Ex girlfriend sent text saying " I miss you" is there still hope for us?

[Anonymous]

ex girlfriend text me and says "I miss u" I say it back she says "still not dating but I miss you" chance of getting back together.

[Ddecember]

I don't think it was fair for her to confuse in that way as understandably I would be. But if he misses you then time apart might be all it takes to bring you back together! I like to think there is always hope we all MAKE our destiny and if you want something go for it but from past experience time is a heeler ( don't get me wrong though I'm not religious so don't wana across in the wrong way lol) but y boyfriend went to afghan for 7 months and that was the hardest thing ever but after that time and seeing him again and hearing his voice I had grown so much more fonder of him, you know what they say, distance makes te heart grow fonder so hopefully over time obviuosy not as long as I waited lol but thing could get back on track and be even better than they were, wishing you luck, hope this helps and things work out xxx

[aliciaxx]

The end of relationships are always hard and it takes a long time to move on. Yes she misses you and you miss her, but just because you probably could get back together doest necessarily mean you should. People break up for a reason and when they get back together it's only a matter of time before what broke you up the first time shows up again. I recommend cutting contact until you are sure you're over her. I learned this the hard way when my ex and I after a year of dating broke up and tried again over a year later. Sometimes it does work out but more times then not it doesn't, and asking around you can see it for yourself.

[Deft_maiden]

There can be two scenarios at play Here.

1) she is being genuine. Unless someone takes a step forward to patch things over; there is no way to tell. But before that, its best to see if it is worth it.

2) she is playing games and/or has separation anxiety. In this case there are usually clues if you look carefully. In that case keep away and time will take care of the rest.

[Asker]

i feel like if I keep txting her she not going to miss me as much again, so ill try to stay no contact until she text me again. then ill answer text or calls but keep everything limited. thanks

[GoodMemory32]

Is there are chance that a meterorite can smack my head? Yes. Can I win the lottery? Sure. Do you get back with someone when they say there's still a chance? Maybe. You don't just fall back just because someone says there's a chance. You live your life and keep working and you keep things open. You decide whether you want to hold onto just a chance when you can actually open up more than one chance. If she broke up with you then remember that she's holding back that fact that split you guys up. When you guys go back again, that will come up, so remember what you have. Keep your eyes open for what you want and not just what you want because it's not yours at this sec.

[Jager66]

A) she requires drama to sustain herself

B) she's dumb

C) She needs to use you until she finds another man

D) all of the above

E) the magical love fery sprinkled lovey dust all over her in her sleep, she has now realized the folly of her ways and wants your hot maness back.

[rachelrach]

there's a big chance you'll get back together,. but take it one day at a time..dont get too excited. you broke up because of a reason. try to revisit what went strong before you start over again..respond in a nice way, let her do her part and take smaltl steps towrds healing and reconciliation. goodluck!

[Hidden_P]

Yes - she basically said to you "I miss what we have, and I haven't replaced you"

She obviously still thinks about you, and that she still cares. But don't take it too fast, just talk to her now and again, see how she's doing and then it will just flow :)

But, more importantly, do you want to be back with her?

[doudouchka]

of cours she said thet she missed you because she want to hear your voice and to feel you next to her so call her and find a way to talk with her about your situation

[girl_power111]

there is a chance. but please don't get hyper excited and start messaging and calling her all the time. just lay back. if you take one step let her take the next one.

[girl_power111]

and I say all this because there is a tendency among people to cling on to their ex even if they don't want them back.like they miss their ex and fear that their ex will move on faster than them...so they just try to hold the ex back...not out of any evil intentions but it ends up making you either a "best friend" or PLAN B. I am not saying she is doing that. most likely she wants to get back. but be careful...u don't want yourself to be turned into shoulder on which she will cry bout her next bf!

[b61983]

if she misses you and you miss her, DUH there's HOPE!

[Victorious40]

She wants you back, plain and simple. Go for it tiger.

[Anonymous]

yes, she's thinking of you and wants to be with you

[The_Duchess]

I don't know your girlfriend, but I would send "I miss you" to my ex boyfriend only if I really meant it. Good luck

[giannamarie]

OH SHE MOST DEFIANTLY WANTS IT !

FLIRT IT THE F*** UP KIDDO ! SHES THINKING ABOUT YOU

[explodingcandles]

There's a chance! Good luck. :)

[kaity-babe]

Yes...yes there is still hope

[Asker]

thx

[Shadoww]

yeh, I think she's got feelings for you:)