Girls, let's say you are in love with a broke loser decent guy. What would you do?

[Anonymous]

Marry him

Dump him

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Remember this girls if you love someone don't give up on him. Motivate him and support him even if he is a loser or broke or poor or unsuccessful. He may become a successful man one day. All men dream of a supportive girlfriend / wife including myself. Supportive girlfriend / boyfriend can make your problematic life easier. A real woman / man will never run away from his love of life. They stand together to face the problems of life.

[cryscrys1]

What’s a broke? Loser? Decent guy? Like?
What is the character of the men due to this concoction? Can you describe


Broke I get it - it means poor
Loser? In what way? Loser like when people hit him he says thank you?
Decent guy? So basically a broke and loser can still be a decent guy too? Well that’s not bad then
You are decent. Do you want to be more than that?
I think take it a step by step you can’t be a superhero if you think you are loser and decent at same time.
Don’t worry how other people view you. Trust me all humans of this earth don’t even know where they are going and what they are doing. I think you judge yourself a lot that’s your problem.
If you are poor then try to make some money little by little in 10 years if you save that will accumulate.
If you are a loser try every day to be more confident work on your body , soul , religion trust god.
If you ate decent too well not bad it means there is some hope for you.


Good luck

[Asker]

Good answer, at least you are optimistic.👏👏👏👏👏👏 We need more girls like you.

[Anonymous]

Well I am currently messing around with one. I don't know if he is decent but he seems to like using me for money and love. He asked me if I wanted a valentines date and wanted me to buy him something if I love him and he calls himself my man. I don't know what I am doing but he is cute and I like him.

[Asker]

Don't give up on him if you love him. If he has weakness, motivate him to succeed, to create a family. Thats what real women do? Real women don't run away when they have petty issues, obstacles or adversaries. They face the problems, ups and downs together.

[Jamie05rhs]

Don't let anyone use you for money. If he won't take responsibility for his own self, you will have to move on eventually.

[inhua]

no such thing as unconditional love for guys. dude is getting dumped period. no point in cheating on him either

[Guy13]

Sounds like you are being too tough on yourself.

[Justneedtokno]

This is basically the narrative for insecure on HBO. After they broke up, he actually got it together. Maybe there’s a time. Where a man hast to do things on his own you can be supportive a friend, caring and loving this person, but I can only do so much and you should be able to do things on your own, plus you need to have a plan I recently cared for someone and it was just like they were broken and I was already trying to heal and I’m trying to ask him plans of action and what he was trying to do and how did he want to resolve some of the issues that was going on with him that I ignored trying to hold onto the little stability that I had. Then when I decided that I didn’t wanna pursue a relationship with him, he felt as if I betrayed him.

[AsaKyo]

I dated a guy like that in high school, but he was an asshole on top of being poor. I could overlook him not being as fortunate as some others because it's not all about money, but if he was actually motivated about changing his situation and didn't treat my friends and I like shit and was actually a good hearted guy, then it would have been alright, but otherwise, no. Never again.

[Screenwriter]

The fact that you're saying he's broke (why is that) and a loser speaks volumes. No one wants to be with someone they consider a failure.

Broke people may have a spending or gambling problem or they're underemployed because they don't have enough skills and haven't worked at acquiring them. "Loser" is a serious putdown. This means the person can't get themself together or won't or both.

Walk away.

[melanieeeB]

Broke? Nope, I ain't dating broke people
Losers? Not a Chance, I don't hang out or even talk to losers
A decent guy? In what way? Generally yeah but if you're a loser and a broke dude... I wouldn't put that in constellation with decent guy lol

[melanieeeB]

But I recommend you working on your self esteem, self worth, self love and confidence cause your problem isn't brokeness, it's your attitude and biiiiig lack of confidence, man you're screaming insecurity and I just wanna run

[Asker]

Fine, run and marry a billionaire.

