Ex is going down a bad path?

[RoryOfTheDead]

I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago, and since then she's been partying every night, which is great for her, glad she's having fun.

But now she's started drinking heavily and doing drugs. She's spent about 2 nights at her house since the breakup, every other night has been spent with different guys, that tell her "she'd be brilliant in porn."

She's got a lovely family and a full-time job, and while I'm not being pissy and jealous, I just want her to do the best she can do, and not become a whore or w/e

Does she need therapy, or just some time doing what she's doing to get over it?

Or am I just being a pissy kn*b?

[Sherry]

do you realize that you are the one who pushed her to that path in the first place? well, I guess you should talk to her about ur concern because maybe she is doing so to catch ur attention, maybe she still has lots of trapped feelings inside her and she needs to speak them out and because you are not there beside her she finds in that path her only relief., am not asking you to get her back maybe it is the best for both of you but what about trying to be her friend for a while instead of watching her losing her self,if you really cared for this girl you should take care of her as she seems incapable of taking care of her own self at that time.

[VAGitarian]

Don't blame him for it... girls are retarded sometimes!

[when-the-rain-fall]

She is trying to keep her mind busy to be no drowned by depression of a break up. If you don't have any intension of getting back together with her, I say just stand back. If you approach her, she's going to have a harder time getting over you. But "do" tell her trusted friend (older would be better) about your concern and have her to have some serious talk with her. I feel bad for your ex. It's hard to see a person go downhill just because from a broken love. but we've all been there.

[shevvon21]

u broke up wit her and this is her way of "distracting herself." she doesn't need therapy. I don't think you destroyed her that much. I guess you still care about her, but there's really nothing you can do about it. the only way you would be able to help her end her destructive path, is to get back wit her. you broke up wit her for a reason so you might not want to do that.

The only thing you can do is stay out of it and let her get over it on her own.

[beckdog23]

you obv really care for her!jsut let her no your there for her!im sure shel realise soon and change!i no what its liek iv gone down that root before going out every night and jsut geting really pissed,it blocks all pain out etc and she's prob been staying at differnt guys because she's ending up too drunk to no what she's soing