back together as adults and I had forgiven him for everything and for him not to just put her aside completely...
Looking back though, there were red flags everywhere (how much can you explain on GaG) and I shouldn't have forgiven him. -
So, let me set this up by talking about the time that my ex organized some movers to pick up "her stuff" from what was now my place (she'd moved out of town and was living with a new guy). She tells me the movers are coming on a Monday. I say great, I've got the day off so can be there for them. She then deliberately changes date so I can't be there. My brother offers to oversee it. Through the day, I'm getting calls asking "I can take this, right?", only to find out she's telling me and my brother about different items. She offers to split joint gifts, and proceeds to take them all anyway. That's okay, that's just stuff. The real kicker is when I get home, and assess the damage of my now-empty place. I grab a chair, say "Well, at least I've still got my spare TV", and point the remote to turn it on. Nothing happens. I decide to check the batteries, and she's taken them. Batteries. A pair of shitty old used AA batteries. Of course I laughed at the pettiness of it, but man, did I dodge a bullet. Who takes batteries?
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She contacted my now ex and got her drunk and convinced her to break up with me, then she sent her parents to break into my house and steal everything.. not just expensive stuff like my TV laptops media player they took EVERYTHING my clothes silverware, pots and pans, the shower curtain... oh and the one that really crushed me my cat. And when they left they dumped all of the dirty cat litter all over the carpet... I called the police I got some things back but they "lost" my cat... I hadn't talked or seen my ex for 4 years and then she decided to flip my life upside down out of the blue. I wasn't a bad boyfriend either honestly never fought always let her have her way, woke up early every morning made her, her favorite breakfast from scratch. She made $200 a month I paid for everything $1100 rent $200 TV and internet, $150 a week on groceries. Bought her weed every week that got so expensive I just grew it oh ya they also took 2lbs of weed and 2k worth of grow equipment... But ya know fuck me right?
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The worst thing was pretty bad. She had an abortion - only informing me after the fact. This despite my literally begging her - when she told me she was pregnant - to keep the baby. In that connection I promised she would never have to see the baby again if she did not want to and that I would impose no financial obligations on her and pay any costs related to the pregnancy.
Suffice to say, I took it extremely hard.
It has a happy ending in that, a few years later, met a wonderful woman who I love with all my heart. We have been living together for ten years now and she is the amazing mother of my three children, who I also love with all my heart.
Still, I can't help but think about the baby I never got to hold. -
I broke up. She spread rumors, somehow made girls I didn't even know hate me, aka she cock blocked me with lies. She tried to get me back with an apology note and I told her that I wasn't mad at her and she didn't do anything wrong. "I loved our time and company, but I just didn't love you. You're a great friend and you are talented and it's just me. I wasn't happy." She resented me for emotions out of my control. All the people she lied too never talked to me, but after a few years they saw that I was a good guy and she lied. Honestly it's gross... I understand frustration when a girl didn't like me, but it's not there fault for feeling such a way. My x blamed me for not loving her, but lying about loving her would have been much easier to do and made my social status better...
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Within a week was already dating another person. Once confronted about the situation she said he was not the reason for what she did, although they were already talking around my back.
Her words ‘I feel bad for what I did, but that’s life’, extended a hand for friendship, I naturally denied it.
-Fast forward a year-
Writes an E-Mail to me asking to catch up, I deny it and find out through a third source they they broke up and she literally contacted me the day they broke up.
Since I denied the catch up, she found herself another boyfriend within a week again.
Since me she has had 3 bfs, 1 year each, I don’t care about it anymore, don’t know if she’s on her 4th or 5th already, she’s not gonna come back in my life again. -
I broke up with him because he was becoming really pushy with wanting to have sex but I wasn't ready. He told me no one would waste their time with an 18 year old virgin (I kinda believed him). Well 3 weeks later he was dating someone else and he got her pregnant not even two months later. He also said some disgusting things about my grandpa who had just passed away and he had never even met him, the only reason he said those things was because he knew it would hurt me. But... then his new girlfriend now (ex wife) screwed him over three years later. I guess he got into some heavy things and now he's in prison.. so maybe karma? who knows. I haven't seen him since I dumped him which was perhaps like 8 years ago?
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I've never dated so I don't have an ex. But my mum has, her ex just walked out and disappeared for 2 weeks of which he hooked up with someone else, then he tried to get my mum back because he didn't tell her about his new hookup so my mum got with him again for a few months while he was dating this other chick. (Btw my mum and this guy were married) and coincidently, my mum went out for a drink with her friend and got talked up by the bartender who happened to be the brother of this other chick. And he told her about the hookup, THE END.
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Over a decade ago now but a year on girlfriend left me a couple of months later out of the blue she want to meet up have a night out go clubbing I almost went but was told buy a close friend of hers I was being invited purely to parade me in front of the guy she really wanted, wanting make him as jealous as possible, her expectation being me beaten up by him and his mates before the night out. Gobsmacked and gutted never saw her again, even around friends we shared. To this day I can't understand such a mindset, truly ugly inside!!!
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He was pissed I broke up with him and "ruined his plan of us getting married" and what not. So he told a ton of people at our uni how horrible I was and spread a ton of false, mean rumors about me. I lost some mutual friends and got an iffy reputation amongst a couple big campus organizations. He also cockblocked me every time another guy and I were talking or flirting, stalked me around camp us, tried to follow me home, harassed my current boyfriend who he was jealous of, talked mad shit about me to the friends that stayed with me, etc.
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Mine isn't as bad as some other stories I've read here but...
he told me he was coming over to see me. I told him he doesn't have permission to come over. he came over anyway to beg for me back (even though HE broke up ME). He was abusive during the relationship. He always made me feel powerless and that day I just had enough of him, AGAIN, disregarding what I say or feel, being made to feel powerless and irrationally thinking I was partly at fault for something I can't control.
And now he works with my poor guy friend and he brings me up during shifts, accuses him of dating me and tells him I'm a slut. Incredibly unprofessional -
She consistently hung with one of her "guy friends" constantly told me about how great of a guy he was and how he gives the best hugs, then at the time we were in school and she walked in screamed delightedly his name and just ignored me the entire time, after that she kept complementing his looks and then when I was a complete paranoid wreck not knowing how to describe to her how I felt I sent her a break up text I didn't mean and when she asked why I just said because that's how you're making me feel and she decided to act so betrayed before proceeding to get with him the next day. The funny thing was the one nasty thing I did in that situation hurt me more than it did her, people can be real toxic 😅
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Luckily, I haven't really had anything that (I'm aware of, anyway) after a breakup.
Probably just call up or text me or something... and it was civil, so not that bad in the grand scheme of things. I lucked out in that the level of weird was pretty much in the relationship and didn't go anywhere afterward.
I've had friends who have had vindictive exes. Phew. I wouldn't have wished that level of crazy on anyone.
But then again, it was usually their choices that lead to a breakup, and they lived farther away, so I think it would have been too much work. It wasn't me causing it; so they pretty much just left me alone (which is good). -
Lied to his parents that were never dating in the first place. They believed him and think I’m crazy still to this day. He also left me in a hotel room after I drove 8 hours to see him on Valentine’s Day.
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