[melanieeeB]

See, your mindset and attitude is your problem.
I never said I want someone rich, but just not broke, I ain't 17 anymore lol

[MadAndBankrupt]

If you can’t buy them, Sell them your confidence.

[TT1227]

Give him a chance to get his shit together but if he continues to do the things he does then move on.

[sheenagwapa]

it depends if the gut is a prophet i might stick around

[TacosRAwesome]

What is he doing about being a broke loser? And what's decent?

[Asker]

Just an assumption. What is most important to girls these days, love or money?

[TacosRAwesome]

Love is important but there's no way in hell I'll love a man enough to be his sugar mama.

[Asker]

You don't have to be a sugar mama. You just have to give him a chance and support / motivate him to succeed. Most men lack direction in life, only a girlfriend can show him the direction. A good woman can change a man's life for good forever. Some mother's can't change their sons but a girlfriend can turn a bad guy into good guy.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not interested in making someone great for my replacement. Because we all know that's what happens.

[Asker]

I'm just saying. Don't be serious.

[OddBeMe]

What I said on your other one.

Seriously looking for donors for inceldom, asylum. If you have someone needing reservations we can haul away cheap and (mostly) uninjured.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Marry. If I love him, he isn't a loser to me.

[Asker]

You are a real woman.👏👏👏👏👏

[Haha456]

i am not willing to marry a loser. while i might be in love with him now. i just can't see us being happy life long together. i just know it will end up causing problems down the road. lastly, I will never be attracted to unambitious people.

[Asker]

Okay fine. Marry a billionaire, love money, eat money and sleep on the bed of money.

[Haha456]

lack of money can cause a lot of problems.

[Haha456]

i also don't like lazy people who lack energy to move or do anything. I like people who have a lot of energy and like to accomplish things.

[Asker]

I know that. I want to know money or love?

[Haha456]

why would i settle for that if I can have a man with money who I also love?

[Haha456]

plus, losers can't afford to raise kids. You can't raise kids off of nothing. I don't want a loser to be a role model to my kids too. As a parent, you are supposed to be a teacher , a role model. I don't want my kids to grow up to become losers.

[Asker]

I agree, I know that. Fine, go fall in love with only billionaire. Don't date any other guys. I wish you good luck. Your answer proves girls Golddigger mindset these days. All girls are same.

[Haha456]

I"m not a gold digger. I'm also not a loser chaser either.

[Chthou95]

The posts from women are just proving what a lot of men already know. You can't be a loser with no money. Women do care and that's why its important to work on your value as a man

[EmmaMary]

Personally I wouldn't be with the loser to start with.

[Asker]

Fine, marry a billionaire.

[LazerBean]

You cannot be a decent loser. You can only be one of the other.

[Asker]

Fine, marry a billionaire.

[LazerBean]

Call the Waaambulance

[LovingLoverReturned]

I'm in love with a broke lover decent guy.

[LovingLoverReturned]

I was*
I would not marry him until he get himself in order. I helped enough. And he definitely has job opportunities. He didn't grab them and bye bye

[Asker]

Don't give up on him.

[AdithyaR]

That's a very conflicting statement, how can you be a loser and a decent guy?

[AdithyaR]

Based on the way you're replying to others, you have a very juvenile mindset. You've got a lot of growing up to do.

[Asker]

You are just a kid. This is just an assumption.

[Asker]

You are juvenile.

[AdithyaR]

Well I'm not the one who immediately jumps to passive aggressively tell women to marry a billionaire just because they stated they want a partner who's financially secure.

[AdithyaR]

Personally I believe that if I was broke, I have more pressing priorities than dating. And a decent guy isn't a loser, neither is a broke guy. A loser would be a guy who doesn't responsibility for his actions and blames everything for his situation rather than take steps to make his life better.

[AdithyaR]

*doesn't take

[AdithyaR]

And it's not anyone else's responsibility to change a person, that goes for men and women. A partner supports you yes but it's not their job to sculpt you into a success, that's your job. A partner is supposed to supplement your life and add to it, not make up for what you're lacking in yourself.