Does anyone actually think all men are the same?

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There are many things to learn about men, but one thing that doesn’t get enough credit is how monumentally different men are from each other, and this is can be seen as a good thing.

Where one man is lazy, another will do whatever it takes to achieve his goals. Where one man is selfish, another will bend over backwards to please others. Where one man has an anger or attitude problem, another will be pleasant and even tempered. Where one man is one trick pony, another is a one man show. So much variety that it interests me anyone has ever tried to say all men all the same.

Ladies, I promise you, for every man you think you hate, his opposite does exist. But can you recognize him when you see him?

RiseofArtemis · Accepted Answer

Ask any modern day feminist and they will say 90% of the time all men are pigs and all men are rapists. That's the same as saying all LGBTQ people are Pedophiles.

Both are only filled with hate for the other and lets face it modern feminism isn't about equality anymore but superiority. If they can't be as good as men they get extra rules to bypas all those challenges to get the same level. Why else would there be a ridiculous rule for corporations to have a certain amount of female employs at the higher level. Sounds like they want to reap all the benefits with no effort. Which is going to hurt the company in the long run as they usually only put in the most capable people in high positions and don't care for what they have between their legs. But now with that law its going south really fast in most companies. women with a bachelors degree get positions for which a masters degree for men was needed. That's the first sign something isn't good.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Of course people think that. That saying is culturally pervasive. Everyone has seen it in shows, movies, books and on social media. Most men have heard it. Most women have said it. This question literally wouldn’t be possible if it was never or even rarely said. My niece said it aloud at a family gathering when she was only seven. Did she conjure that saying out of thin air, or had she heard it dozens or possibly hundreds of times? She’s twenty-something now and i’m not sure she’s outgrown it. Ell oh ell!

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Who would ever be stupid enough to think an entire gender throughout over 200 countries and cultures are ALL the same? Jesus, two identical twin brothers are usually nothing alike as far as personality goes! Anyone who ever dated more than one guy, knows that those guys are nothing alike. There are some characteristics that many men share, but commonalities are not being the same. And even those guys who share certain commonalities are nothing like the guys who do NOT share those commonalities!

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

Umm I think in regards to settling down I do.
They always want to be settled before they nest.
Usually a decent salary, done all they wanted sexually, done enough boys things, decided they were done playing the field.

Unless those things are checked off the list most men won't give a woman the proper chance she deserves.

globetrotter22 · Answer

THANK YOU. This why a lot of men have so much animosity towards modern feminism. Those people almost without fail stereotype men as whole.

Now I guess I am stereotyping women as a whole if I think all of them think the same way towards men. But obviously your different. But I did create a poll about this a while ago:

Do women generalize more about men or vice versa?

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I know some women think all men are the same which is kind of ridiculous because of how different our personalities can easily vary just like women. Some people are laid back and chill while others are more passion and fiery. We might have similarities on certain things but to generalize an entire group of people because it’s easier to process things mentally is absolutely baffling to me.

Theabcking · Answer

I don't date women, I date a woman. You don't date men, you date man. I can point out all the similarities about women and things I don't like about women all day, but it doesn't matter. All that matters is the woman sitting in front of me and who she is as a person. Same with the man you date. Find what you love about that man.

Autember · Answer

Honestly I think all men are the same and all women are the same.. TO AN EXTENT. humans have the same thoughts, but the way we express those are individual.

So no, my final answer is that technically not all men are the same on the outside haha

StrongMale · Answer

This is a very keen and thoughtful observation. And nice to hear. Too often, we guys get lumped in together by that tired, overused phrase, “all men are the same”, when one guy does something to draw the ire of a woman. You are so right. We are most definitely not ‘all the same’. Far from it! Thanks for acknowledging that, and for saying it.

PeteBy · Answer

What a lovely, well thought out post MzAsh. It's easy to make sweeping statements based on bad experiences but not all men are the same.

Likewise not all women are like my past relationships. It'd be easy to tar all women with the same brush but I knew there were good women out there and after some bizarre to downright batshit crazy women. I found the love of my life and been together 11 years. So there's good people out there of both genders.

Yomamakshsis · Answer

Absolutely not. Some men are total douchebags only in relationships for sex, or they sexually/physically/mentally abuse women. Some men are super kind and respectful to everyone, and I’ve had my share of guys like that. I wish there were more of em out there. 🥲 Some guys can be super introverted, some super extroverted.

genericname85 · Answer

that depends what you mean. there's sure some variables in which most men are the same.

but truth is if you always end up with people who have the same bat characteristics that you hate, then the problem is with your choice of people not with the people.

MountAverage · Answer

All men are the same.
All women are the same.
All people of X race/ethnicity are the same.

If you believe any of these statements to make any sense, you are a very very very dumb person. And no amount of personal experience in dealing with men/women/this or that race or ethnicity you might have had that caused you to think that way, changes the fact that you're a very very very dumb person for thinking that way.

ZS007 · Answer

exactly not everyone is alike. so it's shocking that a majority of you to the question all women are hypocrites agreed.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Of course, woman too. The correct term for those people is Filthy Casuals. The ones who differ (which are very limited in numbers) are the Giga Chads

736_switch_blade · Answer

I have recognized some. But some men are very clever. And can play mind tricks and they tell you what you want to hear. And since I’m kind of naive I have fallen for that previously. But yes I can confirm not every man is the same but only a few are different from others.

Nash62826 · Answer

No there are a few rare exceptions, just don't step off the deep end into the ocean just small steps feel around a little bit bypass the seaweed and algae and shells, however, u bump into a shark swim back to shore about the mission.

MrOracle · Answer

There are certain areas that nearly all men are the same - and the same with women - but there are plenty of other areas where there are differences, big and small, between us. We're certainly not monolithic in every way.

DavidRaul · Answer

Thats true. All men are not the same just like all the women are not the same. Some people don't get it

awwazraa · Answer

Of course not. Opinions among women would vary depending on their personal experiences with men they have come across. Some may have bad experiences which results is those women saying “they hate men”. This doesn’t mean she meant ALL MEN , just those men she encountered. Then there are ones who have had good experiences who would love men like me ☺️

AndrésC64 · Answer

Thank you. I'm so sick of seeing posts on here implying that all men, and women for that matter, are all the same and that there's no overlap between the two and how they act.

NathanDavis · Answer

not all men are the same... nor all men is always the same man, something else to consider there , lol

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

hell no. I met someone on here and he's totally not like the other guys ifykwim and that's what I really like about him

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