Guys! What would you do if you had a girlfriend, everything was OK but then she ghosts you because she turned into a gold digger and found a rich man?

[Unit1]

So first she was your "faithful" girlfriend like this. She showed all kinds of affections to you like she's really into you and cared for you

But then she met someone like this

A few weeks pass and she's getting increasingly distant with you. Then all contacts cease and she ghosts you. She didn't even tell you goodbye or that the relationship came to an end.
She decided, thatt working in order to make money is too complicated and quit her job instantly also "because it's not for her".
She probably did this already with him without you knowing

And then she moved to him and has this kinda lifestyle

What would you hope for?
Do you want karma to bring justice?
And most importantly: What would you do after this event?

That's the story of my "ex". She doesn't even deserve to be called an ex. But I am really curious about the course of actions you guys would take.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. She is a really horrible person and you deserve better than this. There is nothing that you can do that will undo the harm she has caused to you.

2. There is nothing that you can do that will "teach her a lesson." She isn't going to change her ways for you or anyone else. Anything that you do trying to get revenge is simply giving her the power to make you waste even more of your time on her.

3. Reflect on the experience and try to remember if there were warning signs that you missed. Use the experience to make yourself a better person and you win! Let the experience lead you to become an angry person and she wins!

[Unit1]

I don't want to "teach her a lesson". I merely want justice. If karma wills it, I will find out about her downfall. Hopefully. But it will be a long time until that happens.

I saw the warning signs. I didn't ignore them. My brain was in position (as I expected this to happen one day anyway) but my heart was not. You know, hearts are as dumb as humans.

[Aguysopinion4799]

Sure I would be sort of upset, but I would heal myself by thinking about the fact that it was good she left if that's the lifestyle she has instead of loving me for me but rather only loving me for money.

I wouldn't want a relationship with someone regardless of their looks if they were only in it for money, so if my as you say "Faithful" relationship partner left me for a person with lots of money, it would make healing a lot easier.

[alice55]

There's nothing to do in this case. It's like a man leavings his wife / girlfriend for a younger woman. There's truly nothing to do. Everyone is free to do their choice either good or bad and not everyone have good morals (most have bad one) so I would say in this case you should feel happy she leaved you now and not after 20 years of marriage.
You got rid of a trashy person. Everything is good.

[Unit1]

I agree, although we were both anti marriage 😂

[alice55]

20 years of marriage and 20 years of relationship is kinda the same though

[Unit1]

I see what you mean now.

[nerms123]

Get rich then get a prettier girl.

[alice55]

This is stupid it mean you give importance to the gold digger, you should just act like she was never a art of your life and is completely irrevelant to you.. Why should he search revenge on some little things like that?

[Unit1]

Money 😍 and then women 😍(or gold diggers 🤮)

[lightbulb27]

I'd wish her well and hope she finds what she wants and needs. I'd thank God (or whatever) that she didn't waste more of my life (and I mean that respectfully in that by leaving, she saved us both a lot of time if what she really needed was piles of gold to feel secure) and set me free at an earlier time. there's 4 billion of them around, think can find another if want...

[cth96190]

I would move on and be happy that I had dodged a bullet.

[Unit1]

That's exactly how I feel!

[Juxtapose]

Thank the rich fuck for taking her off my hands.

You dodged a bullet.

[Unit1]

Your confidence is sky high with this one :O :D I like it

[Juxtapose]

Oh shit, I meant *your* hands.

I hate voice to text sometimes lol.

[Anonymous]

She'd be history and in 5-10 years when she comes crawling back I'm just going to slam the door in her face

[Unit1]

She's not coming back ever.

[Jjpayne]

Move on... and hope she still is friends with later...

[Barrabus_the_Free]

I'd just chalk it up to her being a typical woman, and get on with my life.

[Liam_Hayden]

I would be thankful that I didn't waste any more time with her than I did.

[Anonymous]

That’s exactly why I don’t date. I don’t trust modern women nowadays, they are so entitled and brainwashed from the media

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Let her have him and get with a real woman.

[Unit1]

YASSS!!!

[Agem123]

There's nothing you can do, but move on.

[Nayrr]

Unlucky