We went out to a movie before (I asked him to come with me and I paid for his ticket since he drove us to the theater about a half hour away.) Any time I ask to hang out with him alone he agrees unless he's busy, but he never really makes an effort.
I met him through mutual friends with whom he is very close to and whom he has known for a very long time. I just started to get to know these people about a year ago. They all have big loud personalities and I'm a bit quieter so I feel like I fade into the background in comparison. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't notice me at all.
I want to make something for him or write him a letter telling him how I feel. Something small but impacting. I don't mind us being friends (kinda) and I'd let him know that if he wasn't interested it wouldn't harm our friendship. I just really like him and want to a.) get my point across, b.) give him a little Valentine's day ego boost and c.) gain a bit of closure. I think I'm more afraid of missing out if I didn't tell him than being hurt if did tell him.
That being said, guys, would you mind if you got a romantic gift from a good friend or would you just feel awkward about it and wished she hadn't said anything in the first place?
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