Are all men the same?

[Anonymous]

Recently got dumped from a relationship 8 months ago, and i genuinely feel like I NEVER want any man near me again ever. Growing up my dad was abusive towards me mother and me, I was placed on the at risk register for my entrie childhood. Then at 17 I was raped by an unknown man whilst walking home from my friends, I then got into a relationship (my first) and he too was abusive physically, the relationship lasted 8 years. I then found the courage to leave and a few years later met my recent ex who I adored, I genuinely felt so safe and I trusted him more than I had trusted anyone. We were together 6 years and then out the blue he tells me it’s over. I have never felt so used and hurt, and he’s managed to hurt me more than anyone else. I feel like I never ever want to meet or let a man close, and I’m prepared to live the rest of my life as a single woman. Are there really any good men out there?

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately until you recognize it you’re going to keep picking men homage like your father as well as men who are like the man who did what he did to you. Yes there are a lot of good men out there. The problem is a lot of women date one or two men who turn out to be the same, not realizing it’s them who’s attracting these type of men, then say all men are the same. A majority of women won’t even date 80% of men cause they find them unattractive but some how women think that again all men are the same. The man who dumped you probably realized you had a lot of problems. You might not have thought so but he probably seen other things you didn’t.

[Anonymous]

Only the men YOU choose.

Saying all men are the same is like a guy asking are all women the same? Are all women abused whores? Probably not. But if that's all a guy ever went out with it would seem to him that that was the entire world.

Hope that helps.👍

[Anonymous]

There aren't any good women nowadays, so men have realized that. Except for the r8p, you deserve it for choosing the wrong type of man, women are choosers, you chose wrong.

[Anonymous]

It's sad (and ignorant) how many men and women today have a bad experience and assume all of the opposite sex are the same as the one who hurt them.

[Anonymous]

No, we are not.

There are some good men, but lots of girls choose "bad boys".

[HelpfulWoman]

you really dumb enough to ask this?

[LazerBean]

Of course not, that's ridiculous.

[slatyb]

Just as much as all women are the same.

[Still-alive]

We aren’t a monolith

[sirderpsalot123]

All men are not the same.

[ehatsham_hussain]

All person are different.

[PepperJackson]

Anon? lol