If my ex boyfriend wants to hang out every week, does this mean he's not over me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my recent ex boyfriend still keep in touch regularly
he's mainly the one initiating contact (texts and calls)
And initiates hanging out to the movies, etc every week
So we have been seeing each other every week still ever since our break up 2 months ago
If my ex boyfriend wants to hang out every week, does this mean he's not over me?

Yes he's not over you

No it doesn't mean he's not over you

[potatoes123]

Maybe he still has hope to get back with you, how broke up with who?

[Kds25]

Who broke it off you or him?

[Asker]

Him coz we fight constantly

[Kds25]

Usually i would say he still likes you. But to me he knows you still like him. Which then he knows he has the power to usu your feelings agaisnt you. Your his plan b for when he fall outs with other girls. Dont let him do that to you. He either commits or takes a hike. No need to mislead and make someone hurt more.

[Kds25]

Yours went better then mine. We got in one fight she decide to end it with me. I finally express how i was feeling in our relationship she didn't like it.

[Asker]

How is he using me? How is he using my feelings?
I dont think so..

Whenever we hang out, he would do the following things:
- he always initiates texting (he text me several times a week , not everyday)
And sonetimes calls me randomly just to "talk"
- he always initiates hanging out
- he's always walking and standing beside me and close to me
- he still teases me and still calling me nicknames
- he touches my shoulder, arms, thigh sometimes
- he holds my shopping bags for hours if he sees im struggling
- he's always asking me "are you ok?"

[Asker]

- he looks at me a lot
- whenever im on my phone and he’s beside me, he would always look over at what im doing on my phone (e. g. if a guy pops up on my Instagram feed, he would ask “whos that?” or if my phone beeps, he would ask “whos texting you?”
- during a movie, he would sometimes look at me and checks up on me by leaning forward towards me asking “u asleep?” or “are u okay? U enjoying the movie?”
- before we say goodbye, he would always ask for a hug and then squeezes me tight

Do you really think if he's doing all that, he's using me?
he's the one still making more efforts than me

[Asker]

And if he's seeing other girls, he can take another girl to the movies or other places, not me.
He wouldn't bother asking to see me every week.
I know how he is.

[Kds25]

You seem to know your answer then. You didn't add all that. I only knew what you wrote.

[Kds25]

But means he also realized what he lost. He was out with other girls they didn't compared to you.

[Asker]

How do you know he's out with other girls?

[Anonymous]

Or he is just bored