Are all men the same? I'm tired of them all?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most of us are but there are a few who loves to come homecan site with his woman an let her tell me how her day went an get stuck in eachother eyes an an still fill that filling that makes your ass nerves an heart race that's when you know that love is real there won't all ways be a bundle of peaches but that's when you find out if he is a boy or a man a little boy that talks tuff 99 percent of time only cares for one thing get it in an run off a man will site an try his damnest to fix it an be a pervider for that one he says I love you if no one likes this o well it is what it is boy will be tell you what you need to here an exuss for every thing a man will try like Hell to make her happy there are bad woman out there to that make us men fall for them an take advantage of them cause there heart is all about that girl so sweetie there's what I think if you both fill love work on listing to each other an boy's set your dick aside an do the things you fill her head up with shit weman will what can I say cause when that amazing play ground between silky legs gets a man every time hate this like this I f@$! ing well I'm a man to I love to face it head on

ShannonSaxon66 · Accepted Answer

Why yes we are all the same... Give us a rock and we throw it. We are not that hard to decipher. Eat, have sex and sleep. That's all we really require (as in need). Now the problem you are having, as I see it, is with the wants (thing's he doesn't need to live but will cry like a little bitch if he doesn't get them) of a man. And here is where the whole damn world goes to shit. There are very few men who want the same thing. And part of your (job?) when you are searching for and choosing your mate is to figure out if you can convince him that he wants the same thing's as you do. I am kinda thinking you are trying to get one of those men, and there a lot of them in their 20's and 30's, that is still under the impression when he gets married he is going to be the boss. They are a head strong bunch. Full of confidence. You know, the know it all kind? Probably dated a few. Opened the door for you, payed for dinner, walked you to and from the car, well spoken and considerate? Yeah right I'm talking about a totally different generation. You are looking for the right guy just the wrong place...

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Many of them act the same, behave the same, but not all of them are the same. Leave the jerks and the robots alone. Be yourself and not worry about them that don't like you for you. That's what I had to do. It's hard because Society is trying to group you all together, but unless you learn to be your own person, you just going to continue to be miserable. If you want to be around a guy that treat you with respect, then you have to learn what a respectful man is. And may not necessarily be what you want, but they'll definitely be what you need.

Mollynotgemma · Accepted Answer

Of course they are not! Everyone is an individual... perhaps you only see the one thing you don’t like about a man in all men!! Perhaps it’s not even there sometimes but something has affected you so much it’s all you see!
I don’t know you so maybe wrong... but ask yourself what it is you hate about men and see if you see that in all men... and if you do... then make sure you have a reason with each individual man to hate then for that reason! I reckon I’m some cases you’ll have just believed it was there when it wasn’t!

ash0891 · Answer

As a guy that has witnessed many females getting their heart broken I have always said I would never be "that" guy. And while I did have to walk away from a long term relationship it was because she had become what I call unintentionally manipulative, she knew I worked hard every single day to make her happy and I couldn't take it anymore because I could not see her being happy. And while most guys can say f**k that unhappy bitch, I saw it as my failure for a long time. I have since found a great woman that lifted me up, showed me my worth, and knows that I'm not the norm. I will not say that if you walk by me in a t-shirt and just underwear or some clothing that really shows off your curves I may smack your butt or drool (unfortunately all guys still have a 16 yr old part of their brain that is easily flipped on) but I prefer an emotional connection based on truth and respect first then see where the physical stuff goes. Basically I'm that friend that wants more but doesn't know how to say it. As long as I'm not given a reason to doubt a female I try to make sure they are treated like a queen, I just now ask that I can sit beside them as a king. Neither person needs to be on a pedestal, you should both be willing to carry the other when they can't walk, and try to make sure each other never falls down but if either of you do make sure you are their to help the other up. And while I hate to say I'm different because I feel like most women that see those words just see it as a bait for a trap. I like to think I'm different and a good man. I hope all of that makes sense.

