My boyfriend begs and pleads me not to leave him when I’m ready to end the relationship, why?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and i have almost gotten to the point where i threw in the towel and every time he blows my phone up and begs me to stay why does he do this?

[livingthelife19]

Often times it is always helpful to look in the mirror and take a good look at yourself. Find out what it is that you can change or if anything even needs to be changed. If you love him then stop playing games with y'all emotions. Life is too short. Just be up front, love each other, stay faithful, be honest and compromise.

[winterfox10]

The fear of the unknown. If you leave him, then not only is he alone, but he doesn't know what happens next. If you stay, even if he's unhappy, at least he knows what's going on.

[TonyBologna25]

He wants to be with you? Shit is pretty self explanatory.

[Asker]

But he knows it’s not working

[TonyBologna25]

If you're going to break up, then just breakup. Throwing threats and going back on them is some weak wishy washy shit.

[Asker]

He literally says he’ll kill any other guy i mess with

[Asker]

He says “whoever else you date is going to die”

[TonyBologna25]

The man is in love, and now that he's losing you, he can't grasp his emotions in a rational way. He's lost it. It's an extreme sense of abandonment and betrayal he's experiencing. Most women monkey branch into other relationships when they leave a guy, so he's most likely assuming there's another man who has gauged your interested and simply becoming defensive. You're only hurting him more by stringing him along if you genuinely want to leave.

[TonyBologna25]

I'm not rationalizing what he said either. He's clearly in a manic state and unstable.

[Asker]

Or he’ll say “im going to fight and beat their ass”

[Anonymous]

He still loves you so if you want to break his then go ahead

[reptocarl]

Because you allow it