I'm in a relationship with my current boyfriend for more than 2 years. I really do like him and appreciate him very much. He has his faults but I don't think I could ever find someone as good as him. We didn't fall in love per se but we have a very harmonious relationship and we are very thankfull for one another. My problem is that I find myself fantasizing about being swept away by some other guy, recently, my college colleague. I do find him attractive but I feel nothing when I see him in person + I think my boyfriend is waaaaay better than him, he's way more talanted and way smarter than this colleague of mine. Nonetheless, it sometimes feels as if I cannot help myself but fantasize about this guy. I never want to break up with my boyfriend because we get along so well but I think I have these fantasies in my head because I'm missing that "being in love feeling" (palms sweating, heart thumping...). Even tho my boyfriend is great to me, he is not a romantic type. I'm telling myself it doesn't mean anything as long as I'm not developing feelings for anyone.
What do you guys think?
