Are impure thoughts considered CHEATING?

So on my youtube show my friends and I were having this debate on cheating and we started getting into this argument on what is considered cheating. So does cheating happen in the mind or is it always physical?


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  • Well it depends, sometimes its just comes natural, sometimes you think of cheating on purpose.

    I don't think it's cheating when a hot girl walks by, and you turn to look towards her.

    I think it's cheating when you're watching some bimbo f***ing the hell out of some dude, and wondering to yourself "damn! I wish I was that lucky son of a bitch."

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What Girls Said 7

  • Well, I don't consider watching p*rn cheating, but if thoughts about other girls get in the way of our sex life that would just plain annoy me, but other than that its fine. I would be pissed off if my partner was confiding in another girl more than he was with me, that's considered emotional cheating, and yea, I wouldn't be OK with that because I should know more about him then any other woman, except maybe his mum. So that is when cheating happens in the mind. But no, I don't consider thoughts about other girls cheating, because everyone does it.

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  • I think cheating can be either emotional or physical, not in the mind. It sounds like you are fantasizing- and that is completely normal AND healthy! If you look up the definition of cheating it is to defraud someone or something. So, who would you be defrauding of it is just in your head?

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  • I don't consider thoughts cheating. Though I am overall weird in the head, so my opinion really doesn't count for much :P

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  • In your mind it's definitely not cheating. Maybe if you aren't totally satisfied with your current girlfriend/ boyfriend, that's maybe why you have those thoughts. Cheating is when you actually apply your thoughts and and take action in engaging your thoughts.

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  • That is where it starts YES IT IS MENTALLY CHEATING

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  • its always physical. what you do with your mind is your privacy, you're free to think as you please.

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  • cheating can be emotional as well

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What Guys Said 4

  • Kinda but not really. Its pretty difficult to not do it. But when you do, think of it as a spark. Everything that you put into action starts in the brain. Starts as a thought, then becomes desire, then determination, then the action itself. If there is no determination then the action won't come to pass.

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  • Basically you have to cheat in your mind before you cheat physically, but it all comes down to whether or not you act out in your actions. For Christian guy, its kind of like how Jesus says that anger is not wrong, but acting out wrong in anger is a sin (Jesus overturned tables)

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  • Nah son, thoughts aren't cheating. I don't know about this Jesus guy that the other guy is talking about but not all thoughts turn into actions. That's a fact. I've thought about robbing a bank several times but I've never done it and I never will. Thoughts happen, should I be arrested for thinking about robbing the bank? Besides its safer now days to imagine something than actually do it, sexaullly I mean.

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  • Yeah I consider it cheating. I'm a Christian, and Jesus said that thoughts are basically the seeds of actions, which is true when you look at it...every evil action started with a thought and some thoughts would be messed up actions if they were full-blown. That's why p*rn should be counted as adultery in my eyes. It's up to you really, what do you feel inside about it. If it doesn't bother you, you're just gonna do it anyway...

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