I called my girlfriend "bitch" would she ever forgive me and go back together?

[Anonymous]

My story is that i have been with a girl from different culture than mine for more than 5 months, we loved each other crazily though we had some arguiments from time to time , either from me because i have been jealous several times or from her but we always forgive each other and come back with more love and attachment.
One day , i met with a girl i knew... not on a date but i needed to meet with her to clear something about our cultural differences right after i told my girlfriend that i met with this girl , my girlfriend was very upset for one day but then we came back together like nothing happened , 2 days later , she told me that a guy was messaging her , and that she blocked him , i asked her who is this guy , she replied he is the friend of her cousin and that she never jsd anything with him but when i insisted who was the guy she admited that she had something with him i was very upset and in the heat of the moment i called her "bitch" , she blocked me from all social media and put my phone number on rejection list... i tried to contact her but she said she doent want to talk neither meet with me again , but mentioned that she needs some time.
I would like to know who is guilty for this situation? And is there any chance that she will forgive me and come back together again? And what should i do to get her back?
Thank you.

[Leo999]

I agree with ScaryCool. And while an apology and forgiveness might be good for your peace of mind, I don't think you should apologize for her sake. To be honest, calling her a bitch is a fairly tame reaction to learning she wasn't being honest from the beginning about the nature of her relationship with this other guy.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply Leo , there is an internal voice saying this to me but i loved her to the point that i feel like i can't stand up for myself against her... i guess i need time myself to overcome this.

[ScaryCool]

It sounds like it was destined to break apart. Like as if she either did that to get back at you for the girl incident or she was already talking to him and used that as an excuse to leave and seem like it was okay. Best to move on and not try to get her back.

[Calixx]

If she lied about it, that’s a red flag. I don’t think this relationship is very healthy. I’m sorry 🙁

[HANAZAWA]

You are in the wrong. Verbal abuse, lack of respect. Any form of abuse must not be tolerated.

[Benedek38]

Did you miss the part where she probably cheated on him?

[HANAZAWA]

@Benedek38
So what if she cheated. That doesn't mean or gives him the right to verbally abuse her. He can take the high road and behave like a gentleman. No one is forcing him to stay with her.

[Benedek38]

"Verbal abuse" is not a crime. You don't need a right for it. It is just cussing someone out. And correct me if I am wrong, but if your partner (if you have one) cheated on you, I am PREEETY certain you'd be calling him/her much worse things, wouldn't you?

"He can take the high road and behave like a gentleman."
Oh, yeah. Behave like a gentleman.
"Be a man! Take that beating! Take that stab in the back! Never get emotional, you are a fucking robot!"
Cast the first stone if you are innocent. If you have never been upset, and would never be, if someone cheated on you!

[Benedek38]

Dude...
She tricked you good.
Think about it. How many women would close the boyfriend they love completely out of their lives for calling them a bitch?
She had something going with the other guy, and she left you almost in an instant.

My beat guess is that she was cheating on you.

[Caaarl]

She probably was a bitch. Own your decision. Congrats you can be single.

[bklynbadboy1]

I don't know if she'll ever forgive you but if she does just remember this you have to be careful what you say cuz something's you say can't be unsaid

[CornKing]

She is a whore and a liar plain and simple don't even think about her because you know for a fact she's getting a mouth full of that other guy right now

[LegateLanius]

I agree with scary cool and leo. Move on, she seems to be quite dishonest.

[Mikey_Ramone]

Yeah my girlfriend cheated on me. So she deserved that.

[authentic_lovable]

Calling your girlfriend a "bitch" no matter what situation, is just disrespectful!!

[victorio_čurcić]

she mosy likely cheated, and that justifies calling her that. A breach of trust like that is way uglier than a word.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't do anything to get her back. She deserves better. You need to deal with your paranoia and jealousy issues first.

[Asker]

What about the fact that i was very honest with her but she lied to me , how can you explain that?

[CT_CD]

she'll forgive you

[Asker]

But would we ever come back together?

[CT_CD]

Maybe

[sidvt]

No she won't come back