Guys, let's say you are in love with a broke loser girl. What would you do?

[Anonymous]

I will dump her

I will marry her

I will make her my mistress

Other

[dynamicyandere]

Assuming I was single…


Broke? I wouldn’t care about that.


Loser? Depends on what you mean.


Loser as in has very bad outlook on like and just mentally and emotionally is broken? I’d be very careful.


I may consider dating her anyway IF I thought we had an extraordinary chemistry and I could our relationship blossoming into something really beautiful.


But, if I just like her but we don’t have like an enormously special connection, then I’d let her go and maybe just be an acquaintance.


Loser as in hasn’t achieved much of anything? That’s fine as long as she’s willing to try new things and work on herself and it can be something we do together. If she can embrace personal development and personal growth as a lifestyle and philosophy, we’re good.


Loser and won’t lift a finger to change anything and is just in this bad place but not willing to do anything about it?


Bro… That's going to be a draining one-sided relationship that’s going to lead nowhere. She needs a therapist, not a boyfriend.


I’ve been that boyfriend before. The one who swoops in and becomes a depressed girl’s very source of joy and love and happiness. But, as much as you may like to give. You can only give so much before you start to feel drained. And then if they’re depressed, they will have little to nothing to give back. It can start feeling one-sided. If their having a bad day, you can cheer them up. But, if you’re going through something, there’s nothing they do to help. They’re tapped out, as always. Too buried in their own issues and problems to have any energy to spare you.


Unless they are willing to seek professional help or at least actively try to work on improving their lives, it can become a constant drain to the point where you cannot take it any longer.


Sustainability.


That’s an important word.


If you truly love this girl. You need to ask yourself whether or not the relationship will be sustainable for the long term. If not, don’t do it, because it won’t work out, and you’ll inevitably break her heart.


If you’re certain that you can do it for the long haul, and what little she can give you is sufficient to sustain you, then more power to you.


My SO has some stuff she’s working through. She grew up with an extremely abusive mother. So, she has some trauma and self-esteem issues from that. But I love her, and we’re working through things together. I’m improving myself and she’s improving herself with me. And, as long as we cooperate as a team and help each other build the best relationship we can, we have a bright future ahead of us.

[Guy13]

Love up on her as the fragile little Angel 😇 that she is.

[HateyouxD]

Men dont care if a girl has money. Only broke loser boys do

[HateyouxD]

So sorry your feelings are hurt

[OddBeMe]

If that sentence was an actual thought in my mind I’d check myself into a inceldom asylum, asap.

by the way, starting an inceldom asylum, and seeking donors. Contact me offline.

[LiamJHayden]

I wouldn't be "in love" with her or anyone else. I do not let emotions dictate my affections.

[Mayo503]

Be a friend