Poppykate · Answer

Most people have a ‘type’. Sometimes that type is physical ( e. g. tall/ dark hair etc), and other times that type is emotional (e. g. emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or happy and available etc). You need to take a good hard look at the type of guys you are choosing and why. You may think that they have nothing in common, but if you scratch the surface, you will find that they have a lot more in common than you think. Once you work out what they have in common, (my guess would be emotionally unavailable), then dare to choose someone who is the exact opposite! You might find it quite challenging, as you might need to grow and develop as a person. We often subconsciously choose people who we are most comfortable with. But that doesn’t allow us to grow and develop.

majortom2805 · Answer

I'm not saying this to be harsh or rude, but if you're always having the same problem with men you need to look at the constant rather than the variable.

That's you.

I think most people are fundamentally similar, so if you're always hanging around the same type of people or going through the same problems then your behaviour is a factor in that. As an example, men, generally speaking, are not great at picking up on hints, so if you're frustrated because they're not giving you what you need then try changing the way you communicate your needs.

JREED9383 · Answer

in some aspects yes, but in most, no. for instance. A woman may date men and get cheated on by them and say all men are the same. but this is not the case. you just happen to be attracted to douches. it goes without saying that this happens with men as well. if you are thinking all men are the same, then you should really break out of your comfort zone and date someone you normally would not think about dating. I for one have never cheated. Yes, I can be a bit of a horses rear at times. But so can every one else. if you do not like the kind of men or women you are dating then stop dating those type of people...

i1T2daty · Answer

What could I reflll you about myself to prove that there are men that not all the same. Some questions might need to be answered privately- I don't know the nature of the questions, I'm not sure I want to reveal everything in public

You should probably not respond to questions like this either.

Katebfun · Answer

Don't blame men. You have to see what's going on internally with you. Exp. I used to attract and like emotionally unavailable men that would not commit. The problem was me I was too afraid to experience true intmacy and chose men that I knew I didn't have to dive deep with. I thought I was safe and didn't have to open my self up and be vlunerable. She's light on your blind spots we attract who we are not what we want. Change your self and I guarantee you'll attract a new type of man.

Interstate · Answer

Women say the same to me that not all women are the same, and I've realized the good ones are not interested, already seriously involved, engaged, married or divorced and have lost all interest in another involvement because they lost all their trust in the opposite sex. The same goes for men as well, they are far and few. You are welcome to send me a request and message me if you want to talk. Otherwise, Good luck Jenny!!

djmzes · Answer

Simple If you want apples you have to go in apple farm and have the requirements needed.

theronaldmcdonald · Answer

No you just have to find the right person. We all date hella trash men/women before that. Take a break from dating if your tired of the bullshit, that’s what I do until I feel prepared to potentially get hurt again. You’ll find someone great eventually!

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Im sorry your hurt.. take some time to get over your hurt.. avoid men then you can slowly let them back into your life and have a new healthy perspective... when your hurt you attract hurting people and sometimes your just a bandaid to them when they feel better they realize they want something else.. so my best advice for you is to focus on you.. do what makes you happy that doesn't involve men.. till you can see they are just like women.. there's good and bad..

esotericstory · Answer

People who only attract a specific type of romantic partner usually attract these types because they are abusers and abusers look for someone who is easy to integrate into their supply of abuse.
You should thus make yourself a stronger person to ward off these abusers and attract non-abusive potential partners.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

I have 5 things too say:

1) Damn thats sexist
2) U look hot (and no I ain't trying too flirt this time)
3) I want that shirt!
4) Define what u mean "same". Boring? Controlling? Abusive? What do u mean gurl?
5) Nope everyone has a different personality

Eagle_93 · Answer

This is a very blanket, non-descript question.

Could you please provide me with some context to the question?

Example:
Q- "Are all men the same?"

A- "All men generally have a head on their shoulders literally speaking."

See? Context is greatly needed here lol :)

Mariamariamaria101 · Answer

I can relate to you 100% and Im not trying to judge or anything but I think they're all the same. just a few are well kinda diffrent , I've been in many relationships and I always end up dealing with the same bs I used to think something was wrong with me but heck no they're just immature and most of them were fboys so Im done with them now. I will no longer get into another relationship. I will remain forever single. and after all life isn't all about men there's much more to explore.

