DONT DO IT...you no longer date your ex and if they are very good friends you can pretty much bet that he already asked your ex about you (every detail has been shared). Most men after they broke up with you don't care about secrecy of your privacy. You think your ex doesn't know...he knows and most likely he has even already blessed it and told him that he didn't care if he dated you not thinking that you would do it lol or that he would go for it lol. Truly think about where you plan for this relationship to go, if its just sex and you don't mind being known as the girl shared between friends then go for it but if you like hiim for the long haul then think about you marrying him with your ex as one of his best men uuuhhh lol. Unfortunately, I am pretty sure you won't listen to me and you will go for it and then after you sleep with him he will move on or you will realize that there was a reason you picked your ex instead of him in the first place. No man marries a woman that they know their friend has already been with and seen naked. Sorry for the bad news but I suggest this is a no go and if 6 months from now or longer than it took you to sleep with your ex (which he may know when that was) that he sees you won't be easy and he is still ther pursuing you romantically consistently for 6 months then Id rethink it..
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I don't think it is wrong, it just might open a can of worms. I would take it real slow, keep my eyes open and keep all making out and sex out of it until you have dated for a while and are in a relationship. I would keep in mind some of the warnings of the Anonymous User who says DON'T DO IT. If your ex is so shy he cannot talk to anyone, well I dated someone like that so I know what you mean, but I also think it is odd that your ex's supposed best friend would do this.
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It's not wrong at all. You're ex doesn't have that type of feelings for you anymore...And I think he kinda set you 2 up.
if he's a good catch, go for it!
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