I feel I am pretty, in shape, and fairly outgoing. But I have never been asked for my number or asked out by a guy. Example, today I was at the gym with friends and this guy kept looking at me and I thought he was interested in me. We kept catching each others eye until he left a little while later with his friend. Then about a minute later he walks back in and walks straight towards me. I thought for sure this was going to be the first time someone asked me for my number! Alas, he said he saw I had a wrestling shirt on and if I knew if the school had a wrestling class. I told him I had just moved here so I didn't know and he walked off. FML! I don't know what it is, but it's never happened to me. What the heck? Can someone explain this?
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Most guys are intimidated by a hot girl, especially ones that don't look friendly. A lot of guys see a hot girl and automatically think that if he approaches her she's going to be a bitch. If you want to get more guys to approach you you should open up your body language. If a guy you like looks at you, smile. Maybe even wave. When a guy approaches you with a question like that, he's normally using it as an excuse to talk to you because he's interested in you.
Maybe you came across as a little unfriendly and dismissive when he asked you the question. Imagine going up to a really hot guy you like, expecting him to be rude, asking him about his wrestling shirt, him looking a little uninterested and just going "I only just moved here, so I don't know". He thought you weren't interested, so her left before it got too awkward. I don't think most girls understand how hard it is for most guys to have the balls to go up and approach them.
So yeah, all you need to do next time is try to continue the conversation, and be friendly. Turn the conversation onto something you have in common, and maybe you could suggest you get together with the guy sometime?
Hopw this helps :)1