Jacksoscar · Answer

Isn't that like asking if all women are the same? May be it's the kinda guy you choose. Where you are finding these guys? Or maybe it's you. Are choosing this the kinda guys you do with realistic expectations. Choosing a workaholic but really expecting him to be home at 5 and home on the weekends? Or the guy who beat his last partner but you believe he would never do that to you? Get the idea. Maybe try a guy that's not someone you would usually choose.

Anonymous · Answer

As a lesbian friend once told me: "I dated men and put up with bullshit until I hated men. I've been dating women for five years and I've come to the conclusion that I just hate people. Man, woman, relationship, friendship, I don't care... I just want to find ONE FUCKING PERSON I can count on."

People suck.

Anonymous · Answer

Please define what you mean by "all the same." I don't know what type of men you've been dating, age wise, religions, etc. There's a number of factors that make a man a man, but that too as far as what a real man is has different interpretations. What is making you tired of us men?

winterfox10 · Answer

You know something? I wish that I could say that men aren't all the same, but I can't tell you that. Just like you can't tell me that all women aren't the same. All we can do is work towards improving ourselves to make the small circle our influence just a little bit better.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

Are all the Catfishes the same, well no but this one is as dumb as most and doesn't check to see if the picture they use can be reversed search (Kendra Sunderland). [  ] Wohoo noodled another one =D

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

You're only 24 and already "tired" of men? Did you have a string of bad luck with those guys you got involved with?  Fortunately, there are still a lot of good men in this world.   Maybe, those aren't the kind you get attracted to.

Anonymous · Answer

Ah the bitterness is strong in this one! No-but you look hot enough that you probably only date Chads who pretty much ARE all alike. Try one of those normal "nice" guys you normally do not consider. He will be stoked to go out with a hottie and pretty much work hard to please you. But, odds are, you are only attracted to Chads.

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

No we are not the same. Women are not the same not all guys are bad. There are gentlemen out there. Just not every guy is a typical bad guy not all guys think alike.

coolhandroo · Answer

As we seek so shall we find. If you look for the good in people or won't take long to find and if you look for the evil in people it won't take long to find either. Stop looking at who had the qualities you don't like and look for what you want to find

wyzb_ondmyears · Answer

Not even remotely similar. Sounds like you might just be hanging around the same kind of guys, but we're not all the same. Honestly I can't stand most guys because I don't understand their logic and immaturity and in most cases ignorance. But there are subcategories of men that are more predominant than others and unfortunately the group of men that sucks far outweighs the group that doesn't.

notatrap · Answer

Your perception of men is whats keeping you stuck like that. You hear the same things, so you view them all the same way instead of individuals. Take a break.

tengokei · Answer

No not all men are he same but sometimes women have a tendency to go after the same exact type of man over and over not realizing they are just setting themselves up for failure. Next time try something different... look for something else. Who knows you just get lucky

Minahh · Answer

Well I think obviously majority of men share which I call instinctive behavior or typical personality traits you would associate with males. For example why many guys are attracted to blonde girls or why they have tendencies to be more aggressive, less likely to show emotions etc. However, there are still a lot guys who aren't like that at all. You just have to not settle for less than you want in order to find the right one for you.

Joe_Barbaro · Answer

There are billions of different men, if you keep running into the same type, its because you choose them. Its like going to a restaurant, ordering the same meal 10 times over then complaining how the restaurant is bad because it always serves the same

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

The fact that you have put an image of yourself here proves that you couldn't be further from being "tired of them all" and are instead desperate for some orbiter attention.

