Your a better man then me cause if I had a partner do that to me after 3 years I would of just told her to keep fucking moving. I wouldn't give a toss about her at all she made her bed now she can sleep in it.
This sounds like fate to me 😍
I was lucky enough to find my one true love, no matter how far or how fast I ran, I always ended up running to him. Fate, luck, whatever you want to call it, I'm one lucky woman
Would you he ok if he met other women behind your back but he didn't sleep with then
@dothejohnwall97 if he had said that he was meeting them for a drink then I would be fine with that, I only found out via friends who had spotted him, he used to get phone calls from these women late at night and early hours of the morning where he would jump out of bed and talk out of earshot. I didn't take calls from my male friends and go and talk elsewhere as I had nothing to hide and I introduced him to my friends whereas he used to be cagey about it or react angrily. Two of the women even messaged me to tell me they'd slept with him.
can't men sleep around as long as he comes home to you? Like we just want to Have fun, and be good to our women too
@dothejohnwall97 would you want your girlfriend to sleep around? If people want to sleep around then that's fine and their choice but when I'm in a relationship I am faithful and I expect the same in return. It's not as my sex life with my ex was lacking, it was a very active and enjoyable sex life. My ex realised his mistake when I broke up with him and I think he cried more than I did but he broke my trust ( and my heart) and I knew that cheaters never really change their ways
No, my woman is my woman and only mine. No one else can sleep with her except me. But i feel entitled to enjoy other women because i know i treat my girl right. I support her emotionally and financially. She does not know i slept with 1 oter woman, but that woman is jist a co-worker and we are not emotionally connected. Also my friends took me to the strip club, ever since i went i feel in love with the strip club and i think im addicted
@dothejohnwall97 I feel bad for your girlfriend if that's your attitude. What makes you think that you're entitled to sleep around but expect your girlfriend to remain faithful? Surely your girlfriend should be entitled to try out other men in that case?
No she can't try other men. And i did this a while back with my co worker, it was a 1 time thing and will never ever happen Again. But the strip club is fine because i inly get lap dance, i dont actually get sex from them , you know?
@dothejohnwall97 strip clubs are different from sleeping around. Strip clubs I can get on board with but sleeping with another girl when you're in a relationship shows a lack of respect for your girlfriend.
Like i said, i stopped sleeping around but i will not tell her it ever happened because then she would leave me
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So does this mean you regret it or no?
I don’t regret it, I regret that I couldn’t do whatever it took, to make, what I felt, shouldn’t be necessary to explain to her and then it became more or less, her wanting me to compromise my self respect, and a stand-off, which I wasn’t going to do. So, no, I don’t regret it
And, she was dealt her first dumping... so maybe I did her future boyfriends a favor, who knows... but if manipulation becomes more important than consideration of feelings, what is the point? But if she just fixed that one little thing, she would of been the woman of my dreams
Screw that bro. Cut her out and find the real dream girl.
Um you could’ve helped her getting through it I don’t know the whole story and don’t want to just start jumping to conclusions, but it probably was the time that she needed someone and you just left her
@katherinelc no you cannot help a junkie. They can only help themselves. You make life as hard on them as possible so they hit bottom faster is how you deal with them. The worst thing that can happen to them is be with an enabler like you. Recovery from opioid addiction is only 30%
People make mistakes... just saying
There's always going to be a risk and any relation ship that you decide to take on
I do regret it.