Crush on ex-coworker and he's asked me out?

[Anonymous]

I'm 17, and I used to work with a guy probably late-20s, mid-30s. He was always funny and kind to me, always giving advice and working with me to work my way up the corporate ladder. He ended up quitting a little less than 6 months ago, for income reasons. His last two weeks, he got sick, and I never got to say bye to this man who had really helped me grow and I was hard-crushing on. Fast-forward to 2 months ago; I got my promotion! He somehow found out (social media?) and got in touch to congratulate me. He lightheartedly suggested going out to celebrate, to which I equally lightheartedly fed into it, dismissing it, really. Not five days ago, he texts me again to check in; we chat a bit, and he reminds me about going out. I tried to dismiss it again, but here this older man is, asking me to hang out, the very one I've been missing for 5-6 months. We're still trying to get schedules to work out, but I need advice before next week!!! Should I go? A lot of people say it, but I am mature for my age (my parents and teachers and older people have told me all my life). I really want this to happen, but I don't want to be used for sex. My questions are is he really asking me out or does he just want to meet up with someone he sees as a little sister? if he is asking me out, does he just want sex? and should i go? but if i shouldn't, how am i supposed to just... blow him off?

[D_Bone_Steak]

So you don't want to fuck him? You can get the advice you need by text. If you want to figure out if he wants to fuck... or what you women call be more than friends, there's only one way to find out. You are the woman, so you control access to the vagina, so going out places you to let him try to fuck, but that doesn't mean you just give it up if you want to make sure it's more than just sex first.

Play boys don't keep trying very long, so if he's just trying to get his dick wet, he won't stick around very long unless he thinks he's making some progress. Hope that helps.

[mobiusforniner]

Um, maybe you should remind him you're still in high school... I'm in my mid 30s. I would NOT think of asking out a 17 year old. Like, that's just... weird.

[Anonymous]

No he's only wanting to take advantage of you. Wait till you're at least 18 tho but if he's that much older you should keep your eyes open.

[Guy13]

You are creating a legal liability by pursuing that guy knowing you are underaged.

[Avicenna]

Since you're under 18, it's inappropriate for you go out with him. you should not go out with him.

[Iron_Man]

Wait until you’re 18

[Anonymous]

You are too young for this guy.

[panamared1]

Do what you feel is right