Kirby89 · Answer

No, they are not.
Well.. their needs are about the same, they are created like that. But some of them came with brains that makes them different. So you might want to find some with it.. if you know what I mean. Cheers

RawIronhide · Answer

Yep, we are... no the truth is your attitude (good or bad) is attracting a type of guy that is undesirable to you. I know it's hard but you have to change to get different results, don't get too frustrated we are all having a shit time of it lol.

supercutebutt · Answer

Men are not all the same. I have been with some guys who have average sized peens and a few with BIG THICK peens. They are all different. :)

kangy · Answer

women will always said men are all the same because of the way they behave towards pretty, hot and young girls etc.

But it depend on what you are facing now

All of us have different characters- men women girls boys

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Is all women the same? ... and I'm sure you know they're not. In some ways maybe, but in many ways we are very varied. by the way who is that hawt chick?

Reaperbot666 · Answer

Biology were all the same for the most part. And we do for the most part have the same or similar urges. However mentally we can be different from one another. At least by a bit.

laurieluvsit · Answer

I understand totally :) ...

cetm_ · Answer

Lesbians are not the sweet cherry either lol, you just hate people because they can't withstand your character and you can't do it with them too, so you are in a vicious cycle

metalhead_66 · Answer

No they're definitely not the same, but maybe you're attracted to or you attract a certain type of men

YHL6965 · Answer

You already know that the answer is no. If you come up with that kind of assumption, don't be surprised if good men avoid you if you're going to assume such things about them and you'll only end up with the same men that lie and hurt you.

NickiB1 · Answer

okay thats fine and all but WTF does this pic have to do with this question?

bazoom · Answer

No ones the same. It could be just the same attraction draws you into guys that are similar.  Just keep trying or even take a break. No need to rush into things.

MrSlim · Answer

Nope. Given your age I'd say you probably haven't met an actual real man yet, more likely a bunch of self entitled manchilds.

boogsy · Answer

You might just go after the same type of guy thus seeming that all men the same, but that is not the case at all. Try being open and go out with someone you wouldn't normally.

jeffjeffjeffjeffjeff · Answer

You sound like the type of chick who only dates men because they are attractive.  Also the image was useless in this post.

DictumVeritas · Answer

Are all women the same? I'm tired of all of them. Save for my wife, daughters and mother... they are literally different...

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Are all girls the same? I'm so tired of them all that I've never dated.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of them are the same or similar. You have to dig through a lot of trash if you want to find the gold.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

All people come with negative traits pick someone who's negative traits you can tolerate.

dwiller943 · Answer

No. But a guy who is different from most guys is rare. Because a man who goes against the social norms of male behavior is very rare and takes a lot of obstacles to get find in life.

Anoniemus · Answer

No. There are exceptionally good ones. Most men are good in my opinion. The issue is that on here it’s the opposite. :)

Shamalien · Answer

lol naw but if yer gunna be a fake fuck don't be surprised when u attract fake fucks XD juss sayin most people in general are shit, ur probs one of em, hard truth

Stephanielongoria · Answer

Wait is that Kendra Sunderland? You know I followed her on Instagram and she has that same selfie uploaded on her Instagram.

AndrewMG · Answer

To be fair there's 3 billion of us on this planet and I'm going to be honest, we all got together and decided to be the same! We thought it was our little secret but we've finally been found out!

Anonymous · Answer

No girl. You'll find someone trust me. You have to go through a bunch of jerks to meet your king. He's out there somewhere. Take your time. Dont settle for less! It took me awhile to find my boyfriend.

Skadouchebag · Answer

saying that all men are the same is like saying that all women are the same. perhaps it's not men in general who are "all the same," but rather the type of man you go after?

loveslongnails · Answer

Well of course, Jenny... every single one is exactly the same, just like all women are exactly the same! Doesn't matter who you choose, all the same !! :)

realworld2017 · Answer

Lol, the 20% of men that sleep with 80% of the hot women are the same because women are all the same. This dork proves it:

Agape93 · Answer

No. But if you aren’t wanting men, women are still available.

Finchie40 · Answer

No we aren’t all the same , some of us actually have hearts

Daniela1982 · Answer

Oh my God1 you tried them all? You Ho! Oh, wait, that was "tired" of them all! Oops, damn Dyslexia!

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